Who Sleeps With Whom?
What we write in our blogs reveals our souls and it exposes us to the bone in the process. What we say and how we say it is the most obvious telltales of our personalities, but what we don’t say, can give away just as much. People read between the lines because every blogger has a distinctive undertone in all his or her blogs, be that goodwill, humor, loneliness, skepticism, scorn, bitterness, malice, or whatever. That undertone seldom deviates from the person.Comment posters are not exempted from this. In fact, they are even more vulnerable to it, because comments are more spontaneous in nature than blogs. They come out at the spur of the moment whereas we plan our blogs and have plenty of time to sanitize them before posting it.
Reading comments is interesting and tells us a lot about the author, but when you look a bit deeper, a more interesting pattern unfolds. Try to see who ignores whom, who comments on whose blogs, and note the nature of those comments to the different bloggers, and you can easily see who sleeps with whom.
In real life, we avoid the people we don’t like. Why can’t we do it here? Of course, we may disagree with another person’s view on a topic and we are free to state such disagreement, but why do we have to criticize the person? Is he or she not entitled to certain a view same as we are? Do we have to take it to a personal level?
It is not enough to state our disagreement and scoot off. We have to add a bit of acid to it. Perhaps we all have a bit of a troll in us, only closer to the surface with some than with others.
Enjoy this day and let’s try to show a little more respect to each other.
Comments (79)
That is right.
People who live in glass houses should keep the curtains closed.
Yes! Sir Webob.
People has there own opinion. But! That does not make that person opinion right! Just because it's There opinion. That is why it is called an opinion.
Anywho! Not everyone going to agree with each other in the blogs. Nor nowhere else! Not even in our real world! Daily life. So! Why one must argue about it in cyberspace. When you can't and want get all people to agree with you in the real world?!!... duh!
For the 4 years that I been here in the blogs. Yes! I see some people that disagree with another person opinion. Then basically go at it!
hmm! As far as me.
I'm not into arguments, Debates. And No! Drama either. That is not who I am.
I comments on blogs with humor or being serious about my opinion.
But! If I see a blog that is getting out of hand. " I stay away from that blog!"
No! Comment
Then I am very pleased that you commented here. At least that is some indication that this blog is not out of hand yet.
Not! Yet.....
Then I want say nothing. Because I don't have that much time, on my hands...
Know What I Mean?....
Funny you should mention criticism...my blog was inundated with a foul mouthed troll...never let them get the best of you...remain calm and cool...
But of course I expected a bit of hostility due to the nature of the blog content...but more often I find people read into the comments made...their emotions tend to interpret words differentley...
WAIT!
Fix Me Something To Eat.
Not too serious. It is unlikely that it will get out of hand.
That is what annoys me. Not the disagreement but the way in which it is done. Some commenters are downright rude and hostile. And when you fight back the cry foul and say you don't like it when people to disagree.
That is about the best. To hell with the army and join the rest.
Wait! A Minute.
Will You Get Me A Sweet Tea! Or A Pineapple Soda?....
I have my hands full at the moment. Give me 20 minutes please.
Do they need more privates? That is as far as they will get. We don't have a defense force anymore. They have reduced the best army in Africa to a convalescent home.
Please!
Bring me a Cheeseburger, fries and a sweet tea. Sir!
One medium T-bone steak coming up.
I have been so busy, I missed your comment. Please pardon me. No, still no cat. I have given up on him. I will have to start looking for another kitten.
Noooo!, it is overdone. My guests are no gods that I would bring them burned offerings. Besides, I don't eat dead animals. A good vet must still be able to save it, otherwise I won't eat it.
Let me think about the kittens. I'll call you tomorrow.
I don't eat steak. Sir!
Beap.
Yes! That steak is raw....
Annnnd! He want me to eat that junk!...
You don't eat die animal!
So! They have to be alive and in good shape For you to eat them. Huh?
OMG! Yaw hear that?
Don't eat steak? Ouch. Ok, then all I have is on offer is this:
You know I am not into pets, whatever they are. Yesterday, when I was going to clean my house verandah, there was something that stopped me from getting outside my house. I had to wait until she woke up and left. Do you recognize her? Is she by any chance your missing cat?
Thanks for helping to locate my cat, but sorry, it is not my cat. Interpol reported seeing a cat that fits the description, addressing a mafia meeting in Las Vegas. I'm still waiting for confirmation from the FBI.
I don't care what it is!
I still don't eat steak. Nor Steak patties. Its the same thing! duh...
Bye!
interesting blog Cat.
Aw gee, I tried so hard to please you.
Indeed, some time or another, we run out of sleeping partners.
Thank you for commenting and welcome to my blog.