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RE: The Overweight Woman is Desirable Too!
I've found overweight women to be real, meaning they don't mind being themselves from the start. Bigger women love whole-heartedly, don't go into a relationship with a full figured woman thinking that by encouraging them to lose weight, that you're going to "fix" them. They are beautiful the way God made them.
RE: 5 Things a Quality Man Won't Do
send to my ex
bye bye
RE: What you should know about Online Dating over 50
The older you get the more difficult it gets, i dont expect to find anyone!
RE: The Overweight Woman is Desirable Too!
I kinda fell apart after my last marriage failed. The results has been 100 lbs overweight that I'm battling to lose! Women say that I am an attractive man. Yeah well why haven't I had a date in six years. Is it because I am retired living on 1/3 what I use to make financially. I have to say that another divorce, losing our house and everything was the straw that broke the camel's back. But I am happy to say that that I believe in God and our Lord Jesus Christ! That in Him resides total Healing and Restoration. Paul
RE: The Overweight Woman is Desirable Too!
Recently met a girl at gym,she is considerably overweight.but the silver lining was seems she did with that just fine.even few slim ladies were at the gym same time but coudn't compete with her.
so i think whether you fat or not as long as you give it a run,that just fine....
RE: The Overweight Woman is Desirable Too!
Nice ArticleLove yourself at any size
Confidence in knowing who you are and respecting yourself will attract the same
Never settle for less, if someone is with you only when your thin its not going to last anyway
Love yourself first
RE: Romance Scammers, Con Artists, Predators, and Pathological Criminals Have No Guilt
You´r not different from the collective world consciousness in being and neither is any one else.RE: Why are scammers the most polite and complimentary?
Not being separate from life, "which is the real cheater," have not arisen yet from sensuality and pleasure-The entire creation is a cheat in disguise and our creator is the best deceiver.
RE: The Overweight Woman is Desirable Too!
I mean you don't look attraktive. But seems most men like it.
RE: The Overweight Woman is Desirable Too!
The overweight woman is desirable i believe that
RE: The Overweight Woman is Desirable Too!
If all the women are slim what happens to men who love and admire BBW?RE: The Overweight Woman is Desirable Too!
Firstly, I'm stating this as a guy that's still carrying a few pounds. I'm perhaps 25 lbs heavier than I should be.The general laws of attraction seem to state otherwise in relation to weight and desirability. Off course there are exceptions but the general consensus is that the more attractive and fit looking your are corresponds with desire. I mean this in the physiological arousal of human beings to each other.The psychological research seems to be evidence that we are attracted to the fit, lean and good looking mating partners because they will provide offspring good healthy off spring. This stuff is coded into our DNA so this politically correct bullshit is wrong. Again, I am saying this as someone who was badly over weight albeit i have lost a significant amount of weight. My confidence has gone up, my self esteem and I feel healthier. To be propagating this kind of bullshit is wrong. Even as an over weight man, I always always found fit beautiful women far far more attractive than an over weight woman. All my life I have experienced it amongst my friends and any man I knew that we found fit normal weight women far more attractive than an over weight woman. So please stop with the problem. You are not doing someone who is over weight any favours by speaking this bull shit crap. You are trying to normalise something that is unhealthy and damaging to someone by trying to normalise it.
RE: The Overweight Woman is Desirable Too!
Everyone is attractive no matter ur shape or sizeRE: The Overweight Woman is Desirable Too!
The main reasons that overweight women are attractive to most of the man is tht they propagate the signal implying "I am so powerfull, healthy and nutrition-reserved woman that I can raise up lots of children (i.e. offspring of your genealogy) so that your family name goes on". I am one of them who are attracted to chubby/curvy/overweight women.
RE: Five Ways for Men to be More Attractive to Women
We'd all look similar and where would any individuals be. Rubbish
RE: Sending Signals: 11 Ways Women Use Their Bodies to Show Romantic Interest
Now I can be more aware.RE: The Overweight Woman is Desirable Too!
I am attracted more to overweight women than average size. I also find overweight women have a better personality than average women.RE: Why Women Pick the Bad Guys.
There is elements of some selective 'half truths' is this article and on the other hand it's totally wrong. It's not a universal given and it's all relative as most things in life are. It's subjective depending on the person. Women with low self esteem and abandonment issues will unconsciously pick the men that will full-fill their sick need for abandonment. They will choose insecure relationships because it will match their insecure relationship with their father. The degree of dysfunction which occurred will be to the same degree that they will the person who will match that dysfunction in their present lives. The worse they were neglected the worse the partner they choose can often be. If they were beaten as children they can often gravitate towards a domestic abuser in later life. However, the converse occurs on the other side. A healthy well adjusted young woman will choose nice men who also have a healthy sense of self esteem and will treat them right. Men also can choose women who match their own childhood relationships with their mothers. There is a theory that we unconsciously choose the very people whom will expose the shortcomings and dysfunctions we need to address in ourselves.So this article is wrong in that it makes a bold and sweeping generalisations about 'women'. It's actually barbed in a tone of misogynistic resentment towards women. I feel he is actually twisting a certain amount of half truths to take a pot shot at women with his own subjective readings from popular psychology. So women picking bad boys is relative to the degree they have suffered dysfunction and how they feel about themselves and the converse is true where healthy women will choose nice men relative to the their own sense of self worth. The person who wrote this is to be possibly a manipulative individual who uses any awareness and insights into how he can manipulate vulnerable women.
