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Well...On my Latest Blog.."Trilogy in Time"...I was confronted by This Fellow Young man who...Out of the Blue has sent a Challenge my way...These are the Young Gentlemans Words..And I quote.................................."So..You like to Word Play Rhyme".."Care to Create a Blog for That Specific Challenge?"........So I would say that this Young man is challenging me....Therefore I have Accepted his Challenge...I have written my Acceptance on my last blog to him 4 times now..And have sent him a personal E mail to Boot........I see hes still not Online as of yet...But I always give the benefit of the doubt to the Challenger...And I will patiently await his Arrival.......so "Candy Kid"....Your challenge Has been accepted and the so called "Ball" is now within the Limits of your side of the Court

theres nothing much else going on here as I can see....so..,,By popular demand .."The Great Swami" will sit in here and take your questions..The Great Swami" sees all.....get answers to the haunting questions youve always had burdening you down...The "Swami can tell you".........lines are now open...Remember its not me...its "The Great Swami".....

The Dark Angel

I awoke in the half light, and turned to watch you stretch your angelic wings, flapping them gently, your naked beauty by the window, surreal in its perfection, and even in this moment of heaven, I dreaded the dawn, I had flown to you in the night, and hid from you in the darkness, that I was a dark angel, my wings are black. Now I dread the dawn that you will see, I am not perfect in your eyes, but the dawn creeps slowly, I have at least another while with you, neither the heavens, nor hell, pleased that a white, and dark angel shared the night. I stirred a little sleepily upon the bed, and felt your soft hand come around me, and I trilled as your soft scented breath, caressed my neck, and spoke my name, come my Ben, fly with me.

(C) Ben Guiry

Do you believe in angels, be they of the dark, or white variety? Ancient scripture speaks of titanic battles between forces of good and evil, of darkness, and of light, between white, and dark angels.

The rise in personal spirituality, rather than traditional formal religion, has fed in no small measure to the renewed interest in angel lore, do you believe in angels, as perhaps a personal guardian angel, or angels in general, be they white angels, who defend the white light of hope, and of goodness, or the dark angels, who revel in shadow, and bathe in the glory of darkness.

Communication...what a wonderful thing! But somehow, many of us use, misuse, abuse, or misinterpret almost 95% of the communication we give and receive.

Is there a language barrier? A resistance to change? A hidden agenda? Hearing only what we want to hear?

Perhaps these factors play a role, and many other variables are involved in even the simplest of communications. I can fully understand misinterpreting a message when multiple native languages, cultures, ideals, or backgrounds are involved...but I would like to think people speaking the same language would have less of an issue misinterpreting messages being delivered.

There are many ways we cloud our messages……euphemisms, metaphors, sarcasm, dryness, saying one thing but meaning another, twisting messages in ways that suit our best interest, or simply politics. Add to that mulitple communication devices....email, phone, message boards, and we have a haven for misunderstandings.

No wonder there are so many pissed off people, so many killings, so much road rage…….

Is there really a way to be clear in the delivery of our message and have it interpreted exactly as we intend? I think it is possible, but does not seem to happen as often as I would like....

Miscommunication can have some horrible consequences. Wars, death, wrongful arrests, ruined relationships, loss of family, friends, acquaintances, and even money.

Communications flow more easily once two people understand each others’ personality, motive, background, and direction in life. A mutual understanding and awareness of the preferred communication method, the intent of the message, and how the message will be received can prevent many future complications.....

As I am...
That`s some easy way to make an excuse for beeing me...

