Breaking up
I don't look forward to this part of a relationship. Yet it is inevitable. When things are not working as planned and or the so called love is going sideways for whatever reason. What is next? Forward or Reverse?I am not the person that is easily convinced that trust and commitment will get restored if both are willing to work it out. Really?
I am finding the right door to get out at the moment. lol, hopefully the door is wide open.
Anyways share your feelings if you can relate to this.
Do you find ending a relationship quite easy? Or hard? I know it depends, but to me, it is a very uneasy feelings to go through.
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If there was any real feelings I would believe it could be very emotional on both.
I am the one who is leaving but at the same time I believe it was hinted in many ways. My closure is still blurry but that gut feelings you get like, why are you still here?
Confusing sometimes.
Is this the same person that I met?
Knowing me, knowing you
There is nothing we can do
Knowing me, knowing you
We just have to face it, this time we're through
Breaking up is never easy, I know but I have to go
Knowing me, knowing you
It's the best I can do
It hurts of course but if u talked and have the proper closure then going my way and his would be easier for both of us
Lindsy this topic is waking me up early this 3:3am:banana:
"for the good times"
That is the after breaking
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Moving on
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Friends again
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Normal life
I don't like breaking up, I prefer to just disappear and not face any unpleasant feelings...over a long period of time they will stop missing me, and when we talk again it wouldn't be so bad
Thank you ading.
you can text him, it's easier to break up in text messages, I find it much much easier to say what I want to say without looking into his eyes
Am I missing something here
Am I reading "leaving him a message"
Ehem
Just be here
go do what makes you feel better. if he wants you, he'll find you, even if you're already in the arms of someone else
That ur going away?
Maybe he doesn't respond because ....
I just don't like this part. I am not hurt as I thought I would feel. I think it is just the good and happy times are haunting me at the moment.
I know saying goodbye can be very difficult, that's why I didn't get closure from my past relationships coz I was too scared to face it, I opted to run away and pretend they're no longer there, in reality, theyre still there haunting me
Please don't never break up with me.
Here is a very true story with my soon to be ex. We are driving on the freeway and from out of the blue, he said: "Hun if in case I get a heart attack, just be calm don't panic, elevate my head and call 911 and do as they say. In the meantime just keep telling me you love me and if I don't make it, then it was meant to be."
Ading, I had tears flowing down my cheek when he told me that. I realized I seldom say I love you but he does very often. But of course he knew I loved him then.
Oh he also said apart from that. If he were the one on the wheel, which is often the case as he hates my over speeding tendencies, said: Slide me off the wheel and then elevate my head then call 911"
I only said door because I'm practicing being kind
why do you want to leave ? Looks like you care deeply for this person...if so, then leaving might not be the answer
The reason I am thinking of leaving is because of my suspicion that he is being insincere to me. I don't want to prove I am right nor will I go to the extent of finding it out, it is just that I have this instinct that he is.
I always follow my gut feeling but I tell you don't... there were times I followed my gut feeling, it was all wrong and I regretted it
it happened to me last week, I just don't trust that much anymore and don't want any drama so I opted for an easy way out, I was once again mistaken. I made a 180 turn and immediately did another 180 , I realized my stupidity right away and still human enough to admit my flaws and say I'm frigging sorry
but if you don't care enough to know/find out for sure... then I think the problem is with you, not him ... if i'm wrong don't eat my head off, just a thought is all
Breaking up, I know how that feels it leaves such an empty space, that you have to fill up again somehow
I wish the best for you.
I always believed, things happen for a reason and yes, either good or bad reasons, and I am hoping this is a good one. I will take time to weigh my feelings and how things will work out for now and the near future. Meantime, I think taking a break is a good choice.
Thank you ading.