This is a list of random comments on All Articles - ordered by date. Click on the article title to view the article. Click here to create an Article.

Skipper4ever

RE: Why Long Distance Relationships are Doomed to Fail

Thats a good Question...i can wait i can live in a far distance relationship. When she can even wait for me its allright. I search for a Women who thinks even so in the Caribbean. Its a pity but thats in all long distance relationships the same. I think the the basics is to trust each other. There are a lot oft pretty boys and girls around the globe. And its not a crime to look them when you be true to your one.
Skipper4ever

RE: 5 Things You Should NOT Do, If You’re NOT Married

yay Very Funny but tell me how to keep a German job when you immigrate to other country in a few years. So its a personal deciding and work is everywhere Jobs are everywhere but the place you live is choosen by anyone self. And when i can bring my job with me its less important. The only Question that must be answered is love strong enough or not. In gold times its easy whats about More difficult times in life that anyone have? If that breaks a relationship then it is not real love.
whitelily1

RE: Scam Profile Red Flags

Beware if the profile stated " God fearing" or "Godly people"

Using word dear, darling, love , hun in early contact.
And very common in a short time communication in the message they already doing drama mental abused
with very emotionals sentences put us in the corner with
no chance to explain. They design the communication to be a totaly screwup missunderstood conversation.
Full with anger.. left us wondering .,what had happen ? laugh
Very abnormal communication if you logicaly analyze.
Carefull when they show a live C2C in Skype, the video is looping. We can only see them in 3 second
If we ask to turn on again the cam.. they will be very angry..and said "you dont trust me ???"
doh confused no chance to have an interactive conversation through the cam

You right, Blue cypres, their english language is perfect textbook. Keep me wonder what kind of English translator apps are they using ? confused
BlueCypress

RE: Scam Profile Red Flags

We all can be victims of our own creations within virtual reality. I had an experience on this site and must say, I always felt a bit ahead and wondered what would happen next. I always had the impression that the person doesn't really answer my thoughts, even though it was in perfect English. Soon I felt some sort of jealousy from her site. She wanted real love and therefore someone trustworthy. Suddenly the adventure enrolled and it didn't take long. "I received a phonecall from Africa", she wrote. "My mom had a terrible car accident and can´t speak nor move anymore." I have to fly as soon as possible to see her." I asked: "Your mother?" - "Yes. My parents died in a car accident when I was young and she was the one taking care of me. I will have to go and arrange things for her there... she´s working for an orphanage..." It was really exciting for me to experience this sort of story and to imagine it all along. Then the hello from Ghana. We were trying to Skype but it didn't´t work. She wrote about the doctors, the children, her birthday which she would celebrate with the children etc.. And then another story: "I left my purse in the taxi from the airport. All was in there, my money, cards..."- "I need money." ....following suggestions where to deposit money, emotional persuasions and so on. I felt nearly embalmed with words but no love which made me quit the conversation. It was the most perfect and complex story. Heartbreaking. Maybe I am wrong but the goal of our chats has always been disguised in a dramatic and very professional way. I sure do hope that this contact could pay her ticket back to the States in the end.
Jao1961

RE: Scam Profile Red Flags

Well there's another! Actually had the message typed to me but pasted it 3 times and became one paragraph.
Jao1961

RE: Scam Profile Red Flags

I'm not offended in anyway shape or form. Simple reason being, I am part Native American, German. I live in a town with the Seneca tribe on a reservation. The town is the reservation. And some Native people do not have dark hair or dark complexion. I am darker than some enrolled natives. Some have brown hair or black with blue eyes! And that is very striking. Some are very light with light blonde hair. Some that have the stereotype features are not enrolled natives. :-) Just saying don't judge by movies books and oh there's no teepees or wigwams I was asked that once when giving directions. Silly people
Jao1961

RE: Scam Profile Red Flags

Lmao! I just had a "gentleman's profile read they are 4 foot and 3 inches tall. Told him go away not real and promptly blocked. =-O applause
lovecanbereal

RE: Scam Profile Red Flags

To me one of the main hallmarks of the scammer, is to pressure you in the first one or two messages to respond to a private email address. This is to avoid the scrutiny of moderators on the site, and also to avoid being blocked. Watch for this as most scammers will try these tactics.
skumarsk
whitelily1

RE: 4 Signs You're Getting Played Online

Yes, been there, and those shity are a real man!
Must be they've been mentaly and emotionaly abuse by bad experience of scams.
The worst is they wount show up when the times come to meet face to face, the best sissy coward !
And perhaps they are so ugly like a troll!
So,what is the difference with a scammers digging wallets
and him scamming emotion and mentality ?
whitelily1

RE: HOW TO STAY YOUNG

Positive thinking, eat healthy food, sleep enough, regular sports or daily walking, reduce using chemicals on skin
Be kind to people, stop nagging ,bulying, anger to others
More love and laughter and drink wine !

wine kiss
Gralum

RE: How to Dress to Attract a Man: A Guide for Women over 40

The best dress a woman can wear is a smile. We men are simple like that, yet women want to make it so complicated. Granted, you do look very good when you through the handbook of dress and makeup codes, but....back to the start of this paragraph. :)
whitelily1

RE: How to Dress to Attract a Man: A Guide for Women over 40

Im agree , but not for attracting man !
Please look at the positive angle of this article
I think all woman over 40s and nearly 50s like me
wants to look different, it is time to spoil ourself
looking fresh, younger, beautiful and fabulous!
No need expensive treatment or expensive outlook
Just make something different, changing style
like grow longer hair or trim shorts, dyed with different colours
More body exercise and reduce the extra weight will
helping boost our confidence
Dare to wear bright colours for clothes,
Healthy life style and live with a positive mind and atitude.
Sure this will bring a fresh change to an old person

grin
whitelily1

RE: 5 Things You Need to Know About Dating a Lawyer

Only give them time to read books becose they need to digging more refferences. And that is their duty and responsibility.
A time for self solitude.. becos they need to think, imagine, reconstruct the case looking for angle of solution. As i know they also think and imagine in theyr sleep!
An argument or sharing opinion is good . It is helping refresh mind becos they can find options in every opinion.

