For me there are limits, I don't travel well and really would not want to be in a relationship where you could not see you partner at least weekly......
Jack decided to go skiing with his buddy, Bob. So they loaded up Jack's minivan and headed north.
After driving for a few hours, they got caught in a terrible blizzard.
So they pulled into a nearby farm and asked the attractive lady who answered the door if they could spend the night.
"I realize it's terrible weather out there and I have this big house but I'm afraid the neighbors will talk if I let you stay in my house"
"Don't worry," Jack said. "We'll be happy to sleep in the barn. And if the weather breaks, we'll be gone at first light."
The lady agreed, and the two men found their way to the barn and settled in for the night.
Come morning, the weather had cleared, and they got on their way. They enjoyed a great weekend of skiing.
But about nine months later, Jack got an unexpected letter from an attorney. It took him a few minutes to figure it out, but he finally determined that it was from the attorney of that attractive widow he had met on the ski weekend.
He dropped in on his friend Bob and asked.... "Bob, do you remember that good-looking widow from the farm we stayed at on our ski holiday up north about 9 months ago?"
"Yes, I do." said Bob "Did you happen to get up in the middle of the night, go up to the house and pay her a visit?"
"Well, um, yes," Bob said, a little embarrassed about being found out "I have to admit that I did." "And did you happen to use my name instead of telling her your name?"
Bob's face turned beet red and he said, "Yeah, look, I'm sorry, buddy. I'm afraid I did." Why do you ask?"
"She just died and left me everything."
(And you thought the ending would be different, didn't you?... now keep that smile for the rest of the day.
If you are continually let down by someone then there is no relationship. The odd let down is get overable, we are none of us perfect or able to always be there 100% with the best will in the world. But sometimes we have to ask ourselves if we expected too much from someone in the first place.
I have only dated one guy that was older by 5 years than me. I seem to always attract younger men, 14 years difference the most. It is a number in your head and for the people concerned to cope with. But I could not be with a man any younger than the 14 years, it would not feel right to me.
Makes no difference if your on the internet, out at a dance or pub, or anywhere, you may think you like the look of someone, but then decide for whatever reason, they are not for you.
Men do this as well as women.
It is called getting to know someone and if you don't click then people move on.
It is not always a reflection on anyone just a lack of further interest, it is life and it is how it has always been done, nothing changes just the medium.
Of course cs is addictive, how else can you exchange views and communicate with so many different people any time you wish from the comfort of your lounge?
Of course cs is addictive, how else can you exchange views and communicate with so many different people any time you wish from the comfort of your lounge?
That has happened to me and I was not impressed with the deceit.
I spent the afternoon walking around Cambridge with him and never went out with him again. I fact I only emailed a couple more times and just totally lost interest.
As a senior citizen was driving down the freeway, his mobile phone rang.
Answering, he heard his wife's voice urgently warning him, "Herman, I just heard on the news that there's a car going the wrong way on Interstate 77. Please be careful!"
"Hell," said Herman, "It's not just one car. It's hundreds of them!"
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