What I said is that most 50 year old men would be perfectly happy to date a 20 year old woman, if they got a chance.
But the reality is that women tend to have hang-ups about age, and so virtually no 20 year old woman, in a Western context anyway, will date a 50 year old man. The afore-mentioned 50 year old man therefore tends to date closer to his age. My point is that this is not necessarily out of choice on the man's part.
For the record, I am 46, and most of the women I have dated were actually older than me. So there ya go!
To sum up, I think that, having read some of the posts from women over 40 in this thread, we now have a much better idea of why they are finding it difficult to find someone!
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