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RE: Get More Views to Your Profile

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RE: To Social Distance or not To Social Distance - 4 Tips for Dating During the Pandemic

Social distancing is horse pucky.

RE: Common Dating Fallacy: “Why Buy the Cow If You Can Get the Milk for Free?”

The very concept of marriage is massively flawed and wide-open vulnerable to hacking. As just one example, the common black widow killer.
Female Black widow Spiders KILL AND EAT their mates. A human black widow killer is a woman who kills her husband for his money. This can be repeated many times. Her way to her husband's money is greatly lubricated by police cooperation.

RE: You Know It Will Never Work When…

It will never work when both do not actually put some efforts in the relationship...
Some effort it means work hard on getting to know each other and earn each other trust...

Since now days a new fashion as popped out trust anybody on their word, well the relationship at some point will break coz trust isn't actually earned the hard way...

RE: You Know It Will Never Work When…

When she talks a lot about YOUR money. WHATEVER it is, if it's always or often about YOUR money, you should leave.
When you have bad or just uncomfortable feelings about your partner. Even if you dont know WHY you feel that way. Leave.
When you DO know why you feel bad about your partner. Get out of there or you will one day find yourself in a position you cannot get out of, unharmed.
If her friends always need "help" and she feels sorry for them. And she feels sorry for people in the street. She's expending a great deal of energy "helping people" and finding MORE people to help. So what does she need you for? Perhaps she feels you have all this money you dont need, and everybody ELSE DOESN'T. You better get out of there.
She talks to people behind your back. Your neighbors, ANY other people. And people are hostile to you. She might even let on she's talked to your neighbors, for instance. and she says they dont like you. You're mean. you're selfish. You better get out of there before she and your neighbors find a way to get at that money. And property. and your pets and kids too.
Do they yell at you? EVER? do you think there's something "wrong" with them? There is.
Trust YOURSELF not your parents family or relatives or neighbors and only your friends when you KNOW they're right.
If they're jealous of you, it's more likely than not, that They, are cheating on You!
You do NOT have to tell the person off or explain anything. The more you tell them, the more vulnerable you make yourself to them.
Life Insurance, Life Insurance. If she EVER mentions that You should get life insurance, you are probably in love with a murderer. Deal with it now. Or deal with it when you have an "accident." Dont worry about HER, she'll get the money.
If she calls, or threatens to call the police on you. Well if you act like a drugged, drunk, or out of control jackass, that's your problem, i cant help you. But if you know she's being unreasonable, I DONT CARE if "she's drunk" or if her meds are out of whack (often because YOU "said something to hurt her feelings) you had better get the hell out of there. Forgiveness? So you want to be an angel? You are dealing with a real person not some tv show character. When you forgive you just handed your partner a dagger. And one day that'll be stuck in your back.
And marriage. Is FOR FOOLS. If you think im wrong, talk to some divorce lawyers about it. (NOT JUST ONE!) They can be corrupt and dishonest and incompetent, too.
You will NEVER, get better advice, from anyone, in your life, than the advice i just gave you.

RE: Get More Views to Your Profile

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RE: How to move on after a difficult break-up

Thank you so much I really needed to read that.

RE: 8 Natural Ways to Overcome Depression

That's an amazing article, thanks! I used to have severe anxiety, and this condition was the worst because I couldn't live a normal life. Getting sunlight actually helped me for a while, and taking one CBD capsule per day also was making me feel better, but only therapy really made me overcome this condition.

RE: 10 Reasons to Avoid Dating a Married Man

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RE: Are Affairs more acceptable for men than women?

Cheating, yet another reason why i think marriage is a crock of hogwash. If you dont marry in the first place you will have less problems and you'll be able to leave whenever you want to. OF COURSE PEOPLE CHEAT. It's just part of being a demon(crat) Demons encourage it.
Any commitment you make, should be broken according to the Demons. And that is just one fraction of what Demons are doing to ruin your society, your country, and all other countries. Weaken them and they will not be able to stand up to a world order.
Many people will look down on you if you do not marry. But they aren't worth p'n on.
WELL THEY'RE NOT! And people who do that dont give a g*d d*mn f''king flick about you.
One of the best ways to make your money and posessions AND LIFE needlessly vulnerable is to marry. If you're married i suggest you get a divorce. Before all those little things she or he did that confused and annoyed you, are made to make sense. When you are beaten, strangled, pushed off the pier. WHATEVER.
There are so many ways to rid yourself of the spouse who's standing between you, and his assets, im not even going to get into it right now.
If the person cannot love you or "mate" with you cause you didnt marry them, THEN LEAVE THEM before it's too late!

