Remembering those bloggers who are no longer with us...

I'll scroll through some old emails or check photos in my phone and come across someone who passed on. While I'm not close to any CS members, I do remember those bloggers who were an active part of the CS community and are no longer with us.

Nearly a year ago, Willy passed away.
A few years now that wenever left us.
Bearwoman is gone too...

Thinkin' of ya!
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Duh, people drift off or die. Such is life.
teddybear
There are about a dozen on CS that have died in the past decade. Some of them were superb bloggers and also good people. They are missed. Some folks who were prolific writers just disappeared and no one knows anything. Whatever happened to Sistah? Some left because of anti-Muslim rhetoric (that was sad to see). Some got tired of the BS that began emerging when Trump ran in 2015 and just walked away.
I thought of Willy after the Lions beat KC in NFL week 1 as he was a lifelong Lions fan. It’s too bad he wasn’t able to see it.
Who knows, maybe he did see it... angel
I forgot many of you make this your home. One guy told me he had been here since 2010.
How? How can anyone remain at one set of forums for that long? This is rumored to be a dating site not REDDIT or GOOGLE GROUPS.
Same with inbox/outbox, one woman said she had 93 pages of inbox.
Maybe I'm just a drifter.
I'm so used to information changes, first chat rooms, then the internet and ISP news groups, then blogs, now this.
I guess I never expect anything to remain constant.
First pc was like 94, win 3.0.
A lot has changed.

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teddybear
Some people go too soon.
We talk of Willy.
He had a decade of health issues.
Lost a leg from diabetes.
Got COVID and was in ICU and actually pulled though.
I knew the guy probably 20 years.
DL, for the record... this is a dating site! laugh
I have no friends and none ever that long.
I am best alone or with a single woman.
A lot5 of people can't handle alone.
Personally my family was uncaring so I have no concept of what that should feel like.
I understand why they were that way but I don't understand why they never tried to be better people.
Loss brings pain to many people.
Do you know the thing about the last person remembering you dying?
That is when you die.
No more memories everything forgotten.

I always liked this mortality and our great works well the poem is best read.

Ozymandias
By Percy Bysshe Shelley
I met a traveller from an antique land,
Who said—“Two vast and trunkless legs of stone
Stand in the desert. . . . Near them, on the sand,
Half sunk a shattered visage lies, whose frown,
And wrinkled lip, and sneer of cold command,
Tell that its sculptor well those passions read
Which yet survive, stamped on these lifeless things,
The hand that mocked them, and the heart that fed;
And on the pedestal, these words appear:
My name is Ozymandias, King of Kings;
Look on my Works, ye Mighty, and despair!
Nothing beside remains. Round the decay
Of that colossal Wreck, boundless and bare
The lone and level sands stretch far away.”
Funny I just watched a Boondocks where Grandad was hitting a MYSPACE OLD site for the first time.
The parallels were hilarious.
Except he met a real woman.
teddybear
I still love and remember the popular and much missed 'blogger' that I was madly in love with for over 6 years!! heart wings

Not everyone feels the need to be on here every day to rant about what they think the world can't do without!!
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Been here since November of 2005 under username mbcasey.

A few from CS have passed. Jeepers was one who I think is the most remembered.
REALLY???? Wow.

It seems more a place for the lonely or bored who want to connect or chat with other lonely or bored - after all two of the most active bloggers are overtly married, and who knows how many other members are not so overt about their relationship status.

There are of course some I haven't named below because they have been online, if not blogging, recently. But Catfoot has been silent too long. Solamente. Mollybaby. Nonsmoker. The formerly-most-viewed, and chatty, Usha. Miclee. Some may be here under different names but you'd think the sparkle would have shone through.

If anyone has good news re them - sad flower
Connecting Singles is not just a dating site given it has options like 'talk/email/penpal' and not just dating.

It's not even just a singles site because it has the 'not single/not looking' option.

Given the inherent breadth of profile options (except for gender and sexuality of course), I'm not sure anyone abiding by the rues shoudn't be a member, or should be made to feel they're in the wrong for having friends using this medium.
DaytonaGuy, he passed maybe 10 years ago.

I think that was his moniker, but of course everythng gets shortened and I' only certain about the 'Daytona' bit.

He was fun. cheering
I have been here since September '07,seen quite a few people come and go,some we heard what happened when they stopped posting,others just faded away.sad flower
Sometimes they fade away and we never really know what happened.
We had closure on a few:
It was namaron who posted the obituary of whenever. I think he had a brain tumor.
Bearwoman had a friend who knew her CS password and made the announcement.
hpylady knew Willie away from CS and linked his obituary.

miclee returned a few months ago to announce it's okay!
After a long absence CatFoot did make an appearance in a blog...
After seeing it wasn't the place he remembered, he vanished again very quickly.
Hasn't being seen since.

