Feminism....the necessary evolution

Feminism...I have wrote many blogs about it....I would say objectively challenging women to their ways...to the best of my knowledge. It was not to form judgment, but more for bringing better understanding, for myself and for perhaps others.

Back in traditional relationships, the woman's beauty...by many...was cherished more than her being....her vag more than her brain.

....the behavior of both men and women supported those rolls.


Now...feminism....50% divorce....independence....self-defense....lesbianism....increased women work force...

etc....


What happened...is a question that comes to my mind.

Ever since becoming single, about 10 years ago, I have studied women to reduce the odds of becoming involved in a similar ending relationship again. I am a firm believer in learning from my mistakes in life and not to repeat them. I have only ever been with one woman in my life; therefore, I was by no means an expert in that department. So, how do I learn more...I wondered. Wondering no more, a friend of mine introduced me to the internet being a huge resource for learning about women. He recommended me listen to pick up artists. There were a ton of them online, giving their advice on how to pick up women.

That was all fine and dandy. I figured my problem with my previous relationship was that I didn't understand what women valued in a man, a relationship. So, I began to listen to these pick up artists...listening to all the success they were having with women and how their students are becoming masters themselves. Okay, I thought...that is fine...but, I am not looking to meet countless women, I am trying to figure out what women value in a man for a long term relationship. So, I listened and listened and listened....for about 5 years or so. Even today, the friend who turned me on to this information, still talks about pick up strategy....even 10 years later. continued below....
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..but....I have often heard it said though....for some women, that is all they have to offer....is their beauty.



So....

now....

feminism offers women more than one option...

be appreciated for the beauty.
be appreciated for the beauty and brains/talent
be appreciated for the brains/talent
Johnny, at the rate you are going, you will be doing research and reading obscure and extremist theories until the age of 96 when, in your deathbed, you will realise that you missed out on all the women who want to love and be loved who were right in front of you all along.
Heeerrrrrreeee’ssssss Jooohhhnnnyyyy!!! head banger

Johnny,
Why are you acting like you’re not getting any romantic action? Heck, from the things you’ve told me, you’re getting more action than two rock and roll singers. cheers

Lemee see, how many women is it now that got your “Johnny was here” tattoo on them? 12? 20? 4? confused

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If he (Johnny)changes His name then the answer would be none.laugh
like anything...books can relay all the theories they want but its nothing like the real thing.....all the research in the world isn't gonna be anything like being with a real woman...we're all different...something that research doesn't account for.....wave
Thank you KN....I enjoyed reading your thoughts.

With equal pay, that allows women to earn an income that they can support themselves....no longer, forced to be with a man...who may fake it until he makes it.

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Molly, I am afraid of that. laugh

Thankfully, all my research he come near its end and as...I think it was M4 pointed out...so...so...so...very importantly....and something I had recently realized for myself....everything that pick up artist teach is just theory....it is easy to get wrapped up into that phase. I have actually been moving away from that. So, hopefully by 50...lol.

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Well said Multi....I am glad I could rekindle some memories. laugh That is what I remember of relationships too. Maybe, a little think back reminder is not all that bad.

Thanks for sharing.


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Robert, Swamie hit the nail on the head. laugh ...well, close....it is one. I am now looking to put some theory into practice here...so, maybe it might be 2,3,or 4. laugh dunno

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M4....so right you are.

Some even may interpret that theory wrong. Bottom line, without applying it...dunno


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Johnny,

Even that lady that owns that restaurant “Eat - Sit” by the beach, named a hamburger after you. She calls it “The Big One.” grin
Multi, it is interesting how you use the word trap, with some women.

That is something I have not really heard of before.
Goodness Robert. I think you are confusing me with Big Richard. rolling on the floor laughing
Cool, Johnny.

Just don’t stay in practice too long. My friend Saul Aamie, says men only got so many romantic action sessions in them in their lifetime. After that, it’s E-D time.

So, don’t go wasting too many sessions on practice time.
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As I was growing up Robert, I always heard that practice made perfect. So, with that said...and with women who maybe get bored in the bedroom, I am thinking that a little practice may go a far way.

How about you Robert? Anymore of those beach dates where you lady friend takes all the beer and leaves you sitting there with her egg on your face?

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oops Robert....omit those two last questions. I am not suppose to ask questions. uh oh
But, answer at your own risk. laugh
In reality Robert...I don't get any women. I just have theory to work with. laugh
You must have a lot of women with that Robert tattoo....or....a.k.a....Big Richard was here. head banger banana
I wonder Robert....

The fake it till you make it....use or no use

Like, you can tell the women you try and date that you got 100,000 pop cans, when you really have 10,000dunno rolling on the floor laughing tongue
Sometimes I wonder how you have remained single...for as long as you have been on CS. Surely Robert, this is just a tinker place...you must have a ton of women in your real life.
tis the season for egg nog Robert....just sayingcoffee2
Can you imagine Robert....stuffing that sock....

You pull down your pants and a pack of socks falls out. laugh
Okay Robert, before you try to implant some other bad ideas...I should get going. I am watching an old James Bond movie. :)

take care buddy, save some ladies for the rest of us. thumbs up
you mention 100,000 cans Robert, you will be in line Flynn. thumbs up
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Goodness gracious.

Just don't listen to any pick up artist Johnny.

My advice is print plenty of small tabs with your phone number and distribute while singing Carley Rae Jaspen's Call me may be. rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing

It goes like this. You change the lyrics to suit you. grin

I threw a wish in the well
Don't ask me I'll never tell
I looked at you as it fell
And now you're in my way
I'd trade my soul for a wish
Pennies and dimes for a kiss
I wasn't looking for this
But now you're in my way
Your stare was holding
Ripped jeans, skin was showin'
Hot night, wind was blowin'
Where you think you're going baby?
Hey, I just met you and this is crazy
But here's my number, so call me maybe
It's hard to look right at you baby
But here's my number, so call me maybe
Hey I just met you and this is crazy
But here's my number, so call me maybe
And all the other boys try to chase me
But here's my number, so call me maybe

It works for me.

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So instead of pick up artists, you recommend using the lyrics of songs Usha....if I am to understand you correctly. rolling on the floor laughing

I think you are on to something there. I am going to start doing that on Friday night...with the exact song you shared here. laugh
Johnny, if you follow song lyrics, how about Def Leppard’s “But are you getting it?” beer
Aerosmith’s “Big Ten Inch (record)”
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Great Robert...some back-up plans in case the main one goes over like a lead balloon. That 10 inch special you speak of..is that one you have tried while have a pack of socks packed....if I were to guess laugh
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