I might go and watch a movie soon, the clouds are rolling across the Alps quicker than you could pour rum down my throat and there is a storm brewing, I can feel a day on the sofa coming on with the duvet over me.
No, it is not up to another person to pin you down, it is up to you to learn a trust a person in my opinion and feel that you deserve a person who will listen and help you through... Then if he can see the signs and triggers that may make you run then he is aware of them. Imagine, if you close up and he cannot help you, he feels powerless and at a loss. Sort of unfair on the other person in a relationship. I know, I did it to my ex.
I hurt him badly in closing down, depsite what he did int he relationship.
My lovely man is in a meeting, I spoke to him for ten minutes then he had to go. Busy man. Keeps him out of trouble.
Yes, it can be hard. I am a closed case sometimes and I don't open up very easily especially if I am really troubled. I do have to remember that it hurts him if I do that. And that is the last thing I want to do.
Oh it can and many women love a man who can outlet like we can, but then I think my man hates to think of me sad and crying and I could not bear it if he was like that too.
I tend to stay out of these sort of stuff, but you are right. Her threads are popular and while I disagree with some of her views, I have to take my hat off to her.
Sommerauer71 Forum Posts (12,414)
he is showing some emotion, I just know I find it hard to handle. 
RE: MEN!!!!
Indeed.It was a crap post.
It is as simple as that.
Morning to you too, Laura.