So i think A lawyer they are smart and an open minded person as long as it is logic and acceptable.
the difference with other profession is, lawyer are excessively using brain and tounge !

The rest is the same just like others with common profession
lemonsieur

RE: 4 Signs You're Being Played By A Man Online

1. if i'm not mistaken this is how you copulate,... with boosted egos...
2. when i realise you take advantage of me as a presence i will reciprocate using you as a presence. it is only fair...
3. to ask about you, i need to substancially care about you, to do so, i would prefer if you have a mind of your own, rather than following generic advice, otherwise you are meat.
4.i have my ups and downs as you do. if i communicate them i ruin your day and don't love you enough, if i don't i am detached distanced and hostile. f*ck you lady.
whitelily1

RE: 4 Signs You're Being Played By A Man Online

It is true, plenty of man and woman players in here, in CS.
And they are A real people (jerk) not a scammer.
Becareful, the worst also can happened in the real situation. They dare to play joker when the time comes meet them in real !
I think those kind of people join CS for killing time and have fun only.
So sweet on the screen net but in reality is, they have wife or husband .

I always asking if they have facebook, we can see who they are in the daily real world and words.
mykingdomforanam

RE: Making Him Wait: Why it’s Brilliant

Tell a woman she has to wait, and see her look disgusted, as her lips get tight, and she says, FINE!

When translated that means, you won't get another chance; and she doesn't want to talk anymore.
speedster83a

RE: 4 Signs You’re Dating A Father Figure

This article definitely seems to have been written by a feminist woman (the fanatic type one), the right title for this article should have been "signs for dating a father or mother figure", that would have made the article fair and objective, but what can you expect from a feminist woman, they criticize male chauvinists but they act exactly like them. They wouldn't realize it though. =D
Soooty

RE: 5 Things You Need to Know About Dating a Lawyer

"What do you call ten lawyers, at the bottom of the see"?.....
worldwide2

RE: Making Him Wait: Why it’s Brilliant

I wholeheartedly agree....not just about most Americans, but about most people worldwide. There are times when there is such an attraction that two people just cannot wait; I say that with tongue in cheek, because they can wait, they just don't want to. However, the danger lies in that it just becomes about the physical and let's face it; than can fade away without the cerebral stimulation. A relationship worth having, is worth working for. handshake heart beating
Dishan26
saidmahmoud

RE: The Overweight Woman is Desirable Too!

to me Overweight Woman is OK
to me the woman should have wide hips,curves ,long hair ,and killer smile,
or she is just a man
dominantwoman

RE: Online Dating- How to Spot if He's a Fake

About skype is not true. You may not have limited internet. the best is what apps you can talk to anyone. I used to have a picture and then talk and meet is the best way. Of course in a public place
ravimodi

RE: Online Dating- How to Spot if He's a Fake

I agree with certain points. But I also believe its a matter of preference hence guys like myself are here.

Skype may be good for checking out appearance...

Very informative article.
head banger
thumbs up
ravimodi

RE: How to Live to 100

Realy Very nice post...
cheers
ravimodi

RE: The Overweight Woman is Desirable Too!

I want someone who is Loving & caring, supportive and be responsible...teddybear
AnneFleur

RE: How to Spot a Lie

If the story is to good to be true, and you can not find anything about them on social media, if they are doing very difficult when you ask them to have a live video chat session they always have something about sorry my network was not working or I had to go to hospital and couldn't call etc etc.

RE: How to Spot a Lie

Interesting views, but not really applicable when using the internet, so how to tell when someone is lying in a faceless environment?
exterion

RE: My Zen Experience

I believe you ..once i had similar feelings.i didnt think tht u had been under the effect on drug.
It's a gift from God :)
paulie11

RE: The Overweight Woman is Desirable Too!

For all you overweight gals please check out my story, head banger
lemonsieur

RE: My Zen Experience

basho does that : ) thanks for reminding me of things i used to read while at university, everyday life misleads us. be well, and thanks again :)
kyam14

RE: Get More Views to Your Profile

Hello am new on this site and it's really impressive that we can send messages but unluckily for me I can not see who viewed my profile, and more so I have a question symbol on ( who viewed me) I don't know why.
But site is great, so any one with that also ???help help confused confused
Basetek

RE: 4 Signs You Are Being E-Maintained

I'm a guy and i have a girl doing this to me. its horrible i mean we have such a great connection and always have fun together but she doesn't answer my text and then makes excuses. thanks for this advice ^^ I have learned from this article thank you..
AmIhim4U

RE: Get More Views to Your Profile

I would like to have it as,,,,, "You can not look at profile till turn on """Who viewed you""" first." So that way you can see who had looked, but left no message. It would help on wasting time, to try and make contact with a person.
Also, should embed and question before sending a message. So the person being viewed, knows that the viewer is reading the profile entirely. WOW, that is a good idea AmIhim4U, so no just click and write, without knowing the person and his or her, kind of mate wanted!!!!

Feeling Creative?

back to top

Would YOU like to publish an article on Connecting Singles?

Would YOU like to publish an article on Connecting Singles? Are you an expert at something, have an interesting story, or a good lesson to teach... why not share with other members. If you have experience or expertise in a topic that will be of interest to CS members, you may submit an article to be published on the site.
Post your own Article »

We use cookies to ensure that you have the best experience possible on our website. Read Our Privacy Policy Here