Endless selections for mates...
It used to be that women were thought to have endless selections for mates...and all they had was the tough decision on discerning who was the best one to pick. The world has changed.Now with monogamy becoming a thing of the past...they have the less tough decision of picking the best ONES to pick.
However, that is not what this blog is about. It is about men now being in the same position as women. With men now having endless selections and also choosing the best ONES.
Now, I am not saying that is how I am...or how all women and men are....that they want to be with multiple partners. However what I am saying is, both of their available selections have dramatically increased with social media and the internet.
So...what are some of your deal breakers when looking at photos of men or of women on the internet when determining if you want to move forward and pursue a person as a potential mate or life long partner?
For me: when I see a woman post several pictures of herself in fancy restaurants and in expensive formal dining clothes...my mind automatically concludes that she is high maintenance.
or...
When I see a woman posting a picture of herself shooting a gun....that is an automatic red flag for me. I don't care that she owns and knows how to use a gun...but why post a picture of it thinking it is important for her potential mate to know that?
Those are two main ones for me that I can think of right now. What about you?
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Are there any exceptions you would accept....say if he ticks all of your boxes and has a cigarette hanging out of his mouth?
It remains sealed due to Natl. Emergency.
.. Standby.
There are several selections, here alone on CS. Perhaps taking some open minded searching to make a connection happen. The whole world is available...which is larger than any single state.
That is a good point too....with photoshop. That is another turn off for me as well. ...deception...
I'm also a minimalist.
People make judgments without trying to get to know the person.
I love them!!!
I think there are many out there that still have monogamy in mind, however, I suspect there are many more today that are not of that mindset...vs....some years ago.
So, it is not a terrible situation, but just more difficult...let's say.
So...you got weeded out. Maybe hold off next time on exposing your source for financial security.
Yes, I like that song as well.
Ask for money before we meet in person.