Yeasterday I went to work with a strange feeling of hoplessness, because of all the delies lately...
But when the day was over, and my two houers drive through crazy traffick started, I felt much better.
My friend the driver, showed up last morning, and I was very pleased to see him again!
They might have satteled things between themselwes, he and the facktory Manager. Who also is a nice guy, but probably a bit tuffer against his own people than against me...
The work went well, and I made a sample-mat so they have something to show to potential customers here in India.
That would be the government, as they are the ones who deside what goes on here anyway...
As I sat in the car on my way home, I still was looking at everything from a distance, like watching a moovie.
But this moovie is real life, whit real heat, dust, dogs, cows, children, cars, noice, more cars, bikes, busses, more people, more dust...
The fog that alwayes hangs in the air, because of the moister.
The sunset here is strange, because the sun turnes red and dissapear before it get`s under the horrison.
Tonight there will probably be more fireworks, as the Diwali selebrighting goes on.
I will try to have a trip downtown, to see more of the real life this evening.(right now it`s 11:42, still early)
Here I`m staying now is one of the more "organized" areas, so it`s quite calm compaired to the streets inside the city.
Have a Great Day/Night Evening ore whatever... My Friends!

I have always wanted a partner and I only realized the other day that I have been looking for the wrong person all along. To formulate my desires, I sat down and wrote what I really wanted. Of course, the end result was not quite what I would normally post on my blog, so I had to sanitize it somewhat because I suspect that some of the people commenting on the blogs, may be as young as ten years old.

So this is what I require:
A tall well-build woman with good
reputation, who can cook frogs
legs, who appreciates a good fuc-
schia garden, classical music and tal-
king without getting too serious.

To mask my requirements from the under-aged, I inserted two lines to lead them astray. If you cannot work out which lines to skip or if you are offended by the end result, you are probably under age.

I don’t believe this stuff, but my horoscope in this morning’s newspaper said that I’m to avoid the numbers two and four today, while one, three, and five will bring good luck. Maybe you should try it as well.


Have a great day.

..having read the other similar blog I felt compelled to add some balance here.

Its suggest that men are dirty old pervs because some want to unload on womens faces.

As you know some women have the ability to squirt their jizz to..its reported that all women can do it, if they are in touch with their body. There is a technique that you can see on youtube..how to make a women squirt.

I've had the pleasure of a few squirters in my time, and be jezzus can they squirt..bucket loads.

Only last week a woman sent me a message saying where are you..i said who are you ?..she said you delete my number ?..lady I've had 4 phones in 12 months..who are you..she then sends me a photo or her boobs and a**...pretty impressive..I then say oh yes I remember you, we never actually met.

She thens says I'm feeling h*rny..i want someone to eat my pu**y so I can c*m in their face, but you gotta be good at eating pu**y !..I declined of course, on the grounds of..im not a whore

So ladies, there are equally bad naughty women out there as there are men, than you very much.

oh BTW, one gf sat on my face and squirted...without warning and I nearly choked..now thats just plan selfish.

May not be linked to external trappings such as .jobs, income, appearance, etc., — these tend to "come and go."

Instead it may be Relational Self-Awareness , which is defined as "the ability to take a curious stance vis a vis yourself."

"People who don't have much relational self-awareness tell stories (especially love stories) that are full of blame and shame. They tend to cast themselves as victims and other people as suckers, losers, or fools."

On the other hand, a relationally self-aware person might say something like, "It wasn't the right time for us," or "It was painful, but I learned from the experience."


"Without relational self-awareness, what happens is I slip into into blame — I see it as your fault because I'm blind to my own role in it — or I slip into shame — because I'm not paying attention to your role and I'm convinced that I'm the problem and I ruined the whole thing."

A relationally self-aware partner will realize that you both messed up and "ended up way down this rabbit hole of misunderstanding."


How do you recognise the lack of self-awareness in somebody (or in yourself)?

Pay attention to how they talk about their past relationships; see if they always blame others for every bad thing that has happened to them; see how they treat a waiter who brings an incorrect drink; see how they deal with another road user, etc.

Basically, when the sh1t hits the fan, how do they react.

Can you improve their self-awareness?
Improve your own, and let them learn from you.

(Thisisinsider.com)

When you are going out in real life....

I stumbled on one by accident and the other one has been very well known for a long time but I do not think many men adhere to its wisdom.


Okay....the one that has been known for a while now. You should exfoliate your face at least once a week. It gives you a clean and shiny complexion that women love. They don't want to touch some grease ball. Well, most don't...I don't think. Not to mention, it does make you look about 5 years younger. If you are too shy or embarrassed to buy some at a store, you can buy it online. Clinique for Men has a great face scrub product.

