No Heinz, being a vegetable, your choice is the veg counter.
I find the meat counter more interesting. In fact recently I came across some very interesting meat, and it was'nt pork, and it was'nt displayed at minus 5 degrees. It was at room temperature and about 39 degrees of body temperature......which is fantastic to the touch. And it smelt of Armani or D&G cannot remember right now!
Have you ever heard the expression" feeling lonely in a crowd"?
You feel lonely in a crowd because notwithstanding the great number of people surrounding you, you know none of them.
Should you know even one, you would not feel lonely any more.
So my advice to you is to have at least one friend, male, or female, makes very little difference. What makes the difference is that you have somebody to talk to, to relate to.
But how could you feel lonely if you are a part of CS, and if you contribute and exchange views with so many hundreds of us? Maybe you can explain this. Or is yours just a theoretical question?
You tell me coward? You don't know what you are talking about lady! I've been married for thirty four years, and brought up two children. No marriage is easy, and mine was not an easy one at all, but I held it together. And you tell me coward, just because I want to enjoy my freedom, my dates, and not want to go through hell again?
We will have to see how long yours will last, and if you will be prepared to give so much to it to make it last.
There's much more to the half full or half empty glass theory here. There might not be a glass, or the glass might be all empty.
What would I do with my life, if I could relive it?
I would do all the things that I have failed to do, and none of the things I did.
There is a funny thing that most people cannot understand about my life. There is a big difference between the person I am and the job that I do. In some cases, the difference is so startling that the job does not reflect the ability or the personality of the person involved.
I have always looked at myself living at different levels. I conceive myself as one person, but live like another. I am able to do greater things, but income demands make me do things that pay more, but that contribute very little to my pride, my lifestyle or to my ability. And when there is no choice, life drags on, with me living mentally on one level, and circumstantially on an entirely different level. I hope some of you understood what I mean
When you join connecting singles, you have no mission, and no specific contract. Usually people join in because they feel that they need to use such a venue to help them find someone to love....their ideal partner....from a very wide choice and from many countries. Some feel that they are no longer isolated in their bedroom or office, and that somewhere out there there are people just like them, wanting to share some experiences with them
Once you find someone, either from the site or from elsewhere, you can hang on for the forum contributions, or just to exchange some e-mails.
the most important thing to do though, is to behave ethically, and to make it clear to one and all that you are single if you are single, or that you are not in for dating or romance, but for the good times. Like this you will not be leading anybody on.
After all the scope of connecting singles is to connect singles and making them doubles or a couple. Otherwise this site would be useless.
When that happens and you want to stay on, just say that you are in for the fun though, and that you are no longer looking for a partner.
Yes I do, although not as much as I used to. Most of what I say is indecipherable though, except for a few key words, which usually don't make any sense to the hearer.
Sometimes I used to cry in my sleep too, when somebody hurt me badly.
And I remember a few occasions when I woke up dead scared from a dream I was having, in fact so scared that I used to try to scream, but fear would not even allow me to scream.
No not till a more improved version comes along, but until you start feeling something you have never felt before with the other twelve or so lovers that you had and lived with....then maybe you will know that not all love stories are merely carbon copies, but some are just cohabitations, while one turns out differently and turns your life up side down.
How is the man supposed to guess that? You liked him, you asked him, now are you going to tell him where to stop, or are you going to see if things go beyond your drink and maybe your expectations? Is the drink at your place, his place or the crowded cocktail bar where you have to howl to talk? Do you believe in spontaniety....is that the correct spelling? or not What do you do if things go beyond the drink? Do you just put down your glass and leave?
A bit of a sticky topic to discuss here in a few words. The thread was marriage. For most this is taken as a contract for life. Living with somebody also has its obligations, but a love story can be terminated, before a new one is begun without the risk of any betrayal. That in a nutshell is the idea. My contribution was not meant to give the impression that one had to wait foever in the hope that the right person came along. No one can afford to stay alone for that long until that day.
