I was playing around with my settings and now can't see my profile picture - but they are there. I can read people's posting to threads, and no picture.
I've disappeared.
I've gone to setting and said I wanted my profile shown. Anything else that I need to do.
Now evil people, can you for once try to help and not put down dum answers. After I write this, I have to find someone to take me to my car. On the coldest night of the month, I ran out of gas.
So I am invisible here and can't get to my car. This is nutz.
Time: Make sure your GPS is set up right, would hate to see you bike more than necessary. Have an interview, with your first love, then set your GPS to Virginia.
Last stop before back before heading home, to you should have a good talk to a bartender over the good vs bad points over 2 new loves. Have a few beers before talking to your new Mother-in the the next day.
Iseult_1: "“Thats one 25 year old woman who was able to line up 11 willing married twits... ? The married twits being the ones with more to lose... with 11 wives who didn't understand them... :)"
You do not get it, Iseult was being sarcastic. She is a women. Read that from a woman's point of view and it's quite different.
It was all his fault, he had the affair with a 25 year old who had already been with 10 other married men. How can't you not see that? It was his own free will. I had nothing to do with his choice. When a person has his mind made up, you can't change it.
Was it my fault they had the affair in the vault of a government building? I guess it was. They also said they were thinking of me. Right, after she had been watching him for 8 months, she was thinking of me? I don't think so. Come on, I trusted him, did everything I could, and it didn't matter in the end.
Rohaan, I agree we have gotten along fine until this point. When I wanted the thread closed, it was because of 2 others who were in my eyes, acting like trolls. Not you.
Again, I will not accept that there was something wrong with me for my ex to stray. Rather it was he himself who was depressive then diagonalized as manic depressive. He was self medicating with this 25 year old.
When someone says it's the woman's fault, I want to scream. I will not accept them saying something nasty, then looking at my profile. It was meant to provoke. So that person was banned. No one else.
I also do not think I have lost my full spectrum on this topic. I went through it and I am a survivor.
I would appreciate you letting this go. True, I brought up the thread but if I had know it was going to get ugly, I would not have.
I have nothing further to comment to you about this. If you post a note, I will not answer. This doesn't mean that I am mad at you, just that I want to move on.
Hi My Revenge, I agree with you. It seems to be the luck of the draw. It's sad that so many marriages end this way compared to the day you did get married. There seemed so much hope, happiness, etc, ahead.
I understand now, your pic was not up and I thought you were a man. I agree with you "my wife doesn't understand me" is so common a statement. It seems like it gives the man the permission to stray. I am not blaming the other women for what happened, I blame both of the jerks. I do blame other women who like married men. I just do not think that is right. I also blame married men who go for available women.
I have healed believe it or not, I just brought up the issue because my ex had just told me about the other 10. So this is new info to me. I can tell you that I am alot less screwed up than her. She also has a baby from the affair before my ex. She deliberately got pregnant with my ex. As I said, I thought you were a man with a man's attitude about it not being the man's fault. There is one Irish guy here who is really rude, but I know plenty that are not.
You know nothing at all about this situation. One more comment about this and I will ban you. He was unhappy with himself is the most part of it. Now leave it, a dog command, because you are really coming across as a dog with the things you are saying.
Hi Single, yes one made a stupid remark, then looked at my profile. I asked the mods to lock the thread, but they want me to hide and ban. I had not thought of that. Thanks so much for your note. Yes, some real low things have been put on. Trolls, you delight on this behavior, off with your heads!
I got a virus last week from here, right before Christmas. It showed anti-Virus logo and how many virus were on it, it also wanted money. I got my IT cousin to operate. But it came back. So I just took the whole computer back to him. It's fixed right now. I also believe it came from here. I can not think of anything I did to cause it.
I have found some Irish men on here to be the rudest on this site. I thought you were gay, happy, etc. But instead, you spurt out comments that are not suitable to be read. Little digs.
My Uncle was part Irish, so different from many of the Irish here. He would never say something like you to a woman. He respected women.
Yes, that is the right answer. Like hell it is, well, she did not get anything out of it (the 11 affairs),she's not married, doesn't have a guy. But I guess she got a big kick out of what she did.
Also, you are saying I didn't understand my ex, what crap. I did understand him. You must get off on making the woman who was cheated on, look bad. You do not show your face, you do not know me, what a man you are.
Next, person want to write something dum like the above, I'm ready? The fact of the matter is my married twitt had no idea what would happen down the road, like Virginia is a 50/50 state. We had to split our money with each other. Which has made him poor.
But I do have to give him credit, he realizes now what he did. Not many women would speak to a ex husband like him. It took alot of healing, but if I need someone to help me out, he would be there for me. I know he regrets his actions.
I agree, nothing is worth going through that crap. If you do not find a special person, than it's much better to be single. Weed out any one who is not into you, don't need that.
Epirb, yes there were good times. But the hell that came at the end was not worth it. I am glad we talk. He seems to be getting back to his old self. He and the other women were just waiting to happen. She told him she had been eying him for 8 months. I am just amazed at her behavior and well as his. But those bad times are over. I was surprised I could be civil to him also. But for me, it's better this way, to let the past go.
I have corrected myself. One lady said she thought I meant, acting a little hard to get. Meaning neither men nor women want to be around someone that is just gushing over you, it's kind of repelling, especially at first or last, ha. I did say men like the chase, I stand corrected if some men don't. Maybe I am commenting on what works for me. Also a dab of nice perfume doesn't hurt at least from the men I have dated. In fact they loved the smell. I agree, we all are different. There are some men I met that I wanted to run from the instant I met. Others were fine. This is just a thread to get ideas on what people think. It has been eye opening to me.
As for being yourself, I am myself. I do flirt with men, and kid with them. That is my personality. Just like I give my women friends a hard time. I can get one girl friend to laugh so hard her stomach hurts.
Oh, you even asked me about my nightmare before Wednesday, my nightmare would be on Friday. That is a real gentleman.
Maybe I will modify my nightmare. Let's see, you were hot and melting, correct? Well, I hosed you off with water. Then we would have a midnight snack of finger food, strawberries dipped in chocolate, plus the correct type of wine. Then I'd stir you up againn....To be continued
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Help - I feel like someone has put a scarf around my eyes - I am invisible
I was playing around with my settings and now can't see my profile picture - but they are there. I can read people's posting to threads, and no picture.I've disappeared.
I've gone to setting and said I wanted my profile shown.
Anything else that I need to do.
Now evil people, can you for once try to help and not put down dum answers.
After I write this, I have to find someone to take me to my car. On the coldest night of the month, I ran out of gas.
So I am invisible here and can't get to my car. This is nutz.
The DObe