Profile Honesty
How honest should we be on our profiles?Would it put people off, or would it simply attract the type we are really looking for, and who are looking for us?
Should physical disabilities/abnormalities be put out there?
What about mental issues, from mild depression to dipshit loco?
Some people have no problem with either mental or physical issues, some even are attracted to them.
Same with body size. Should we put our BMI (Body Mass Index) on our profile. Although not a perfect method of measurement, is it not better than 'average ' or 'curvy' which means different things to different people.
Again, lots of people like fat or skinny people, and it would save them time in guessing/searching.
If we are selfish; unfaithful; possessive; short-tempered; undependable; argumentative; lazy; only want casual sex, etc., is it not better to say it?
If you want a partner to support you financially, why not say it? Some people want others to be dependent on them. Match made in heaven.
How honest should we be? And how able would people be to accept that honesty?
Comments (288)
A considerate man is worth a good stoking.
Otherwise there will be lots of unsatisfied women out there
Not at all
Just whiling away some time with Pat in the toolshed
Don't forget nomore gaps and maybe an ezyout you never know!
No job too small.
But he may have issues with big jobs.
Oh I'm ambidextrous aswell.
People deliberately being dishonest - they probably have problems even getting contacted if they are honest, but there won't be much chance of something happening when the person they met do realise that they were lied to.
Nothing lasting will com out of lying. But then that's what some people want.
I prefer a good working tool myself
a fuse, what kind of fuse are we talking about here?
Yes, if a person doesn't know themselves enough to be honest on their profile, then I guess it's not downright dishonesty.
But it isn't going to end well either way.
bare hands and a good tool will be perfect...a nice sledgehammer perhaps?
Hopefully User's fuse is for dynamite, and there'll be a fireworks show
now, where's that hottie?
that's what we are doing...it can be too much to hold sometimes!
But someone's got to do it
I don't care whether people are in relationships already and just looking for some extra-curricular activity, or are looking for marriage, as long as they are honest from the beginning.
I know some people would not agree with that, and would say that people already in relationships should not be here, but the simple fact is they are. And them being honest about it from the getgo is enough for me.
Same with people who want marriage and babies. I personally don't want it, so I am happy if somebody is honest from the beginning about their aspirations, so we don't waste each others time.
I found that after a month or two most of the ladies I met in RL did not meet their profile described. Best way to learn someone is to live with them for a while. There are always extremes one does not mention, even me..