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RE: 7 Little Things That Will Tick Him Off

One girl a long time ago turned my computer on and viewed who knows what on it without my knowledge or consent. THEN she was angry at me and snapped at me quite angrily over something she saw on there. IJ never did hear what she said. Maybe it was a made-up something. I didnt know any better (never taught a single practical thing-and that was intentional.)
She continued to spend my money down and at the same time to become more enraged that i didnt give her MORE money. She was THAT kind of person. So now what i know better, i dump the few girls who come my way real fast, when they start doing that sort of thing. I wont forgive it ONCE, for one minute. And no apology or any other offering can fix it!
I finally learned my lesson during my marriage. She did more than mess with my computer.
My ex wife made me fully realize there's some things you can't fix.

RE: Become the Alpha Wolf: The Ten LIES That Will Make You a Better Man

Sigma says " meh "

RE: 5 Things a Quality Man Won't Do

Brilliant! Very well put. Now, to meet one of them :))

RE: 4 Warning Signs That The Man You're Dating Might Be A Psychopath

I was with one for three years! Constant womanizing, constant lies, excuses and empty promises!! Constant trolling and he's not a young man either, he would tell me I'm the only one and that he loves me and wants the relationship and walk out the door and be video chatting, calling, texting and searching other women!! They are very good at manipulating the situation and gas lighting!!

RE: 10 Tips a Guy Doesn't Want to Date You

Most of this is nonsense. So much so I quit reading. Let's look at a few by number:

1. Nothing is mentioned her calling him. What if, in their parting words, she said, "I'll call you", and so he's waiting for that call? This is a stupid premise. Similarly, what if work just had a major breakdown, or similar, and everybody's doing over-time (some companies operate in this mode all the time, been there done that) and he is just too busy, even though he's thinking of her constantly? Yes, there are people that just walk away (women on here do it 90% of the time, in my experience, but many are scammers, so I don't judge). But it isn't a "male" trait. One call solves this fabricated dilemma.

2. If a woman is more concerned about being impressed, that just being with him, maybe he is making the point he doesn't want the distractions other places may entail. Maybe he doesn't want a 'gold-digger'. I knew a very pretty woman in the Navy. She started hinting to me she might be interested. But just a quick conversation with one guy put an end to that. She always demanded more and more expensive restaurants, etc. And she switched boyfriends often. It appears I was the only one that said no to her. So, ladies, if you want expensive, offer to pay the bill, or be more involved in the planning of the date. Or best yet, concentrate on the person you are with, not where you're going.

3. Same premise as 1. People have busy lives nowadays. Making blanket statements like this is just bigotry towards men. If a man spends a lot of time at work, it is for a reason. It is simple to find out whether he is "stalling" or truly busy. In some situations you can ask if you can swing by his work or house to drop something off, like info on the next date you are hoping for or planning. To make statements like this, assumes that something untoward is going on. Again, this is just bigotry against men, when superficial details such as these are spewed out.

4. This one actually makes a little sense. But it is a two-way street. In my experience, women are far more likely to be talking on the phone during a date, than men. I've been in many a restaurant with women answering their phones. Men do too, but not as much. But if they do, they are usually on it the entire time. Most of those that I recall appeared to be married, and I felt sorry for the wife.

5. If his computer and phone aren't locked up, some scammer is sure to get into them at some point, and it may expose your phone number publically as well. If his phone *isn't* locked up like Fort Knox, stay away from him and don't give him your phone number, unless you want to see it published on the world wide web.

Etc. The fact is, this whole thing isn't chock-full of common sense. Some that follow appear to be blatant, and obvious, but I didn't read past this point.

Yes, there are lots of men that are cads. I've heard them talking that they only will stay with any woman for 4 years, so they never end up in a common law marriage. So, at the four year mark, they get rid of their "girlfriend" of the past four year. This is evil behaviour. If you are dating a guy, and his last relationship lasted only 4 years, you might want to look into why.

Common sense is much more important than a list of "reasons" that may not even apply.