RE: Get More Views to Your Profile

Hey lover I am.fairly new to this online of a things ... And my main purpose is to met with a good and kind man that really knows the value of a relationship and knows.the worth of a lady... I am god-fearing easy going woman I am strong enough to take care of my self and I want the same.thung from.. my partner yes I am looking for my life companionship.. a man who can show me what true love is again I'll be here waiting for the right one if interest in a lady like me, kindly send me a messages I don't ignored I make more friends good or bad. Your character will judge thee... I don't send money and do not want overseas daddy's.. I am not going to ask you for money bank of anything crazy, I want a good and kind man that I can spend the rest of my life with THANKS !!

RE: Get More Views to Your Profile

Hey lover I am.fairly new to this online of a things ... And my main purpose is to met with a good and kind man that really knows the value of a relationship and knows.the worth of a lady... I am god-fearing easy going woman I am strong enough to take care of my self and I want the same.thung from.. my partner yes I am looking for my life companionship.. a man who can show me what true love is again I'll be here waiting for the right one if interest in a lady like me, kindly send me a messages I don't ignored I make more friends good or bad. Your character will judge thee... I don't send money and do not want overseas daddy's.. I am not going to ask you for money bank of anything crazy, I want a good and kind man that I can spend the rest of my life with THANKS !!

RE: 5 Signs A Relationship Is Becoming Abusive

Absolutely right on. Except the get help part.
When somebody acts like this to you, they're not worth fixing, or trying to fix.Get them the H3LL out of your life COMPLETELY even if you have to involve lawyers and police. And make it CLEAR that you want their @$$ OUT of you life, and STAY OUT! If you go back to them, it's your funeral, so to speak. Sorry, but it IS.

RE: How Age Gaps Can Affect a Relationship

good communication bridges it all I've always believed.

RE: 5 Things You Should NOT Do, If You’re NOT Married

No offense but this is a lot of baloney. If you already BEEN married ever, or ARE married right now you know, or SHOULD know, that your beloved spouse has tremendous power over you. Dont go joint or make mutual purchases IF you're UNmarried???????????????
Try it then, when you marry. The marriage itself is a mistake. It always was and always will. Why dont you talk to (not one but several-because many are incompetent or corrupted like everybody else is!!) as i was saying.
TALK TO SEVERAL DIFFERENT DIVORCE LAWYERS.
And if you STILL want to marry after THAT, go ahead and do it. Good Luck. Because you're going to need it.

RE: How Age Gaps Can Affect a Relationship

Yeah yeah love love LoVe. Thing is, first of all, some people dont, or dont want to, fall in love. Also what the f IS love anyway? Some of you humans, for instance, believe that love is you dont cheat on each other. Other people think love is the opposite. Letting your mate run wild and free and are happy when they're satisfied. And there's even in -between people. They both want to make it with others, but the want the relationship to be deep. Yeah deep, man deep.
Another thing is this marriage thing. you think THAT'S LOVE?
Signing a DOCUMENT for love (or whatever) so later when it all falls apart your "love" can use the law against you? Yeah.
Age difference. What about people who ARE looking for a mother or father figure?
Maybe it happens more often than you think. Maybe sadder, is some people struggle with that all their lives, never realizing that for whatever reason, or whatever their parents did to them, they are actually meant for that sort of a relationship. Usually but not always, the older one is seen as one with great wisdom, and experience. The Younger can learn from him. And the younger brings freshness and youth into the Older's life. Maybe even gives him something to live FOR.
They both have to understand their humor and knowledge was geared to whatever generation they were born into. Like a Brit and an American talking. They understand each others language (almost) perfectly, but some things will be taken the wrong way. And they simply have to be aware of that.
And how many times have people of whatever is the Perfect Age for each other failed miserably in THEIR relationships?
I say if you like something, go for it. Be AWARE of possible pitfalls. And when and IF it goes stale, then you simply must get out. And God help you if you married the bastid!
C'ya!

RE: Advice for Dating a Single Parent

didnt know much when i was younger. Even into middle age. even into older.
Took me a long time to have any logical thoughts thanks to a the FINE upbringing i received.
So any god-darned way i tried getting to know women. My life could have been made a BAD comedy.
I actually got talked into putting up with their kid's cr@p and hate. Kicking the legs to the chair i was sitting in. Yelling and screaming. and the good old add or adhd or whatever the parents taught him to act like was called....running manically up and down the stairs. And many other things. NOW i would want to know if the kid was good-mannered. or better yet i dont even want to meet him. What the heil do you do with KIDS anyway?? can't cuss in front of them. So what do you do?
They act like a rat's behind and then the mother who brought them up that way expects loads of compliments, and a close-horse boyfriend who's "perfect" and falls in love with their dam @ss and marries them!
I dont even want to know their freakin KIDS.
It's hard enough to make one person like you. how the heil do you relax with a KID. say golly gosh darn it to heck and the mother blows up and the kid laughs and goes to school and writes stuff all over the walls.
Oh and the words you cant say in front of their kids??
For instance DONT SAY CHEESEBURGER!
or the kid flips out and you have to take him to mcdonalds and then she (the girl you're supposed to be having a 'relationship' blames YOU for saying the dreaded word! It's all your fault. Then she and the kid ESPECIALLY if it's a son, start pouting and popping PILLS because YOU said CHEESEBURGER.
And it's all your fault and you're a big bad meanie.
So TO G D F'N HEIL WITH THE LOT OF THEM!
WAIT a minute! Im not done yet!
And she always always always sets up a situation where you're alone with the kid. Even if it means her saying she's too busy so why dont you take out little johnnie or ritchie or some girl with a weird name they gave her and pretend it was normal. Like SMUKKY or SNOOKIE or Ellie-McNelli dot Voltenhammer.
SO YOU CALL HER THAT, AND THE MOTHER SAYS, OH NO, THAT'S A FAMILY NAME! YOU cant use that name with her! You gotta call her Ashlanda or some nonsense!
Jesus Christ.