Usha made an announcement saying she was leaving to care for his sick mother, who sadly at the time was at stage 4 from cancer, she had also met someone which could of resulted in her staying away dunno

I dated/met one of the others you mentioned, strangely he's vanished since then uh oh laugh
After reading all of that, no one else finds it sadder than REDDIT?
And those are mainly younger people using those forums.
teddybear
Do you ever hear from Veritas ?
Very strange. I'm gone about an hour and the great conspiracy
Rizla tru blue blog disappeared..
It must have been a conspiracy...
More likely cowardice & the big blue failure to Communicate.
Rizla + tru blue rolling papers
Deep blue | I B M.
Behind blue eYes. ) The Who.

uh oh . . standby. Rabbit. Sign day + 1.
Prove it wasn't.
A conspiracy is only two people joining to take advantage of a third.
BASIC practice.
Sony and other media people did it with price fixing CD's and DVD's.
Then Nvidfia and AMD did it with graphics cards.
Everyone has only a short term memory plus as the song from the Canadian tv show Corner Gas states " You don't know the same things I don't know".


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teddybear
US Blues Grateful Dead.
Blue Monday New Order
teddybear
Affirmative..
Jimnastics. Bohemian Jack. Raphael 119 ..

Blue bloggers who never even attempted to entertain logic [ that is,
The ball point logic of Astronot Bob.
Bohemian grove
Bohemian Jack Kerouak.
Bohemian Neal Cassidy later part of the Merry Pranksters and Grateful Dead Electric Koo laid Acid Tests.
Christian cult loved bu US gov drank the Kool aid.
Jim Jones, James Baker, Jim Morrison, Jimmy Swaggert
Jimmy Carter started funding the Taliban.
Rambo sided with the Taliban against the Soviets.
Taliban teams up with China.
Joan Rivvers killed for calling barack Gay and Mike a man.
Obama biography discusses his gay thoughts. His bother sayd Obama gay, Obama Gay lover on Tucker Carlson.
Alex Jones said it first.
Alex Jones infiltrated Bohemina grove. Obama was at Bohemian grove.
The circle of life.



teddybear
Off topic.
*The trick is, when you bury the body, to plant endangered flowers on top, then the police can't dig there laugh
There was a lady on CS, from the US, that told the best stories about her battle to survive this cruel world. She was nearly always getting a new job and telling us all about the ups and downs of the job at that time.

Cant recall her handle but she was an interesting read, always.
Not the lovely ladylike Lana123456 by any chance?
Lana was from Bulgaria no? I cant quite recall but that name doesn't quite ring a bell.dunno confused

Heck, now I might be thinking of Jana???

I give up, sorry Oz.confused
Sounds like cryptorchid/Palmfrond who had an art gallery, sold cars/trucks did warehouse work, lived in a 100 year old house...
Lana wore a black evenig dress in her photos.
Loved her stories.
(Jana was from Bulgaria yes.)
Talking of ladies: TakemetoFrance,
I miss her and a Brasilian lady called Brasiliancutie or something like that.

However, I think the O.P maybe only had deceased ones in mind and in that regard let me mention Simmo from Australia or was it NZ.

wave
Remembering the marine.

.eYe will sound the alarm in the Event of fire, disorder OR Democrats. - Gen. Order 8 ..[ usmc/ embellished.
I'll concede your point but will also say I'm on two other open-to-all chat sites which are far far larger and most of the people I end up chatting to in both posts and messages are married (and bored, or have little to chat about with their spouses, a great ad for marriage, no? laugh) so I'm a little protective of the only site I know which is both for chat AND has singles in the title. dunno I like meeting people, is what it comes down to, and CS is the only chat site where that could be suggested without the wife having to be consulted.

That said, I did meet up a month or so back with what seemed an absolute corker, on paper, from CS. Over our first drink he confessed coyly that there's a wee wifie in Wales but it's ok, she doesn't like Spain so when he's over here he's always on his own. Guess what, you're still on your own, mate. sigh

So you'll understand when I wish those marrieds and the politicals and the religious nuts who have no intention whatsoever of ever meeting anyone and just want to bump their gums would go do it on one of the many other chat options because this is the ONLY one I know for singles.

moping
Simmo, Cat and Zman were hilarious, 3 musketeers of the blogs rolling on the floor laughing I'd have loved to be blogging back then. Zman still occasionally appears on the Men In Spain opening screen I have the site set to, but no more blogs sigh and the Cat - already asked after him. Sometimes better not to know?

wine
Yes, actually.
By saying that, do you realize that probably 70% of the female membership would disappear.
Agree Suzie.
Well... it is what it is init... some things will just never come back in the same form.
Like David Bowies Let's dance (hehe), or Paul McCartneys Pipes of peace.

We can always hope for something new thou that also is of the good, fun and entertaining.

Someone, somewhere in summertime.

purple heart hug
I don't completely understand your percentage. There are 42 blogs on my computer screen, and I've sorted them by date.

9 are yours and you are upfront about not being here to meet anyone.
8 are religious, 2 of them raised by females. I don't think their agendas (all 8) include casual interaction. One or two seem frankly certifiable.
7 are from some dude who seems to be running a lecture course. Until I sorted and started counting I thought they were all the same blog but in fact there are 7 with basically the same heading.
2 of them are from some woman bent on advertising something or other.
In total 31 of the 42 blogs are male.

Bit puzzled how you get to 70% being female but it's late here for me, nearly midnight, dog to walk, hot chocolate to make, maybe I'm missing something particularly obvious. confused

Nanight for now.

wave yawn sleep
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