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So often we hear people complaining about their hearts being broken by a thoughtless and cruel lover but we quickly forget how many hearts we have broken.

I know some people will deny ever having broken any hearts but the fact is, we all have broken at least a few hearts; maybe unintentionally or even unknowingly but we have broken them just the same.

Have you ever dumped somebody? By making an everyday move in the game of love, you may have broken a heart. Yes, almost always unintentional but as I said, broken just the same. You may even have broken the heart of somebody you have not met yet.

Ok, time for a quiz. No buts or ifs; just a simply yes or no.
1. Have you ever dumped somebody?
2. Have you ever broken off a relationship?
3. Have you ever rejected somebody?
4. Have you ever preferred somebody above another?
5. Have you ever ignored somebody’s attentions?
6. Have you ever declined a date?
7. Have you ever married?
8. Have you ever started a new relationship?

I can add many more questions but this should suffice to demonstrate my point. If you can answer an honest ‘no’ to each one of these 8 questions then just maybe you have not broken a heart yet but otherwise I’m won’t be so sure. It is not only your lover’s heart that is at stake and even people of the same gender – who may be in love with your new lover – are vulnerable. Therefore, think again; when last did you break a heart?

So next time you have lost in love and you’re sitting with a broken heart, think back about the hearts you have broken; the people you left in the same desolate state as you are now. Perhaps your broken heart made two other people very happy. Love is a funny game and we all lose a set here and there.


Enjoy this week and don’t breaking any more hearts.

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This weight on my back, didn't let me breathe. I woke up looking for air. I looked around, in an almost complete darkness. I was now completely awake, with that weight on my back didnt say to move. paying, truly heroic efforts to lift, driving the weight off me, I realized it was impossible. what the hell, why I felt so weak;;
My gaze fell on the mirror opposite my bed. What I saw on it ,made me scream. within the few street light, a shadow of indeterminate shape and texture was seated on my back. This amorphous thing, transmitted me such evil, that made me shuddered from my toes up to my hair.
hopelessness made me turn my body to the right, finding the strength to free myself from that evil presence.
I have not kill the light again when i sleep and the mirror, has left the room , since that night.
Mora is the name of that evil creature and they say they exist since antiquity.

Howdy Folks, I have this idea whereby we can all participate in knowledge sharing. I'm sure we all like traveling abroad & what better way to do it if you're armed with some knowledge.
OK! So this is how it works...starting here today...A CS member will post a blog on his country.....others can ask questions & answers can follow.
I'll go with South Africa first!
So, then hopefully others will follow ....Aus, NZ, Sweden, France, Germany, Indo,etc!
Coz, truly, we all just have perceptions of other places, not facts.


Just so that everyone knows where South Africa is..at the bottom of Africa.



Total land area of slightly more than 1.2-million sq km. 25th largest country in the world, 24th most populous country with over 51 million people.
South Africa is a multi-ethnic nation and has diverse cultures and languages. We have Africans, Chinese, Dutch, German, French, Portuguese, Italian, Indian, Taiwanese, Japanese, Russians, Malayans, Arabs...the whole dang kabooty here!
I think we're the only country in the world to have two independent countries withing our boundaries; Swaziland & Lesotho.

Just like there is no such thing as a perfect relationship (right out of the gate)

A blog is one person's reflection of the way they think or believe or questions from their minds. I mean, you can post a blog and everyone could agree with the topic but disagree as to how to obtain it. For instance.....a blog titled "No More War"..OK, we all agree No More war would be nice, BUT will we all agree on just how this can be accomplished? I'm thinking probably not and a discussion like this COULD escalate into a heated discussion with unfriendly words being thrown back and forth.............

A relationship is the same. Two people with their own thoughts, beliefs and habits will not automatically "click" and both parties will not always agree. They may want the same thing but disagree about how to get there......

HOWEVER.....if there is respect, acceptance, compromise and patience and a willingness to come to an agreement (even if it's an agreement not to agree) I believe there can be a perfect relationship......eventually

IN this world of "instant gratification" I'm afraid many good relationships could be or have been lost......

that time of the year again, rain , rain and more rain!Because there aren't proper drainage facilities we get lots of floods here, house and motorbikes get ruined! Let it snow! let it snow, let it snow!!!

Even though, Thanks Giving is only celebrated in America. I wanna give thanks, that I have a job and a good one that allows me to be online most days( researching and Cs HEHEE)
I just heard on the radio, that there are only 1.000 jobs available locally and more than 4.000 people unemployed!
Everything seems to go down hill now...
Feel free to add, what you are thankful for

To answer an age old question that has been asked by the wisest of men. I think with our skills and intelligence combined along with the technology of the inter-web we can answer one of the most argued issues of our time. "who would win in a fight Chuck Norris or Bruce Lee"

OK, this is the way things look with our new band and I think we should be a little more funky with the name so see if all of you like this: "C/S Unlimited"!!!!! Because there's no limit to what this band will do!!!!!

The Line-up;

JimNastics: Lead singer. Give us some ideas on your stage garb!! (hee he This should be good!!!) And doubling as art and graphics designer! C'mon show us what you have planned in the way of band art!

Shay, Lachi, explorer6, Marlene, N&E: Backup singers and dancers! Again, show us your stage garb!!!!

bsooner: Watching and counting the money that will pour in!!!

Frank: Entertainment Chairman for the parties before, during and after concert appearances.

10k: Sound Tech! With all those "ohms" we need a guy with stage blast power!!

Weep: Turned up California "fashionably late" so he plans the events and cities we will appear at!

El: drums

Inthemind: Horn section

Ham: Guitar and vocals

Me: Percussion, Timbales, bongos, congas and all the goody toys we like to play!

Parti: Doubles as the bass player

OK. this is what we need. Post your stage garb, songs that you think we should play and all the stuff necessary to get this band going!

PLEASE!!! If all you members that didn't show up for the "audition" want to participate then do! Tell us what you want to do in the band. Another party? Why not!!!

Truth is: chances of meeting and mutually accept somebody locally is not the greatest. Happens, but is often not where we happen to be lucky.
So we got the ones that live more than a 3h drive away (car, plane or spaceship).

Do you understand that one have to move then?
How early on should that be brought up...