Secondly, this one is by accident. My sister once worked at Clinique and she got me this cologne for Christmas. I have used it a little here and a little there. I have about 6 different expensive colognes and I change which ones I wear. But, just recently, I discovered this one is like magic. I have had several women compliment me on how I smell. The last compliment came from a woman who was married. I know her and her husband well. She went to reach out and give me a hug and then she whispered in my ear that I smelled good. Then, she latched on to me like a freaking barracuda or something. I was stunned. Her husband was standing right behind her and I could see how he looked confused and didn't know what to do. I had to tap her on the a** to get her off me.....that is the only place I had access to.

There was this other lady, when I was standing at the bar, she was weirdly bent over near me. Just bent over near me...for about 10 seconds. I finally had to look at her like she was a weirdo or something. She told me that she was just smelling me.

Like I said, I have several different scent choices, but this one in particular drives the women batty in the head. lol It is Bleu De Chanel Eau De Parfum. Do not buy the toilet water version of this one....I have that and it has nowhere near the effect that the parfum has.

Okay....just a quick blog before I splash some on and head out.

Since you seem to talk about me so much, I felt it only polite to drop in and say hello in person.
As you can imagine, I am kept rather busy but not really as busy as some may think.

You see, I populated several planets thousands of years ago, and gave the inhabitants everything they needed to survive and be happy, and then stepped back and allowed them to run them as they saw fit.
Some are coming along swimmingly. They have worked in unison with their environment, and each other, for the betterment of their society.

Others, not quite so well. Your planet is one of those. I am amazed it has survived so long, but unless things change, it won’t be around much longer. Such is life. Or death in this case.

For some reason, you are intent on destroying the perfection you received. Greed; inequality; barbarism; nuclear bombs; racism; bigotry; animal extinction; land-grabbing; even building walls and fences to keep people in or out. Inhumanity – you name it, you are guilty of it. It is hard to try to explain away how a people could spend so much money on going into space while allowing a third of their population to live in hunger and poverty, and at the same time dump 40% of food into landfill. Disgusting.

But enough about you, this is about me. You can call me God; Goddess; Yahweh; Allah; The Great Scientist in the Sky; Big Bang, anything at all. I don’t care. Does it really matter where the atom came from? The end result is the same. I usually go by Lesley, it’s a nice neutral name.
But what I do like is those who question. Question everything, all the time.
Those who follow blindly without questioning scare me a bit. I know those who claim to be my representatives on Earth have told you to follow blindly, but I never said that. I want you to constantly question, question, question.

As for those books, guess what? I didn’t write any of them. The only instructions I gave were on environmentally-friendly rock, and even those were translated incorrectly. .
An abridged version is – Be kind to your planet and all its life-forms. Not so difficult, is it?

I have sent a few people down from time to time to put you on the right road – the road to peace, harmony and love, but generally they were not listened to. You seem to prefer the dark side.

Treat any people who try to divide and conquer you with the contempt they deserve. The majority of you believe in me, Lesley, in some form or other, whether from a religious or a scientific slant, so there is no point in fighting and killing each other over me, I don’t want or need the headache of that.

Same with gender and sexuality. I had never intended for you all to be exactly the same, that would be boring. I made enough of you interested in mating with the opposite sex to continue the existence of your lifeforms, but apart from that, you are free to do and be whatever you want to be. You are not hurting anybody. Sex is the one absolute pleasure I gave you. Use it.

Oh, and bad-boy Satan doesn’t exist either. If I were all-powerful (and I am ), don’t you think I could have got rid of him if he existed?
No. Good and evil; love and hate; heaven and hell - whatever you wish to call it, exist inside every one of you. And it is up to you to decide which you are.

Final word – any badness or evil you do, don’t claim you are doing it in my name, that really pisses me off. Take responsibility for your own actions, and don’t try to use me as an excuse. And stop treating people badly because they are different to you. You aren’t all that, yanno

Signing off – Big Bang Lesley (Kinda has a nice ring to it, don’t you think?)


PS - I shan't be answering any of your questions directly. But please discuss your thoughts at will.