RE: What you should know about Online Dating over 50

The only thing you need to know about online dating is vaseline and an old sock.
Dont get your Private area all cranked up because it's probably just some dam guy wearing a dress.

Thank you
By the way if you're a gent with class, make sure the sock is washed.
Unless you want to be like me and save detergent.

RE: 4 Signs You're Getting Played Online

I know a few things you can do.
Look for inconsistencies in what he/she says about themselves.
Keep in mind that not all those "women" are even women. Some of them are MEN and they dont give a gosh darn in heck whether you get hurt or not. OR they might actually enjoy it. Further, sometimes those "women" or even "single men" you are talking to are MORE THAN ONE MAN. You might even be communicating with a group of men.
Most people know how to snatch a pic from online and post it as their own. So much for that.
Marriage.. How many times do i have to tell you people about marriage?? HOW MANY TIMES?
Just dont do it. Marriage is an invitation to control you, in ways you cannot even imagine. Marriage puts your money AND LIFE in danger. Just because you're not being told about it for various reasons does not mean it's not happening all around you.
If marriage "keeps your spouse from just walking out on you if they feel like it" then imagine what it's going to be like to live with somebody who WANTS to walk out on you. Or what if they leave you cryin and bleedin in the corner while they go out to a bar and ohhhh you never expected this! Well NOW you got to get a divorce! If you CAN.
I CAN EASILY DO A FEW MORE PAGES, but i'll leave it at that.
Oh-well i cant let this one go though. One more.
If he/she is BLAMING YOU for stuff you know is not your fault, for ANY reason like, they "had a bad day" or it's "PMS" you had better run WHILE YOU STILL CAN!
Ok with great reluctance, im going to end it here.
Good Luck!
And if you get married, you're gonna need it!

RE: Choosing Wedding Lingerie: How to Wow Your Groom on Your Wedding Night

This is wayyy too complicated!!
Just wear whatever your heart desires
And let the mood set you free
It's all coming off anyways, if the attraction and chemistry is there
You won't need to worry about any of this decor

RE: How old is too old!

No such thing as "too old."

RE: How Age Gaps Can Affect a Relationship

There's more discrimination in the replies here than I would imagine, and those that are, should be ashamed of themselves. But the few that aren't should pat themselves on the back, especially: sorupdassajib, MrBenjaminWright, Semsu, fea28.

My wife of blessed memory was 18 years older than me. We had a good marriage, and age-difference was never a problem for us, but it certainly was for a lot of other people. People accused her of being a gold-digger, etc. The treated me like a 60's hippie, just because I have long-hair. The fact that I listen to classical music and don't do drugs of any kind, was always lost on them. Their prejudice always made their choices for them.

I don't recommend running out and trying to find someone much older, or much younger. But there are some very valid and legitimate reasons for it.

I divorced my first wife after one month of marriage when I caught her writing a letter to her boy-friend. (She claimed I was much older and mature than she was....a whole nine months!) It was ten years before I even considered dating again. When I did, I'd seen enough in that ten years to know I wanted a mature woman, and there just weren't any to be found that were still single. So, I made a conscious decision to find somebody older, as long as they appeared to have a little bit of maturity. It worked, and it worked quite well.

As I said, the only age-issues we ever had, were other people treating us wrong. Sad that prejudice still runs so many stupid people's lives.

But be clear on one point. For good or for ill, it is more likely that the older person will die before the younger. When my 26-year marriage ended and I became a widower, it was the toughest thing I've ever gone through. The marriage was worth it, and I would never change a thing. But it took me 2 1/2 years to get over it, and Covid kicked me when I was already down, and I have since lost four very good friends (none from the virus, but instead, from the quarantine or "treatments". One died less than a week after my wife did, and was completely unrelated to covid or quarantine.)

So, you can safely ignore most of the discussion about age, except the discrimination, as some of the above comments show. But you still need to make sure you get married for the right reason! (Yes, marriage is even more important today, that it was in the past.)

Shalom,
Iyyov

RE: 4 Signs You Are A Submissive Girlfriend

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