Toxic People

Toxic people speak badly about others, are negative, lack compassion, take up way too much of your time, constantly have drama going on, lie to you, criticize you, talk more than they listen, play the victim, lose their temper, have to be right, treat others poorly, are self-obsessed, try to control you, have addiction issues. (Sue Fitzmaurice).

Seems to me that there are a lot of toxic or borderline toxic people about, I'm not sure if it's insanity or drugs or just people who moan and complain about everything and always have to have something medically wrong.

(This is not aimed at anyone here on CS but we all know someone toxic)
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Wondering if this is something or have people always been like that in majority.. either way I think its an easy fix.. keep spreading love regardless!! peace
Incu, People have always been like that and we will always have them around, spreading the love is a noble act but toxic people will still complain.
Seri, Dont worry!...Toxic people will never admit it
Hahaha nice photo Map! thumbs up laugh
Did you laugh?
.............me toorolling on the floor laughing
Map
Your new pic makes you look very very .....

Needy rolling on the floor laughing
Ob, Needing what a lobotomy?...
Seri, you saying I look desperate?...Perhaps it was the wrong pic to upload grin
Has no relevance to the blog
But just wanted to show I was thinking outside the box
Cherry blossom on snow brings wind from south...

Embedded image from another site
Map,
I think joy and desperation are based on 2 different continents laugh
Conversational Narcissism

"I was saying," continued the Rocket, "I was saying --- what was I saying?"
"You were talking about yourself," replied the Roman Candle.
"Of course; I knew I was discussing some interesting subject when I was so rudely interrupted..."
-- Oscar Wilde, "The Remarkable Rocket"
Ob, Interesting comment...

Oscar wilde also said “I am so clever that sometimes I don't understand a single word of what I am saying.”
I reckon thats desktop calender wisdom. Many of the criteria are subjective anyway.

For example, lose their temper- pretty much everyone loses their temper at some time, the real question might be is the reason for losing it justified?
Self-obsessed... Is somebody who spends a lot of time doing their hair and make up self obsessed, or are they just getting ready?
But yeah with you on the constant health issues, personally I see it as a sign they dont have a lot to say and have no great interest in exercise (usually health issue prevents any form of exercise).
Howzit Unla, no one likes toxic people apart from those who do...


Pat, The issue with people who have to have something wrong with them is becoming more common, It's more hypochondria and people who get a splinter in their finger google stuff and decide they have a serious kidney complaint.
Howzit and yes indeed... laugh
Good afternoon, scarily-crazy-looking Map.
I don't know who said you were too serious, and if they did, they haven't read your blogs.

Anyways, I avoid negative and toxic people like the plague.
I use a pest repellant (ozone friendly)
Like the photo laugh what do you call a person who is not toxic---intoxicated rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
Interesting topic and picture
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I like toxic people, find them interesting,funny and sometimes they even make my day.
But are there any not toxic ones?
Howzit Lisa! wave hug
Howzit Unlao! this sunday is tooo long..laugh
I like Sundays, sleeping infront of a Disney film...Im awake now.

Lisa, Yes Toxics are the bane of modern society.

Molly, Im not really crazy just mad, there is a big difference.

Red, You are in a funny mood, Sunday at home must be good for you.

Prof, The topic is Interesting, the pic not, but shows my less serious image.

Bloody, You like toxics? Im sure you are joking.
Lisa, My Sunday is the same hours as yours, yet I find mine to be going too fast.
Map.. it is my day off today..now i feel guilty for not working... blues
Nice pic Maplaugh ......Lisababy wave
Lisa, How could you feel guilty on your day off? You must like your job.


Pedal, Its the new me, showing my less stern side, however I may have to take it down as It may attract the loonies.
Do toxic people know they are toxic?


Or are they just so full of it they think they are always right and everyone else is wrong?
Molly, if I say I'm toxic, I'm toxic. Okay? OKAY? boxing
Biff, I had eleventy three cups of coffee prior to that pic, That was some rant you had, got it out of your system?
Good, then have a coffee and light up a fresh ciggy and all will be well, You are from from being a toxic.


Molly, Toxics will either know they are or dont, but being too high and mighty in their own minds is the issue, Most wont know until they talk to someone, listen to a rant at the Altar or rush off to a hospital to say goodbye to an old friend who is dying to find they stubbed their pinky toe.
Ah Mappy I was just playing with you, and a good chance to let one of the other Biff personalities out for a romp laugh
Biff, they may not even be playersdunno


Maybe they are simply humans who wanted to see how it would go. Could see after a while there was no future, and bade their goodbyes rapidly.

Maybe it is the person scorned who has the issues?
Molly, yes, we do see that again and again, party one is enjoying interaction and getting to know someone new, party two has skipped and hopped ahead and is booking the joint burial plot uh oh
Ok Biffy If you say so, It was hard for me to determine the playfulness of the "debate", I will take your word for it.
I log out again when I have made the 5 most recent comments so this is number 5, wave xx
Map, then you blame yourself for going up in a llama with no saddle.

It isn't always somebody else's fault.
Hmm, Last time I was up the creek without a paddle it wasnt my fault, the boat rental company didn't give me a paddle.
Hat is the joy of living a solitary lfe. You don't meet toxic people and when you do you just go back to your hut and go on with your own business.laugh
Ek.. thumbs up sometimes I feel exactly like doing thatgrin

Pedal...wave
Wow, according to Sue Fitzmaurice toxic means a lot of character traits.conversing I don't think I tick
all those boxes in this persona, but I thought I would leave that open ended.laugh
Map.. I know.. wave
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