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RE: The Importance of Listening in Relationships
One or both partners may spend too much time talking and not enough time listening. It is important to express your feelings verbally, but it is equally important to listen.I thank the staff for posting this article.
It is the root cause of many failed relationships, including infidelity. Not listening to one's partner and understanding the message can lead to many problems in a relationship. It is very important also to find the time to listen to the other partner's concern and understand it. Don't say, "I don't have the time now.' Create the time for him or her.
And when you talk, talk and don't babble, give the other partner a chance to offer a feedback. And wait for the other partner to finish. Not only is it respectful, it gives you a chance to understand the message being conveyed.
Talk, Listen, Digest & Feedback. TLDF: The basic keys.
Talk: The person talks.
Listen: You listen.
Digest: You understand the message.
Feedback: Your positive reaction to the message.