RE: Forgiveness – Is It Really Possible?
It's possible to forgive but really hard to forget sometimes especially if the hurt you deeply.
RE: My Addiction to Passionate Men
Sorry for this ..however you sound like a selfish little pratt who just puts yourself first..grow up!RE: Forgiveness – Is It Really Possible?
It's a hard pill to swallow, but being able to forgive is possible. It doesn't make you weak. It does take time. You will cool down and get it out of your system, and carry on.RE: Just DON'T Do It
Never trust another person, whomever they are. Family, friends, bosses, boyfriend or husband. These people will turn on you and backstab you any chance they get. Love doesn't exist and should never be relied on for trust.You will always get hurt if you do. My opinion only.
RE: Forgiveness – Is It Really Possible?
Its ok to hurt people they will forgive you. Maby not today, maby not tomorrow, but someday, later that day
RE: Scam Profile Red Flags
Thanks all, for very useful advice.I'm pretty much sure that I've found one of those lovely scammers:( on Connecting singles...
Classic signs:
Wanted me to get off the site and give private email very quickly. and proposed after 3 days!:D
Seems to have a lot of photos to back up story about his family history (of a very handsome chap (modelling style poses ) but who unfortunately changed his eye colour in some shots.!:D
The long email a classic cut and paste and have found other examples online where all that differs is the name and date of birth:.
eg. I am a Captain currently serving in the USMC ( United State Marine Corps) Born on October 24th 1967 I grew up in Long Island, went to Centereach HS for my high school diploma and got admitted to Fashion Institute Of Technology to study Psychology and Art History Minor with Major in Advertising
Description Native American with Polish name
Could go on, but need to go and click that block button...
Sorry Zygmunt AKA ReaLifePartnerM from Connectingsingles if you are genuine
but I suspect not and as a good friend told me it all seemed too good to be true!:) which is something is something I'd encourage anyone to do is get a friend to cast an impartial eye over anything you receive.
Interested to know if anyone else has come across this one?
Cheers again all, I think I've had a lucky escape and hope I've given some useful info to prevent this happening the others.
RE: The Overweight Woman is Desirable Too!
Your weight or size doesn't define who you are ... Only you can do that !!
RE: Scam Profile Red Flags
Some very good observations! But don't slam us artistic types that know how to take a great photo! :)Also, don't be too critical of people's spelling and grammar as indicators of a scammer. Nothing is sadder than a woman telling the world how intelligent she is, with poor grammar and capitalization, no punctuation, and the word "intelligent" misspelled! America is a beautiful land, but evidently grammar, punctuation, and spelling have become a lost art for many. They can still be perfectly wonderful people! :)
RE: Get More Views to Your Profile
I am new to this site. Wish I had knew about it much earlier as it seem to be nice. There´s one thing though that might get fixed here or created and that is all the people who hasn´t been here online for several years.To me it´s destructive to go through the search and find someone who hasn´t been online for many years.
However I have been on several other sites and there are so many scammers. Hope this is not like them.
This site claim to try at least to get rid of them but there´s always a way for scammers.
Will try this one for some time and hope for the best. Thanks for all the advice that is flowing here.
RE: The Overweight Woman is Desirable Too!
First of all, God did not make us over weight..That was a personal choice...{except for glandular} the bible calls it death by spoon......Second: On dating sites 90% of over weight women LIE.....How do they lie....1: Head shots or just eyes and hair or lips...or photos of you a mile away....Or in their description....No photo but says....Curvy, Average, Rubenesque, a few pounds over. Obease
Last, being over weight is not healthy....Being overweight causes diabetics, heart disease, arthritis, spine and lumbar problems.. Over weight Parents bread over weight children.
You can glamorize being Overweight all you want...But big is not beautiful Big is a choice....Big is killing off people at an alarming rate.....No one was born to be Fat......
When you are ashamed to put the true you on a dating site then you are fooling yourself and trying to fool everyone else...It doesn't work
Be truthful to yourself and everyone else....There is someone for everyone on these sites...Hiding who you really are is not alluring or mysterious...Its just plain LYING.
OH yes you who will look me up , you will find me as Husky...I am not fat or skinny I have a waist up shot...No Big belly, no 3 chins. At 6' 1" and 230 I am husky...At 231 I will be fat...LOLOL