No doubt emotional. You can decide on a plan for recovery for physical pain emanating from physical injury, but you have no control over emotional pain, and there are no medicines for curing it.
I personally think that size counts a lot, although it does not make an incapable person a good lover.
I remember in my younger days sombody who was known for size, and all the women of the area, single or married, queued wherever he was to have a"go".
I am not a woman, so i cannot imagine the exact motivation, but they cannot be all wrong. Size has something to do with it, if not for performance, for image, some kind of status symbol.
So if your girlfriend tells you that you are "small" it is like she was riding A Rolls and now she is down to a Mini. Not very complimentary, and definitely does not put up your ego.
Then she' d better get herself a gun and do it herself, because it takes more than a romantic lover to do that.
If that was really necessary, it would not involve making a necklace out of the animal's teeth, and presenting it to this pseudo or should that read phsycho romantic female!
you are "small" compared to her last boyfriend, what effect would it have on you phsychologically, every time you made love to her? Would you be thinking about that issue at all, maybe thinking that bigger is better, and that you could not be as good as somebody better than you? This is a hypothetical thread, so please take it as such.
Impossible situation for me. Always been self employed, except for one time when I offered my services as a consultant in a manufacturing industry concern. They had two years backlog. Half the machines were inoperative, as was the motor/truck delivery system.
In two months, I got the machines working, the delivery up to date, and the backlog was gone. The boss said I was so good that at the speed of work that I organised the factory, there was nothing else to do. So he fired me, but that meant continuing to pay me for staying home till the end of the contract.
Yes, I go and kiss all the nice girls at a party, pretending to know them LOL. It works. They say they remember me from way back when, but it is not true. Still they accept to take a drink with me "for old time's sake" What old times?
Make sure that there is enough water below, though.
You will spend some time swimming and drying yourself, so you won't feel bored for some time anyway.
If the water is very cold, you will remember not to get bored too soon in the near future,or it would mean that you will have to do it one more time! LOL
I would tell them to stay away from marriage at any age. Marriage is a ruiner of lives. Who needs to get married to be happy? What kind of life is it to give up your freedom, to give up your resources to bring children into the world, with all that responsibility to educate them, and to be accountable for whatever they do?
That time, that money could have been better spent allowing you to relax, to concentrate on your growth and in full enjoyment of your freedom. Your money, spent elsewhere would have allowed you to enjoy life not to pay bills.
No marriage, no headaches, no divorce and no costly settlements, and no children running from parent to parent.
And no marriage also means that when the right person comes along, you could have the affair of your life without betraying anyone, husband or wife, because you don't know when that irrestible person, who is your true soulmate is going to turn up in your life!
Then you're not going to get any romance from me. I am an animal lover and would never kill one to impress any woman. In fact if I had to choose who to kill, it would'nt be the animal for sure, but the one who would have asked for the animal's head. She would be the most unromantic of females!
Do you drive a car with a personalised number plate "BRUNETTE" by any chance? I ran across a car several times last week with this number plate. It was in or around the Sliema area, I think. Was that you?
Romantic is a mood. So being romantic is being in the mood for romance.
One cannot say that it is an inborn or aquired skill, because it is not something we feel with everybody all the time. So we might act very romantically with somebody we feel very attracted to, but completely un-romantically with somebody who means nothing to us.
Being romantic though is not just a question of feeling, it is also our ability to express what we are feeling inside.
Don't know much about this woman you're talking about, but the one I referred to said her power came from God, and at the end of the sitting, said a small prayer to thank God for helping her foresee the future of my friend.......and he was so impressed, he could not even stand up from the chair he was sitting on.
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RE: date/supermarket
No Heinz, being a vegetable, your choice is the veg counter.I find the meat counter more interesting. In fact recently I came across some very interesting meat, and it was'nt pork, and it was'nt displayed at minus 5 degrees. It was at room temperature and about 39 degrees of body temperature......which is fantastic to the touch. And it smelt of Armani or D&G cannot remember right now!