Here we go, honey, we are slowly catching up with you guys. How about some of those dam good women car drivers at the Indi 500. I like my foot to the petal when I can.
Some of you guys and your wild driving, come on. Danger, I'm saying, weaving in and out of traffic going fast? You really are trying to start the discussion of a life time, women drivers and men.
Oh, I just love the big truck drivers passing me and sending a rock my way.
Wat? I was talking about pants coming down, like the song here in the states. I get tired of American Idol, but the guy who sang that was a scream. I was sent a clip of it. Thank goodness I didn't have to watch the show. Apoligies to those who enjoy it. It doesn't do much for me. But I do like Carrie Underwood, "Won't be cheatin on me again..."
Nice kisses and most being there when you really need them. You can call them and they are there, that's a great man to me. I know we cry more, etc., but we are different. You all keep it in and we let it out.
But we somehow can't get enough of you guys. We just like you.
My dream man is on "Lost", the guy who was a LA detective in the past.
Now he is running around on the island. Boy, is he cute. Ladies, if you want to see a good looking guy tune into "Lost". I just started watching the show, now I'm hooked. Though, reality was off this week. Somehow a submarine is near the island. That cracked me up.
I am feeling much better now. In fact, we had a problem for not far in the relationship, he said he would never marry but would live with someone. It was out of his own experences that he said he felt that way. He had a bad marriage. But he got a wonderful boy. So I told him, thank the woman you married for the best thing in your life, that boy who you love so much that you got out of marriage and stop whining about how bad marriage is. It is all that you make it.
I decided maybe marriage wasn't for me since I am paying for my own divorce after he cheated on me and got her pregnant. He said he would pay the fees and was a liar, but what do I expect? One thing he has been good for is helping me with vet bills for our pets. So I give him that. But he did get out of support for me for almost a year that was agreeded by him and the lawyers saying he had no money. He did and I needed the help.
Now for the loser who was in my life, it was a hard day yesterday but I am moving on. I guess you just need to get a new dream in site and get rid of the old. It's hard to just go from being a couple to single.
I am separated but waiting with joy for the final divorce papers, due in about 30 days.
The old man is coming to town to get tax papers so that should be interesting. He lost his best friend but I doubt he really misses me that much. He is lost in his own world of speed, Harley Davidson's, etc. When we separated, he had 3 HD's. I told him all he was lacking was 4 more so he could have 1 for each day of the week.
I do not think too much of a person who thinks more of his toys and his wife. One of the HD's were going to be our tour bike. I thought we could reconnect. Yes, we reconnected, in divorce court because that was about the time the cheating started. I got to pick out the color of the bike, the suspension, and style of the back seat. It was a beautiful bike. I was the one who cried when he sold it. I was a graphic designer so I picked the best color there was. Yes I was a Harley Mama.
After it was over, I gave all my gear to my best Girlfriend. Now I hate those word's. HD, it's a cuss word to me. I loved the air while I road on the bike, true freedom but never again. I will go to an Amusement park and go on a roller coaster if that is what I need.
Thanks again, Poco We all have been there at one time or another, haven't we
Sometimes the love of our life never sees your true gifts or sometimes they do and it is too late. Maybe they are only takers and not givers. What a match- two givers together who love each other,respect each other, and really want a life together. They can ignore the little bothers in life, laugh, and be happy. and be happy.
Why are we wrong to make it magical? That is the way a lot of us think. I think you men just bring us down and leave. A lot of you just can't be honest so we think things are fine. We will start to question what is going on like she is right now, but you guys lead us on with all your talk.
There are not that many real guys around, mainly players. Not to say there are not women players. I can see that also. Just my point of view.
I'm sure she isn't feeling too good right now facing up to reality. The games you guys play, shame on you.
After the collapse of my marriage, I thought I had found someone wonderful. He was coming to see me, we had been seeing each other several months. I called him early morning today to see if things were on tract, and he hestitated and you know what is next.
"Oh, about that, well, I care for you but I have decided I want to go out with other women."
I do not think that is caring at all. It is waiting until the last minute and being a player the whole time. That is all I can think. I wasn't what he wanted anymore so it was time to let me go. I really cared for that guy. Now, I've thrown out everything that reminds me of him. I go from crying to anger. I do not like being used. I trusted him and this is how it ends. I had been trying to call him for about 2 hours. He said he knew I went to be late, so he was going to tell me the truth even later if it came to it. Who can have a heart of stone to treat someone like this.
Sorry, but I just feel like I have been had and it brings flashbacks of my rejection by my ex to be. I had tried to pick someone who was not a bit like him but it happened.
Maybe she is deeper in thought than you are driven, perhaps an artist or multi-layered. To have good days and bad are pretty normal for most, isn't a bad thing. Pretty normal I'd say.
I was married for 25 years also, and the worst ending, cheating on his part.
I am much happier without him. I'm sure many will disagree with me, but I count that time as a waste now. I don't have the wedding album or photo's, I gave all back to him, wanted no part of it.
At one time, I could feel him slipping away from me, that was when I was in pain because I knew we were near the end.
I only wish, he could have had the decency to end our marriage before going to another, but he didn't.
My best night was the night I left, it was so stressful being around him. I loved having a place of my own away from him.
But, I am sorry yours ended so Poco, that was a beautiful letter and I hope the best for you.
Who is that babe you are holding? You look very happy, I'm glad.
but my version is, Glad to meet you, what took so long, you have made me strong.
Thanks for all the remarkable creations you have made and I do believe in you.
Thanks for all that I have received in my life.
In other words, I believe because I chose to believe, no one cannot make me unbelieve. I just wonder about those who do not believe like my ex to be, would he have so much depression if he believe in some kind of power with all the bad things in the world today? Sometimes, I wish I could help him, but he has chosen his own path and I have chosen mine.
I do not force my beliefs down someone. I have had this done to me and I do not like it. I believe some take this too seriously and are obsessed with converting people. I do not think that ways works.
After closing a box, another wonderful box can open.
I wish I had never opened the first box, it nearly killed my soul. Thankfully, time did heal the blow. I have to say I feel differently about the minus and plus of a relationship. I would rather have been spared betrayal. In my mind, whatever good was ruined forever and alot of time wasted.
But I have closed the bad box and am a stronger person so that is about the only plus to the experience.
I have owned 3 rescue Dobermans=Doberman3. I am a volunteer for a Doberman Rescue Group. I love the breed. Wiley the Coyote, a blue Doberman has just been invited to go to a pub with me. He is very friendly. Quite the opposite of their reputation. He is a lap dog and very silly.
Oreo, you look very young for your age. I do also. I noted on your profile, that you would date up to age 62, wow.
As to the question about younger or older, yes, I guess I am considered a cougar. I have dated younger guys and found them pretty dopey. So I go for guys younger than my age that I get along with, no more than 10 years difference or men older to a certain point.
I have a boyfriend here on CS and am very happy with this site. I have met a nice guy and have some friends here.
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RE: 4 20 or not ?
4:20 is the time of the day, either AM or PM,