And if the woman had to remark that the last time she heard that tune she danced it with Jack, and the last time she ate at that restaurant she was with Joe, and the last time she went to X place she was with Y????
I have never experienced hate as opposed to when I experienced love. For me if I felt something for my ex, it would not be hate. It would simply be pain emanating from a finished relationship. If my partner started to show indifference, then maybe it would be a clear sign for me to slow down, not to continue to love with such intensity. When you find a new love you come to a point where you are no longer interested at all in your ex. That is when you become indifferent to what she does. If she is happy, it is her business. If she is not, it is also her business. You don't care any more, because you have your own love to take care of.
Can a woman really forget her ex when dancing cheek to cheek to the same tune with her new boyfriend? What influence do those thoughts, those beautiful memories that she has in her baggage, have on her new relationship? When she hears a song, dances to the music or goes to a familiar place, what sort of emotions do these things conjure in her?. Are these not counterproductive to her new relationship? How should a man react if he were to know that whatever he is trying to do to be romantic and loved, his girlfriend has already been there, done this and that with somebody else? And that she is just re-living those moments again through him and with him?
I know what bun in the oven means, but the joke was how I was supposed to find a bun if I put in a cake. The bun could be found somewhere else a bit more exciting and a little less hot!!
Sure, they want to be loved, by whom, by the dustman, or by the prince. Is it possible that it makes no difference to them? If it does then the answer to what they want is "simply to be loved" is not enough to express what they want. Love alone is not enough. And what is the love you are talking about? Physical love? spiritual love? platonic love? What is love anyway??
Surely they want that too, every day, perhaps many times a day, but this is a shared pleasure, so maybe it does not fall under what "women" want, but under what a couple want. I for one am all in for it. Why not? It is free, satisfying fulfilling and relaxing. What more can one ask for??
As a "hands on" man, I have come up with a good idea. Bring the oven by the bedside. So according to MARTI the man would watch over the cake, but still be in bed.......hands on!! Energy saving solution? Or solution generating energy?
But then you would have paid him twice sweet MARTI, and would have risked burning the cake, if you liked what you were doing, and wanted to do it again .....and...again!!
Yes Smoky, the smell of male pheromone ( I hope I smelt that one right)
Nothing mysterious about womens' odours, they spray every inch of their body with perfume, so the smell of gardens and flowers is not emitted by the female body, but it is the result of endless money spent on perfumes and deodorants!!!
Without wanting to go into the merits of the findings, and to comment about them, may I congratulate you on your contributions.
Very rarely, somebody comes up with something interesting, worth reading. This is a very different situation from other contributions which are nonsensical and ridiculous, or those dreaded kinderkarten stuff of word associations etc.
If I wanted to ewnjoy the company of a )female) friend during the weekend, I would never call her Friday night, but Monday morning, and keep phoning and reminding her by sms all the week through. That way I assure myself of her company.
As for Monday, well, I guess nobody likes Monday morning, but I only think about it when the alarm clock rings, not a minute before.
That way I enjoy life as best as I can. Mind you, it is more likely that she wakes me up Monday morning than the alarm clock, because that is where she would be after the Friday/Saturday entertainment!!
Do you mean that? Cos if you do, you are going to make me dislike you. I am a great cat lover!!! But I don't believe anybody could really hate cats, they are some of the sweetest animals in the world......And by the way, I am a LEO, I come from the cat family, so please careful about what you say about my family!!
Could'nt agree with you more Jacko, except for the line where you tell him to come to Britain on whatever condition.
Britain's population is so adulterated with these immigrants legal or illegal, that the English themselves are finding it difficult to believe that they are still living in the country they were born in a few years back
I don't know if I found the right woman yet, so I cannot tell you how many women I should date to find the right one.
What I can tell you for sure is that if we both manage to have some good fun together every time I have a new date, I would be very happy indeed. It is adding experience to my life, and with every date it is like putting some more savings into my bank. So I don't need to win the lottery (finding the perfect match), all those little glorious moments of fun add up to the jackpot prize in the end.
More seriously, I think that the fun is not only attempting to find the perfect partner, but in discovering the beauty in every woman, especially in her character and in her body.
You can fall in love with anybody, but the way you look at him/her does not change what he/she is. So your subjective valuation of that person can only satisfy your concept of that person.
It is this misconception that makes so many people accept people who are really good for nothing. This leads later on in life to the realisation that one has been living with the wrong person, and that one has thrown precious years of youth away just because they were content to see the imperfect in a perfect way, and not realise that the imperfect will always remain imperfect even in the loving eyes of the beholder.
Maybe as a perfectionist, I would rather see that, if I was not also extinct, rather than see humans that are so far from perfection that I 'd tend to see as cripples.
I have two sons. All three of us strive for perfection.
But in reality what is the concept on which this is based? When a man does something wrong, he is often labelled a "bad" man. When he does something good, people say that he is a "good" man. And when he does both? It is not people who are good or bad. It is peoples' actions which are good or bad. So when we strive for perfection, we do not do it to make ourselves perfect, but to make what we do perfect. We might do this, and we usually do, even if we have a number of defects ourselves, and people would refer to us as "imperfect" as opposite in meaning to "perfect"
It is in the greatness of what we achieve to do that we should see our efforts rewarded by the "perfectness" or otherwise of the results.
As for you Rusty, you need to change all those Rusty bits, and replace all of your joints by stainless steel ones. Titanium joints would make you perfect......not necessarily a necessity for you!!
Some replies are very funny indeed,like the one you gave, Lisa. Ok so you meet a guy somewhere outside CS. How do you know how old he is? Do you ask him? If you find him terribly exciting, and he is outside your age bracket, do you dump him? And if he lies, and says he is younger or older? but you still like him, what happens then? unfortunately, the age of each and every one of us is given on this site, and it is automatically updated, to make sure that no one gets caught out. So you will know the age before knowing the person. Which in your words would eliminate the person from your interest page. But if you had to meet that person in real life, before knowing his age, or his true age, you might have found him quite a treat.
And how do you know how many chances you might have thrown away already by doing so? Then of course one hears how little serious mens' approach is to CS women. Hope there are not a lot like you, or we guys would find it very difficult to latch on to some younger or older women. As for the profile, can you really describe yourself in a profile and in a few words?
About sending flowers to a woman, what do you want to send to attract some interest? Are'nt flowers always appreciated by women, except those who suffer from hay fever??
One of my recent girlfriends was 27 years old. We met in a "real life" situation. She liked me a lot, and it made no difference to her when I told her that I was 61 then, but it would have ruled me out on the site using your inch tape.
No Lagoona, you got it all wrong. You remove the remote first, then you get only your mouth wet....and before pressing that remote button, after you finish, just wipe your mouth before seeing the next (blue) film.
Why am I still here after all this time? Well I joined CS just a few days before I met again a girl I had known for about thirty years. During that short time on CS, I had arranged to meet a few people from CS. As bad luck would have it, one was sick on our first meeting, and the second one who I was supposed to meet on a Sunday, visited her friend abroad that week. So I dated the girl who was not from CS that week, and remained with her ever since. I still chat with all the people I met at that time. And so many new ones write in every week. I hang on mostly to make friends, but this feeling of women writing in, gives me a sense of satisfaction. Most continue to write independent of everything else, and fully aware that I have a girlfriend. But then, who has one friend or girlfriend these days? I guess making the best of life at this stage is a must for all of us.
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Can a woman really forget?
And if the woman had to remark that the last time she heard that tune she danced it with Jack, and the last time she ate at that restaurant she was with Joe, and the last time she went to X place she was with Y????