Yes I have a secret crush on someone, and she knows it very well, although, sorry to disillusion you out there, but I am not saying who she is. That will make you more curious, but the question was about a secret crush. So it will have to remain a secret. The thread is moving now!!!
Illuminate us Smoky. We're really a bunch of idiots. But don't forget, that lurking among us are a number of PhD s , so careful what you say, or they'll cut you up for bacon, for their next ingest of protein!
A woman boarded a bus with her seven children. There was hardly any space where they could stay. Right in front on the first seat was a man sitting comfortably across the seat, occupying three seating spaces. The woman, who had nowhere to sit, asked the man, very politely, if he could close his legs so that there would be a space where she could sit. The man looked at her rather surprised. He said, "are you asking me to close my legs to make space for you and your seven children madam? "Yes," said the woman. Well madam, had you kept your legs closed, there would have been much more space for everybody on this bus!
Morale of the story. If you keep your legs open, you will feel cold! If you keep them closed you'll lose the fun!
There is nothing honest about being straight with the tax man. They are not honest with us. I could not possibly report anybody to the tax man , because I am in the same boat. I cheat the tax man so what the hell!
I owe honesty only to a woman. That is what counts..And now you can all have a laugh, but I mean it!
Good rephrasing Smoky when looking at it from the feminine or female viewpoint. The men's version would be
when they arrive at the house, you would have to get out of bed, go down the stairs at all hours, to open the door, because invariably they forget the key, but never bother, because they know that you are always at home waiting for them.
They are the ones that can bang the door on arriving in the middle of the night and shout hello when half drunk, knowing that they are not going to be rebuked.
Family are your major headache when it comes to their needs. You have to clothe them and feed them or they'll bring down the house. And don't forget the firewood for warming them up when it is cold.....and the wine and the whisky, if the evening is particularly cold.
They will always come for the money, saying that they are only borrowing it, but never mean to return it.
When you have done something particularly clever and you want to tell them about it, they say that they are not interested to hear about it, because if it was that clever, they would be reading about it in tomorrow's papers.
When they're depressed, they just make sure you notice, so that you will run to their rescue, and save them the Phsychiatrist's bill and medication
When their car breaks down or when they're somewhere where nobody would be interested to go for them, they phone you up for help, and don't take no for an answer, sometimes even threatening suicide, if you dont answer immediately that you are already on the way to help.
Family may be a precious commodity, and the most certain way how to break your bank account.
If you're going to be there, I will have to make sure I come too, Sunshine! And they're probably right about you being from another planet! Water, beers, alcohol, or whatever ET, and all of you want to drink, on me!
Hey Sunshine, there is a transient line in your contributions that shows that you are scared. Now that you have said it youself, there is no more doubt about it. I would be more scared of miracles though. What you probably mean is that you have not given up hope, although you don't want to repeat past experiences, which I fully agree with. Ultimately, choosing the right partner is not a question of the right partner being found miraculously, but a profound analysis of what you want, a good power of judgement, and most of all enough self confidence to say no to somebody you are not sure of, and to accept the person you are sure of. Disposing the right person for the wrong one for excess fear often loses the chance of finding the right person again. You know they don't exactly come along by the dozen!
No way. It is he who is trying to make you feel guilty, because it is convenient for him if you return. Don't let the children be used in manouvering you into where he wants you to go. There are men who love families, and would gladly take on a woman with children
One has to move on. It is the only way forward. If you go back, it is like going round in circles. What you have tried, and know does'nt work, leave behind. Something else might work. So if you have time to try something, don't try to resurrect the dead duck, just find another one live, and take good care of it!
Now that we are singles again, we tend to think that we lost everything. But it is not true. We still carry with us our experience. We must be very careful not to make the same mistakes again. They say it is human to err, but diabolical to persist in error. No we do not have to act like burnt children. That only happens if we do not have any faith in ourselves, but we must always remember that there is a reason behind everything, and we should start by analysing what has gone wrong from our part in our previous relationship, before blaming others for bringing it down upon us.
We all know what we want out of life. We do not need to ask ourselves what we want all the time. It may change a little with time, but our goal is set before not after the disaster of our breakup. The goal is still the same. Persisting in getting it however is the key to its success. Giving up is reassured failure.
One other thing we have to be careful in not overdoing is being too choosy. The beauty of people often lies within, although external appearances help. So dumping someone who is short, or with a full figure does not really contribute to our happiness. One may find that ideal person when it is too late in life if ever.
I also agree with you about the positive aspect of the internet and this dating site. I can't understand though why you say that even the strongest relationships come to an end too. If they do, then they are not strong enough. Or as happened to me my partner passed away. That is the way the strongest relationships end.
My son met his now wife on the internet, and that was not on a dating site. As for distance, he was living in Malta and she was living in.....El Salvador! Talk about distances!!!!and distant relationships!!
Well commented by all the contributors. The financial side is not as relevant as it used to be, but the question of children is a major issue.
I don't agree with the last sentence by Smoky though. I think it is not we who become picky and want something better than what we got. It is that time changes our partner so much in character and in external appearance and in interactive behaviour, that we do not seem to relate any more to the person we got married many years previously.
One has to add that with the ever increasing opportunity to find a better partner before it becomes too late, people harbour the illusion that changing means bettering. But this is not always the case. These people never stop to think the tears they leave behind them.
Still if a couple are not happy together, what is the use of staying together? Taking a chance could seriously better their life and give it new meaning.
Make up can exalt beauty where there is beauty,but it cannot create it where is does not exist.
I agree though that there is nothing wrong if you feel you have to enrichen your looks further by putting some make up on. That does'nt mean you need it.
Yes I could agree with that. Some men accumulate wealth during their working life, while women tend to lose some of their beauty because of old age. But it does not make them lose any of their dignity, or of their worth.
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RE: do you have a secret crush on a person on cs
Yes I have a secret crush on someone, and she knows it very well, although, sorry to disillusion you out there, but I am not saying who she is. That will make you more curious, but the question was about a secret crush. So it will have to remain a secret.The thread is moving now!!!