antcusantcus Forum Posts (948)

RE: found your love?

I have, but she has not found me.
She is so afraid and diffident of being hurt again that she does not want to try again. So she's in for the chat and the contribution in the EU forums only.

So I am doing the same now.

RE: Best thing to say or do after Making Love

Do it to me......at least one more time. Then take your time to clear the mess, and pull up the bed sheets properly!

RE: singledom vs new relationship

Connecting singles is not just for getting two people to find each other and fall in love.
It gives everyone the opportunity to exchange opinions, e-mails etc.

So although ultimately we all hope to find that perfect partner, I, for one, enjoy being here, to contribute to the forums, to have people write to me, and to write to others, who I have discovered, in their majority, are friendly and warm people.

RE: Nite

Good night Pearl.

You can rest assured that I will have sweet dreams if only I could dream of you. Unfortunately, I never remember what I dream of.

I was told to sleep with my glasses on to see my dreams more clearly, but the result was only two pairs of broken glasses, and no dreams.

RE: Good afternoon

Good afternoon Pearl. I am fine thanks. What makes you think it is a "good" afternoon? Anything special happening your end? Everything perfectly normal this end.

RE: What lies do men and women use most commonly

Woman to man :

You know I would like to make love to you tonight, but it is a no, no, night, tonight. Maybe you should phone me again in a week's time.

Man to woman:

Can't make it tomorrow. I'll be flying out to New York for a couple of days, but will promise to phone you in two days time, when you said your husband should be back!

Should there be secrets between two people in love

Like, are any of your ex boyfriends still phoning you or sending sms to your mailbox?

No, none of them still remember my number.

What she is not telling him, that half a dozen are still doing that, even though she is not taking any of them seriously, but being polite enough to them that they keep trying.

Like, how many months did you live together?

But we never did, we just dated. Finished three month relationship secretly kept from new boyfriend.

RE: Love vs Attraction

Yes but my question is: can you fall in love before being physically attracted.
Do you fall in love with the contents of a box without opening it.
Do you fall in love because you hope to find gold? Do you take a blind leap?

How do you go from no love and no physical attraction to "true" love?

RE: Eurovision

I honestly think so too. It did deserve a better placing

RE: Is it good to be a scorpio?

Oh no Smoky, Scorpios are good when they are good, and very bad when they are bad. Then there are the two categories of Scorpio the good category and the bad category.
Even the good Scorpios are difficult to handle. My son is a Scorpio, and I would have much preferred another sign. You never know their next move, because they don't move in straight lines, but always in a side movement to the right or to the left. Boy, are they notorious for their behaviour?

RE: Eurovision

In the finals what?
In the final 10?
The best Malta achieved was 3rd place
This year Malta wants to win.
Any body wanting to bet on it?

RE: There are 3 wells

If you asked any mother about her daughter, then undoubtedly you would be right Smoky, but you are asking nobody here!. A person is being asked to make a choice, and although a hungry person might desire love, who does'nt after all? his immediate needs are for food, or the means to buy it, wealth.

I would never say like you that I am always right, but then I am seldom wrong.

When all three categories choose love, what exactly are they choosing? To give love or to receive it?
Food for thought!

RE: breakfast

A doctor once prescribed three big meals a day to a girl who appeared too skinny for her age, especially in that vital area. She was told to return for another checkup in three weeks time.

The girl, who had also problems with her hearing, thought the doctor prescribed her three big males a day.

After examining her again in three weeks the doctor exclaimed "My oh my! what a difference those meals have made!

The girl answered "sorry doctor, but was'nt it you who prescribed three big males a day? you did'nt even tell me at what time, so I took them one by one rather than all together!!

Where are the LEO s among us

Last call for female LEOS, boarding at gate 10.

Plane leaving within minutes.
Any female LEOS? This is your chance to make your roars heard.
Alternatively kindly write in, before this thread be forgotten forever!

RE: There are 3 wells

Very philosophical Smoky, but not everybody's piece of cake.
Try and tell a hungry man to choose love to bread, or an unattractive female to choose love to beauty.

When you have both beauty and wealth, you choose love, because it is difficult to find, but when you have no wealth and no beauty, you choose both instead of love, hoping that love will come as a result of wealth and beauty....and it usually does!

RE: on weekends

Hey MARTI, such an angelic face, such a radiant smile, and you'd club anybody who came your way? even me?

How would you feel if......

