Lucky Adam, he did not need to worry about other men taking his wife away, no problems with infidelity, no men to compete with. Lucky man that Adam. But the he had no choice. There was only Eve around
Because I think that the mods should be mature enough to realise that among us CS members, there would be a chunk of gullible ones who would fall for the scam that they are advertising on the page. Reputation is everything in this world. You either hold it or you lose it, no ifs and buts.
On top of the forum, there is an advert for phsychic reading etc. by Sara Freder. How many of you think she is genuine and how many of you think she is just another hoax? Why is such advertising allowed on the CS site?
Italian men are the best!!! Sure we all know that!! The best liars in the world!!! They always say that they are single to do our women,.....even those with grandchildren......all single, those creepy liars!!
The person who is satisfied with what he has, is the person who never bothers to improve himself, which is a pity really, because if one had to be content with one commodity, one would never strive to obtain anything else. By default, this means leaving everything else for the others to grab..not a very positive thought!!
It would take another lifetime to do the things I did'nt do. Besides the fact that I am still alive does not mean I can spend my life single, like I would have liked to do!! Being still alive, does not mean I can live without the worries that a family brings. It is only by reliving life from the beginning, that I would be able to accomplish all these things.
Even if I did'nt have comodities that other people have, I can still appreciate how much better I would be if I had them, like a carefree life, or more money to spend. Let's hope Her Majesty would adjust to our basic needs
I am not a jealous person by nature, nor can I say that I have ever lacked the essentials, but yes I feel that I could have had so much more out of life, that whatever was given to me was minimal. We are accustomed to talking about justice in life, only to see that the guy next door is a hundred times better than you in every way, looks, women, riches, performance, while next to him is a beggar, with scanty clothes, no food, no place to dwell.
My question is: what has that guy done to merit more, or its corollary, why do I have to accept less when life is a free for all?
One answer I have always given to the question in the poll is: If I had to live my life again I would do none of the things I did, and do all the things I did'nt do. Experience has taught me to learn from my mistakes.
The problem is that we are stuck with the life we have, and most if not all of us would rather be satisfied with what we have rather admit to failure, or that our life is boring. Most of us are also satisfied with our lives because we know no better. If one takes time to discover how other people have a better life, then they would know if theirs is really satisfactory or not, and maybe give a different answer in the poll.
You could almost be describing my relationship. Because we did not live together, and because she had admirers wherever she went, I had to know what she was doing and where she was. She was also 11 years younger than me, so much more alert and attractive.
We split because she felt too tied down in a relationship. She too said she wanted to be alone, with an occasional date every now and again.
My side was completely different. I wanted to be with her 24/7, and that scared her off. But what a pity! I thought I had found the love of a life. There was nothing I wanted to change in her, and we never quarelled or said one harsh word to each other. Not even after the breakup, I think we are still the best of friends, but I can never tell how she feels in reality.
One thing that I always felt very uneasy about was her total secrecy. She always said that there were things that were not to be shared. That was the one thing that made me suffer in silence.
I had been married for 34 years. I never considered my marriage to be of any significance, and definitely not the stuff to make a film out of. But notwithstanding our quarrels, and misunderstandings, there was always that something that kept us together, even if this was in part for the benefit of our children.
When my wife became sick (terminal cancer) for a whole year, I stood by her, night and day, at home and in hospital. I abandoned my work and my lients. Six months before she passed away, she lost her memory completely a condition brought about by the drugs she was administered. She recognised nobody and no one except me. I never left her for a moment, until she died peacefully near me. I don't know if you consider this true love, but I tried to make up for all my shortages by being with her all the time she had left.
I have no regrets that I could do no more. I could not prolong her life by one more second, and neither did I want to prolong her agony any longer.
Shallow is something in the upbringing, stands for "cheap" Not may people like being looked at as shallow minded.
Now your other question was "do real men cry?"
What I don't understand well is the use of the word "real" Maybe you are referring to masculine staunch men! Yes they cry, and how. It is not the "real" or tough or rough that makes them cry, but how able they are to love. Losing that love makes men who really loved, cry like babies.
