relationships
Are they really that difficult to form? I have been on this dating site for over 2 years...think I am pushing 3, but who is counting. Before a relationship (speaking of couples here...married or unmarried but exclusive to each other) can start, it is very typical for people to date first to see what level of compatibility they have. If the dating process goes smoothly with each person, a relationship may very well develop.This is a dating site and I have heard of very few dates in my umpteen years I have been on here. As just mentioned, dates are just the usual beginning of potential relationships. Some on here may feel that since there is long distances between people here, that blogging is a good way of getting to know somebody. However, there is only so much two people can find out about each other with blogging and messaging. I have found it very rare that people are willing to share their bad traits in public format or even private messages, bad traits that could easily make or break any sort of relationship from potentially moving forward. So, blogging and private messages, in my opinion, cannot replace actual physical dating.
The long distance between people is a reasonable reason why some dates actually do not happen. From what I have seen, not all people have this huge distance between them and meeting up for dates is very possible...with a little effort. With that said, there are not many dates that I am aware of that have took place here in my years.
What are our intentions on this dating site....or any dating site for that matter? Are we very cautious to jump into a relationship and just patiently sitting back and waiting for that indisputable magic person to show up...that person who can break down our walls we have surrounded ourselves with?
I wonder...even for myself...the feelings I have that I am not even looking forward to even going on a date at this moment. But, I will...if some sort of magic person befalls upon me. ....the idea of a relationship.
Does anyone else share with this?
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But, the advice you offer is spot on. The blogs have only gotten me so far. It was a great initial step. Now it is time to take the next one.
Go for it!!!!! yes yes yes !!!! I´ll keep my fingers crossed for you.
When that ground is cracked or broken, rough or otherwise impaired, the relationship may form but suffer in growth or strength.
We can be in relationships with many people, but what defines a relationship?
That is the question.
And I know you are a ponderer of questions, Johnny.
Let me think about that one a bit...I have one trait that defines a loving relationship.
But, I would think the comfort one feels around the other is a good start.
"There Are The Relationships Johnny"
"That Arent Being Broadcast"
"For all The World To Know"..................................
I personally do not know but I can more than likely safely assume that you are 100% correct.
Thank you.
You'll have two women/ mommies and need a bigger house.You could have an efficient home.
Tomorrow, my picker might be picking some sort of half puma / half hairless rat.
She is a close match, that woman. But, I would have liked to see a little more puma in her.
I know what you mean.. (I do?). I'd like to find a lady half my age, so that I cannot keep up with her, but at least I'll die smiling.
Anyways, I'm not that shallow, really. Well, okay, I am.
I like a lady that can, well, hmm.. Heck, just SOME LADY who likes me! Is that too much to ask for? And if her friends nicknamed her Bushy One, that's okay with me too.
Okay....well....that just sounded good.
upper 20's is not half my age, that is close to my age.
for a moment there, I thought you said, I have a SICK SENSE. Some women may actually like that.
although...
sixth sense and 1 in 6....what are you really saying Ashes?
and another saying also applies here, "Always carry a big stick"
Well Ash...let's put a little serious attention to your message behind the message.
What sense would I trust the most...
my smeller is okay
my toucher is just fine
my eyes have deceived
my hearing is sketchy
my expanding appendage is perfect
You know what really gets me going the most are my lying eyes....unfortunately.
but....
if commonsense were a sense, I would trust that the most.
take care Ashes, you are always a blast.
Ahem.
okay, I will report back tomorrow with your latest report....to report what I need to report...
good night ashes. :)
BTW Cheeseburger IS pretty irresistible:Eau du White Castle.
And if you Spill catsup on your red dress.
C'mon CH,toole LA roo (I think I hear your wolves howling again)
...k, let me see what you got going on here.
Okay, lets move on to your second one.
If a woman is wearing red and she spills catsoup on it, did she really spill catsoup on it?
Anybody I have dated, I was chatting to them for ages and ages before we finally met up.
We already knew so much about each other, and knew we got on well, so the actual meet up was just a continuation of our chats, with a little flutter of those glorious butterflies thrown in