Hi MARTI, it is not insignificant as you say. She is not wearing a bracelet one day and then another the next. Women change their clothes twice daily.
But when she has had that bracelet on from day one, we have dated on and off for some time now. And every time we meet, she waers the same bracelet, it never comes off during the day or in bed, not even in the shower! Then it is more than an insignificant thing for me.

I wanted to buy her anything she wanted, really. But it is only recently that she decided to take off the bracelet, and accepted that I should buy her another. And that is only after I told her that it was something that was hurting me. More significant is the fact that she has some pretty nice and expensive bracelets, which she never wore, and kept this wretched one on.

Would you really think that this is normal and insignificant?

How would you feel if......

The way I see it is like this. If one wore presents from X's occasionally, that would be Ok I guess. These things are meant for wearing, and it would hurt nobody if they were worn occasionally, and at random. But if a person comes wearing the same thing given to her/him by the same person, it can only signify that in wering that thing, they are
admitting that the thing is very dear to them
that by wearing it, they are automatically remembering the other person
that wearing it makes them still feel something for the other person.

And it hurts so much to know that whatever one is doing for that person, her or she is so insensitive to your feelings that they are doing whatever they are doing with you..say holding hands...and in the same hand that is holding yours, there is the bracelet from her ex, in that same hand!!!

Where are the LEO s among us

No problem. Leos adore bull meat, cooked or uncooked. So it is not us Leos who have to beware, it is the rest of you, whoever and whatever sign you may be. Remember we are the strongest!

How would you feel if......

The girl you were dating would come wearing day in day out the same bracelet, and one day she would admit casually that it was a present from her ex boyfriend?
and for the women, if your new date comes wearing regularly an expensive watch which he asmits was given by his ex girlfriend?

How would you feel if....

The girlfiiend you are dating comes day in, day out, wearing the same bracelet, and one day she admits casually to you that it was a present from her ex boyfriend,
or for the women, if your boyfriend wears regularly, an expensive watch, which he openly admits was a present from his ex girlfriend?

How would you feel if.....

If you were dating a girlfriend, who kept wearing, day in day out the same bracelet, which one day she admits to you was a present from her ex boyfriend
or for the women, if your date kept coming wearing an expensive watch given to him by his ex girlfriend?

Where are the LEO s among us

The animal kingdom law and order, my dear Highfidelity!

RE: on weekends

Hey MARTI, you keep mentioning "clubbing"
It is illegal to club anyone. You might kill somebody if you continue "clubbing" LOL

RE: on weekends

Hi Sunshine, welcome.

If I go out on a weekend, then I would sleep after 2am.
If I stay at home, it would probably be around 1am
The following morning, I would probably wake up at about 9.30 am
The latest I woke up was about 1 pm on a Sunday, after spending the night with a girl.

Never got to know the origins of the expression "sleeping with a girl"
Who sleeps? It should be "staying awake all night with a girl" LOL

RE: What and Why?

I got you Uli.

I thought it referred to some deposits like gas deposits LOL

RE: Love Prejudiced

My theory about the younger women/older men and vice versa is that when people see two people of the same age together they say that they are well adapted to each other because they are well matched age wise.
When they see an older man with a younger woman they think that that man must still be pretty good to satisfy the needs of that young girl.

When people see an older woman with a younger man, they usually conclude that "she has'nt had enough of it...she still wants more"
and they are probably right too.

So it is not just the older men's fixation with younger women. When it happens it means that the men are in very good shape for their age.
And the same holds true for the older women who can attract younger men....although they usually don't do this just with their bodies, but also with their possessions and promises.

There is very little wrong with the normal accumulation of wealth as we get older...at least for some of us who manage to get older and richer, but that reaction time and stamina that was there once when we were thirty years younger is no longer there. The world seems to go round like a film in slow motion....not very much slower I dare say, but definitely slower.

RE: I am amazed!

This is Mr Sincerity in person, so have no doubt.
If I wanted to take the mickey out of somebody, you would know about it, because I make no effort to hide it.

Where are the LEO s among us

Well said Zuzua.

I have just written your name in my "good book"

Where are the LEO s among us

Thank you Smoky, for describing me so well.
What does not tally is that I don't have manes of hair, especially now, and that I don't trade in the older for the younger women, although the temptation is always there!
What you did not say is that although we LEOs want to show who is boss, we are indeed very caring and very loving, and will only bite to keep law and order.
We also fight to protect those less fortunate around us like the other signs, especially those who cannot speak for themselves like the fish....they call themselves Pisces !

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