For example, any guy in or near his 30's, should been able to find a wife by then. (There are exceptions to this. Total abstinence, for example.) But, it doesn't take much to find out, if he's the slightest bit honest, why he hasn't married. Usually, he can get what he wants without getting married. No marriage, no messy divorce. He gets to keep all his money. No support payments. Many men see this as a way of life. Don't "put out" for these creeps. Women who do are the ones that help create them. And if he asks for nude photos? Guess what. No Gentleman would ever do that!

Just my opinion.

Shalom,
Iyyov

RE: 6 Reasons to Dump Him

So where are the reasons you should dump a women , rest assured , that would only require omly one answer .

RE: 4 Warning Signs That The Man You're Dating Might Be A Psychopath

Never ignore the red flags.

RE: Know the Rules: A Guide to 21st Century Dating

It's nice to know that there are still some gentlemen out there somewhere.

RE: 4 Warning Signs That The Man You're Dating Might Be A Psychopath

"... and never think this type of behaviour is limited to men only. The female equivalent is quite as treacherous. She may be called a 'man eater'. Stealing your heart and thinning your wallet will be her main impact. After she's gone, you'll wonder how you could have been so stupid."

Very good point, needed to be bought up. Could someone list the warning signs, the red flags if you will, to be on the lookout for.

RE: How to Cope with a Stubborn Child

I'm happy I have none.

RE: How Age Gaps Can Affect a Relationship

Relatively interesting but obvious really. The way the article and pitfalls are explained it's clear that the older person in the relationship is invariably the male with few to no exception. Women generally have a lot more sense and want men of similar age to themselves.
Males who chase much younger women will of course get left behind when the young woman feels embarrassed and ashamed to be seen with an old bloke. The bloke will end up alone and the young woman will find a man of her own age and put the embarrassing, tawdry old bloke in the past and never talk him and pretend she doesn't even know him a few months later when she's mixing with people of her own age.

RE: How to Cope with a Stubborn Child

1) “Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it.”
-- Proverbs 22:6

2) Lead by example, and if even that doesn't work..

3) Shock collar.

RE: Single Men Over 50: 5 Ways to Find the Right Woman

Good insight about what is going on on the internet of dating.

RE: 4 Signs You're Getting Played Online

If it smells, throw it out.

RE: Why are scammers the most polite and complimentary?

The internet is to blame for people not making the effort to impress the other.

One can lay in PJ and write, then turn off the machine and talk to another the next day.

RE: Choosing Wedding Lingerie: How to Wow Your Groom on Your Wedding Night

FYI - Victoria's Secret has gone woke, fired her Angels, and taken on the blue-haired, American-hating soccer lesbian as their new rep.

Look for back issues and see if they still have that style in stock.

Or, check out an Eastern European outlet. They haven't drunk the PC KoolAid (yet).

RE: Advice for Dating a Single Parent

Short answer: Don't.

1) In the new scheme of things, you will always be number three.

2) Some of those little tykes are threatened by having competition for mom's love and become little holy terrors.

3) One false accusation of touching on the bad place, or even just parental discipline, can end your normal life. (I've had to defend such people in court. You really have to swim upstream to make it even a level playing field).

Not worth the risk.

RE: 5 Things You Need to Know About Dating a Lawyer

Well that's an interesting read and I cannot dispute any of those points. I'd like to add a sixth, if I may.

Lawyers are not fungible. They are not generic, but like anyone else, such as priests, accountants, mechanics and Jedi, some are good (and good at what they do) and some are bad: argumentative, vindictive and greedy.

I suppose, as in any other field of endeavor, you have to be careful not to pick one from the dark side of the Force, because, if you do, you get a Bad Egg with Superpowers.

On the other hand, having a lawyer by your side can be a very, very handy thing indeed.

RE: 10 Reasons a Man Should Cook

Where do I find such a man?

RE: Scam Profile Red Flags

It is noble of you to help people identify scammers but at the same time your article is available to them to get better at their game.

RE: Scam Profile Red Flags

ortho-surgeon in Syria is very popular in my mailbox.
also cancer problems and " i need emergency 600$
even though i am wealthy"

and they can prove one thing about their claims.