Well, it all depends whether the letter incriminates you or somebody else. If it was an accusation against my partner/wife, I would take it seriously, but not rush to conclusions, or presume that what it said was true.
If it was about myself, and what it said was true, then I would worry a lot because sombody would have come to know what was never meant to become public knowledge.
If it was about me and was false, then I would just ignore it. There are many people with nothing better to do, than to write such falsities.
Such letters can have disastruous effects on people.
Once, a long time ago, someone wrote two such letters addressed, one to my wife, and one to the fiancee of the girl who used to come and help us with the cleaning of the house. The letter said that we used to meet every Thursday, and that I used to drive her home. Which was perfectly true. My wife laughed her head off, because she knew it was the truth, and that she had asked me to start taking her home after work. The girl's fiancee refused to believe that I was doing this out of courtesy, and broke up their engagement....which was the intention of the letter. It was only after she stopped coming to us to clean that the two got together again and got married. See what damaging effect such letters can have!
Not everybody is desperately looking to get rid of the wife. So divorce existent or non existent in Malta, is not on everybody's mind. Wanting to divorce from somebody you cannot live with any more, does not automatically mean that you would rather see that person burn alive...to get rid of her.
How do you think things will go if he decides he wants to "meat" you. Would you take a fork and a knife, or maybe the barbecue? unless he is a cannibal of course, and wants to eat you raw!
Hi Ina, look at it this way. If I was the host, I would have the right to choose my guests. And I would choose whoever I please, because being the host, it is up to nobody but me to make such a decision. So if the UK moderator did not want you, it is not because he does not like you, but because although it is not written down anywhere in the rules, you just don't qualify being there, because you are not a Uk citizen. Which is a good thing, because you have now joined this site, where you are MOST WELCOME
That is a funny answer, you gave there. Do you think that a relationship works better if the man earnt more money than the woman, putting the woman in a state of dependability on the man? And would you think that if the woman was more capable and qualified than the man, and earnt more money, she would destabilise the family? In a world where women are claiming to be men's equal in all things, I think it would not stand out to give the woman a chance to be the man to see how she fares. Let the woman experience what it means to be the breadwinner for the family. Why not?
Ulimaroa, there is a saying in Maltese that a ship cannot have two captains, because it will get nowhere. My interpretation of that is that you only need one good thinker in a family of two. It is like the body. You need one head but two arms and two legs, but try to live with two heads LOL.
.....and much more boring.....and dangerous.....with riot police shooting at us......with no water....no colour TV....wage freeze....three day week....need I say more? or were you living in cyberspace?
I fully agree with you Sunshine. What I was proposing was that if two people wanted to have an extra partner in the relation (male or female) the modern way of doing it is not behind each other's backs, but openly, by mutual agreement, in the presence of both of them. Although I would not find the setup interesting, it eliminates a risky third unknown partner, it eliminates the element of betrayal, and it eliminates the sense of guilt for betraying the partner. It is not what I or you believe in. It is something better than barefaced betrayal. I agree that we both don't agree with it. I too would never go out with somebody who tells me that she is doing this behind her husband's back, unless she is seperated legally or otherwise, or because she caught him doing the same to her.
When is the next time you'll be cooking this? I would like to come to taste it! It sounds like a great dish to me. Don't worry, I'll do the washing up!!
You'll know in two months time if you have been late or not in locking her up!
Anyway, cats are so sweet. What's wrong in having half a dozen kittens running around the house? There was a time when I had more than six of them tearing everything they found to shreds!
They say "what goes round, comes round!" So i have kept all my sixties & seventies & eighties clothes. Every few years there is a return of something back into fashion. Like my old torn jeans. Now I wear them to go to fancy places....and the more paint soiled they are, or the more torn, the more people think I got them from the latest Armani collection.
Don't ever throw anthing away. Important thing is that you keep the same figure so that you can wear them 20 years after you think they were useless as floor rags ! LOL.
a double superlative?? Non existent in the English language, guess this is the wildest thing I 've done, can't remember the others....I've done so many!
My good deed of the day was to think about myself. And then they call this egoism. If we don't think about ourselves, and do something for ourselves, who does? the hypocritic altruists? What have they ever done for us except criticise us for being egoists?
So today, I went and bought myself some new clothes.
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RE: coffee
Italian pure breed capuccino.