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The United States of Equality

Sorry, who was that directed at??

RE: a legal question

Exactly.

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Obviously he must have! As I said, either party is able to ask for the arrangements in the Agreement to be altered at any point, as long as both parties agree then the Agreement can be altered.

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The point is that the husband MUST HAVE AGREED to the paying of the mortgage, otherwise it would NOT be in the agreement at all. Nothing is put into a Separation Agreement until it has been reviewed and agreed by BOTH parties.

RE: a legal question

Actually, in this particular case, I DO KNOW IT!

RE: a legal question

RE: a legal question

You see, OP, its started already..

It is NO CONSEQUENCE who owns or pays for what. ALL THAT MATTERS is what is in the Separation Agreement, which I assume you and your husband have already in place. Anything other than the arrangements set out therein are IN BREACH. The husband obviously agreed to pay the mortgage, otherwise it wouldnt be set into the Agreement.

Obviously, either you or your husband can petition for amendments to the arrangements in the Agreement at any time. This is what your lawyers are for.

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No, no, dont apologise! Its good to share the load sometimes.

I just think you could get confusing advice here, which will further confuse YOU, so its just best to speak to your own lawyer.

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You have just answered your own question here.

No, he is not therefore entitled to a key. It is down to your own discretion.

As regards changing locks, as some have mentioned, then not a good idea prior to taking legal counsel. However, I would advise to speak to your own lawyer and not take advice here. People will try and help, yes, of course. But in legal issues, it is unwise to take any others advice apart from your own lawyer's.

Good luck.

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Not true.

It totally depends on what is said in the Separation Agreement.

If this is not already thrashed out between your lawyers, then get it sorted now. Just because your husband is paying the mortgage, it does not mean he has automatic rights to have a key, or enter the house as and when he wishes.

Seek your lawyer's advice.

RE: Is anyone else amazed at what people are calling "average" body type these days?

Uncalled for, and DEFINATELY untrue..

RE: Is anyone else amazed at what people are calling "average" body type these days?

Why is BMI nonsense?? Its just a formula to measure fat levels in your body; seems quite sensible to me..

And where was the example you speak of??

Yep, alot of Americans ARE obese; I have stated this myself. Its no secret.

And my "problem" is your constant negative posts, thats all..

The United States of Equality

Hi, my friend..

Good post..

I believe that America does have a lot to offer, although its not necessarily the Land of Milk and Honey, but where is?? I obviously dislike the healthcare system here, and am dreading getting ill , and some things are more expensive here for me, I have discovered.

But all in all, I love the little things..like the radio channels! All my favorite music is what is played here, and I remember when I was in my teens, listening to the US Top 40 and even then enjoying it more than the English one. So, in a way, I guess I have come home!!

And I do promise to behave myself..

RE: Happy Birthday Sweetowen

Happy Birthday, Sweetowen!!



Have a great one, my friend, whatever you decide to do..

The United States of Equality

Hi Venere! Long time, no see..

Thanks for your congrats, first of all.

Yep, my sister has lived in Florida for many years now, and Im not sure how I would cope with the heat and humidity there. As regards the welcome, yes, it has been great here.

I felt compelled to do this thread because I have been overwhelmed with how lovely everyone has been to me and how helpful they have been. New Yorkers seem to have great senses of humour, although they DO talk a little fast for me!!

All in all, its been one hell of an experience so far, and I will be very happy when all my paperwork is finished and I can settle down a little more..

RE: CS-Marathon. Roll me over, Lay me down, Lets do it again..part 3

Are you going to start another really boring thread? now that this is at an end?

You know, one that one keeps jumping to the top of the forumsm, even though it bores everyone else to death??

RE: CS-Marathon. Roll me over, Lay me down, Lets do it again..part 3

oH YOU ARE WELCOME..

QUITE WELCOME!!

RE: your favourite james bond actor

Oh, Pierce Brosnan...

RE: CS-Marathon. Roll me over, Lay me down, Lets do it again..part 3

Yes you are doing a wonderful job. Keeping the mathathon going.

As regards the dating thing, no, no.

Add my post to the list, but as regards doing anyone a favour, then give it up.

RE: CS-Marathon. Roll me over, Lay me down, Lets do it again..part 3

Do you know what I find ironic? You are probably a realy nice lady, looking for love, and someone who has been hurt bigtime before, so you try and portray yourself as some one who is a maneater. I dont believe it for a moment.

Be yourself, and perhaps you will find some good friends.

RE: CS-Marathon. Roll me over, Lay me down, Lets do it again..part 3

No. Just a common tart.

RE: CS-Marathon. Roll me over, Lay me down, Lets do it again..part 3

Good god...

How many posts did that take??

RE: CS-Marathon. Roll me over, Lay me down, Lets do it again..part 3

So, I have made my point. You agree she is a tart.



That was simply my point!!

RE: CS-Marathon. Roll me over, Lay me down, Lets do it again..part 3

I will leave when I choose.

RE: CS-Marathon. Roll me over, Lay me down, Lets do it again..part 3

That is exactly the point. I dont NEED validation. The woman is a tart, out right.

If she is not, then she has gone totally in the wrong direction as regards CS.

RE: CS-Marathon. Roll me over, Lay me down, Lets do it again..part 3

You have missed the point.

I dont need to prove a point, or have anyone to fight with or for me. The woman is a tart. Simple as.

RE: CS-Marathon. Roll me over, Lay me down, Lets do it again..part 3

No one is saying Im wrong...ok.

so the woman is a tart.?????? Not like I need an answer..

RE: CS-Marathon. Roll me over, Lay me down, Lets do it again..part 3

Bla bla bla...

The woman is a tart. Simple as. And most men on here think that.

RE: CS-Marathon. Roll me over, Lay me down, Lets do it again..part 3

Nope, Im good!