Love And Hate
I was always under the impression that love and hate was the same emotion; just opposite ends of the scale but I was wrong.
I have learned that people can both love and hate somebody with the same intensity. This is more often so with women (no intention here of bashing women), while men rather tend to dislike.
Hate is a dangerous emotion and it consumes more energy than anything else. It will eat you up from the inside and spit you out as an empty shell when it has burned out, leaving you bitter and lonely. You can never be happy as long as you carry hate in your heart; it is all consuming.
When you love and hate the same person, nothing – not even the death of that person – can satisfy the urge for revenge. Death will only rob you of the object of your hate and leave you empty. Therefore you would help such a person if possible if his life was in danger.
When a man dislikes somebody intensely enough he will enter a stage of feeling nothing for that person. No love, no hate, no dislike, just nothing. The person would not exist in his life and he could not be bothered if the person was alive or not. A far more dangerous emotion or rather lack of emotion. He would literally feel nothing for the person.
If you walk around with hate in your heart, get rid of it; before it consumes you. It will imprison your heart and ransom your soul.
Enjoy this happy day.
Comments (105)
the hate part, well, people only hate, when they feel done in and loose something, or feel their life was robbed in someway by someone, or even life plans, or felt a wrong doing and justice wasnt served.
this can utterly destroy a person, so full of hatred, that they eventually will self destruct themselves totally. or other alternative, murder suppose. If they cant win by law maybe.
so, its cruel behond belief what humans do to others..
cause the murder them pysicologically, but the law only arrest those that do it physically etc.
she wasnt born that way.
let her soul rest in peace. poor thing.
Yes, that is the way the cookie crumbles and we end up having to eat the crumbs.
Hmm, you told me about this. You sure seem to attract a lot of flak. I don't understand it. I can walk around in my neighborhood undisturbed; it is only when on line that I have to endure the company of people I won't normally associate with.
Thanks, and enjoy your evening as well. A bit chilly again so I will be seeking my bed covers early.
so, thus, we get people falling into severe poverty, cause their livehoods have been taken away, by bieng forced into silence, have no voice, should I say.
Now, wth you own ..... if I may say, you can shout and fight, and get your way, but not in certain situations.
Hmm, it seems to be the best course to eliminate the things that bother you That is fairly easy to accomplish. Getting rid of the people bothering you is a different matter.
I did change a few things in the last couple of years, I got "stricter" as who I want to spend time with or who was bothering me and I didn't want to have hanging around. It did do my life and nerves good.
your blogs are very interesting.
then you are more successful than I. Somehow the people I go not want around me persist.
No problem with that. Your opinion you are entitled to.
I don't think I have ever hated someone...extreme dislike maybe...hahahaha...but as kn says she cuts ties and moves on...perfect!!...nobody is worth hating, too much energy wasted at your expense...have a good one cat and blog on!!!
uhmmmmmm okay, self talk again
You mean I must move to another dating site?
I cannot really recall hating somebody but I guess in 62 years you must have hated some somebody, some of the time. But if I did it was not intense and not for long.
You always get bored after I had gone to sleep.
I thought we have concluded it two days ago.
Thank for your view. Mostly I agree with you. Some women can be very vindictive.
All I can say is that I have seen a few very vindictive women and have been the target at one or two occasion as well. If you have not suffered under the scorn of a woman then ... well consider yourself lucky.