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RE: 4 Signs You're Getting Played Online

Its both men, and woman. And woman are better at it.

RE: The Overweight Woman is Desirable Too!

i like them very much..and what is write there is absolutely right.

RE: "You Never Listen to Me"- 5 Steps to Understanding Each Other.

I have a more simple method.

You plug ear plugs in your ears. You look at her face. When the lips have stopped moving for about 10 seconds you get up. You give her a hug and a kiss on her cheek. Then jump in the car and go to buy a bunch of flowers and a box of chocolates.

When I was a little boy my mum and my dada had an argument. She said she was going to iron his shirt for work. She put the shirt on the ironing table and put a hot iron on it. Then she went into the kitchen and made a cup of tea. After a while she went back to the ironing board and my dads shirt had this big burn mark on his shirt. She even smiled when she helped him put it on.

Her comment was: With a woman you may win the battle but you will never win the war.

RE: Get More Views to Your Profile

Hi everyone.Honestly I am very impressed with this site and kindly I will have to use this opportunity to implement myself,I believe am here for my life companion yes my soul mate, hopefully and surely I believe there's someone here for me. Note:I'm not here for jokes so I need serious woman to live my life with because I have been waiting for this opportunity longer time, Enough of this loneliness. Thank you for accepting me

RE: Creating Healthy Relationships That Work

I believe that every relationships are different. Due to many aspects - e.g. Religion, Customs and many others (to name a couple). Having said that, I do believe that having a healthy and long-lasting relationship(s) starts with Y-O-U. Which means, you need to be responsible, and be accountable for what happens in your relationship. It does take 'two to tangle'. So, in order for all that to happen, you must be reliable, and honest. No matter what. It only takes one screw-up to change everything. Once a TRUST is burnt, it is very difficult to gain the trust back. Not to mention, if you are not honest with yourself. You cannot possibly be honest with your SO (Significant One). You also must have good and broad Communication skills. If you can not reach her, you will never be able to understand her the way, she wants you to. And, she will not be be honest with you with good communication. And that leads to "Mixed Messages" and Communication breakdown. Which will lead to a very short and poor relationship/Marriage.

RE: How Age Gaps Can Affect a Relationship

I personally believe that it isn't the "Age" factor that makes (or breaks) a good relationship. It is due to a few factors. I believe that Maturity and Responsibility are two main factors. Not to mention, Honesty and Reliability. Those are what makes a good and communicative relationship.

Also, being financially stable, as well as emotional. Without those elements, those relationship expires quickly than one may realize.

RE: Just DON'T Do It

When you put your trust and twine your fate with another human being, what can you expect in this day and age? I don't see many happy long lasting relationships out there today. Everything that has a beginning, also has an end. We've created a world where there really is no security and lasting happiness and you must somehow find peace with that. No one has any real answers for everyone on this, as the world as it exists today is uniquely the product of our times. Good luck finding meaning in your lives everyone, just don't look for it in relationships with your fellow man!

RE: Don’t Lose your Identity in a Relationship

100% Agree

RE: Perfect Profiles: Avoid These 7 Online Dating Mistakes to Find a Real Relationship

focused on brainiac ladies ! rare birds....

RE: What is Human Nature?- Are we unique or just animals?

stupidity of creationism !

RE: Pakistan Terrorism and Education

Very first there is no use of saying how it happened and who did it. Best thing is how we can stop it. Personally i feel that if civil society can take few steps then it can be eradicated permanently. Like

1. First be courageous to say loudly when there is something wrong happening around you.

2. Try your level best to enroll all girls in school in govt and make it free up to university level with cash bonus to all of them. schools not in religious schools.

3. strengthen your village level administrative system.

4. Make them responsible who are dealing with poverty eradication schemes and always raise question if there is wrong there.

5. Make system fast and partial and always keep media free.


Within one decade you will see the change

RE: How Age Gaps Can Affect a Relationship

Here when it comes to start a family this thing should be discussed first i mean in beginning phase.As far as closeness with friends these thing can be settle down with time.There both should have patience while taking on this front.Do not chase insecurity,it can kill any kind of relationship.Any kind of relationship can and is work which have faith and affection and here again age gap relationship is no exception.

RE: Thinking about getting a tattoo?

Get a tattoo, not a chance.

Not only in my eyes do tattoos look grubby and dirty but it can not be a mere coincidence that they are more prevalent in certain sections of the community. Am I saying that everyone with a tattoo is a criminal, a pirate, or lives the gutter, no of course not. What I am saying is that every time I see someone with a tattoo I question their intelligence.

When I was 14 I had posters on my bedroom wall of David Bowie, Roy Wood, and Alice Cooper. When I was in my 20's I decorated my lounge with glossy photos in frames of Fred Astaire, Cyd Charisse, Ginger Rogers, Frank Sinatra, and Dean Martin. Over the following years various artworks have held pride of place on the interior walls of my house, and right now I have Desert Orchid, The Queen, and a couple of large mirrors.

Who in their right mind would want to look at the same decoration, however good, day, after day, after day.

Like clothes, decorations needs changing, on a regular basis.

I fully realise that I have just insulted an increasingly large section of the population, but in my defence, when I see someone with a tattoo the furthest thing from my mind is that they actually have the ability to read.

Maybe someone can narrate my comments to them.

RE: Why are scammers the most polite and complimentary?

Just looking through some of the pictures on web search -> "romance scammer pictures", I saw some of those pics on here in new members and photo gallery.

RE: Why are scammers the most polite and complimentary?

I am kind of familiar with scammers, as 15 have tried to get money from me in 1 way or another. I like to believe many people are honest and give most people a chance, until that 1 email that actually asks for the money.

The least amount asked for has $200, back in 2006(I think). The highest amount was $9000. Many claim to live in America on their profile, then after a few emails you learn they are not really here. I have had mostly diff types of attempts on me, though some did try the same thing that another already tried.

The quick ones will ask for money, telling you something happened right away. One was visiting a country selling her goods there and got kidnapped, and told to get so much for her release. The slow ones will create a long lasting type of relationship and then ask for help in getting over to America.

One asked me to help send money to her friend, but he lived in a country that doesn't have wire transfers, so she wanted to send the money to my back account. Another didn't speak English and needed to use a translator which costs so much per email. After 5 months she disappeared.

The biggest one (I kind of remember) was a dating site, that cost a huge amount $150 for a month or two. They matched you up with someone that was compatible (so they thought). That person took a week to reply to anything they sent her. She never posted a picture with the site, so when we exchanged pics after 2 weeks, I got nothing. After about 4 to 5 weeks they sent a list of "must have/cant stand". When I filled it out for the exchange, she quit, and I lost anytime I had. Scam by the web site.

After the first few, I asked on the forums, and someone sent a link filled with thousands of pictures of "Known" scammers. I matched each picture I had on that site, and saw them all on there. This is just 1 of many such sites

As I was on about 2-3 diff dating sites back early 2000's I told all of those sites about the scamming, and started joining more sites and letting them know also. Eventually some of them started letting their customers know too, though some did not.