The thing I hate most in a marriage is that one gives up his or her identity to become a part of a team, where one has to bring the intersts of the partner before one's own, or risk being accused of being egoistic, and risking breaking up the marriage. So in a marriage we lose our freedom, our identity and our ability to act independently of each other. We are also isolated from our previous friends and from the social circles around us.
When we lose our companion for any reason, be it death, divorce, seperation after discovering betrayal etc, we are like prisoners who have suddenly been released from prison after a long stay locked up. Sometimes we prefer to go back to our prisons and lock ourselves back in there. At least that is the place we have known best for the last decades. We have to look for new friends and for new interests in society.
The first thing that we discover is that we are not acceptable to society as we are now, and that even if we decide to go dating, our old ways of twenty or thirty years before don't apply any more. We have to change looks, clothes and approach. What was ok with our partners is not ok to the people out there that we have not got used to yet.
Add the fact that the leftover ones are still very hurt and in most cases, still very much in love with their old companions, and one finds it is impossible to adjust to the new phsychological situation.
I really can't tell you how we who have gone through such an experience could define ourselves in our new existence.
Well at the risk of being pedantic, I have to put it this way. If we were omniscient, then we might know the reason for everything that happens around us or to us. Not being omniscient, we can only ask ourselves why the hell that something had to happen to us, but we will never know why.
I don't believe that there is any order in the way things happen, but I know for sure that so many bad things happen to us, that no matter how many good things happen to us, we are always questioning ourselves why there is so much suffering and so much bad all around us.
Not so sure about that !! The betrayer is on the road to new fun....betrayal !!! It must be fun for some....those who don't stop to think the ravage they leave behind
That would be my choice too, but I would prefer to walk on the less busy routes, where I can stop to kiss maybe french kiss if the going is good. This could lead to something a little bit more intimate. Which would call for a drink later.
For a good reason????????? Like telling lies about where you have been, when you are unfaithful? When the husband discovers it, it is more painful than the truth!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Maybe the good reason is to make him suffer more??
Well with me it was different. It was "till death did us part" So it was not easy to go and celebrate my newly acquired freedom. I had to mourn for some time, but after a few months, when I got all the pieces together, or almost, I started desperately looking for a woman I had known for the past 32 years, and who had always been somnehow part of my life. After a long search, I found her, and am living the best days of my life with her, hopefully never to part from her.
It seems that we have jumped from French Kisses to French Letters, without giving a chance to Miro to expand on the practical side of the subject. Honestly guys, do you think that French Kisses could be put to good use on a first date, or do they scare women away. I am refraining from giving any details of my personal experiences at this point.
OK Miro, so it seems that most of us men need to be taught how to French Kiss properly. Would you be so kind as to teach us? Luckily most of us have got accustomed to French Letters, notwithstanding the language barrier!!
Presuming that we all know what French Kissing is, do you consider this to be a clear sign of wanting to go into a deeper intimacy in the beginning of a new relationship? Is it the first thing you would do with a new date?
When I was a young boy, it was a time of great expectations; costly toys from my uncles and aunts, and cousins. Banquets with all sorts of family cooked dishes, many turkey based, family reunions, and that unique Christmas spirit that came just once a year...the house decorated with thistle, Christmas trees, flickering lights, and that warmth that came with this season of great expectations and cold weather. We kids were also expecting the results of our first trimester at school, and if we did well, it was one more cause for celebration, and another candidate for some more toys.
Today, Christmas means very little. The family is apart. Consumerism has led me to believe that Christmas comes for the shopkeepers to rejoice at the useless amounts of money that are spent on gifts that people buy to conform with customs. Very often these are given just to do like everybody else. They are not given out of love, but out of that obligation that people feel they have to keep a tradition.
As to what to pray for, for getting as a gift for Christmas, I have stopped praying for that too, because if I have prayed in vain for the last 63 years, I don't think that my prayers will be heard after 64 years!
Well folks, you asked the question, I gave you my answer!
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RE: How Adam Got Eve
Lucky Adam, he did not need to worry about other men taking his wife away, no problems with infidelity, no men to compete with. Lucky man that Adam. But the he had no choice. There was only Eve around