We had just found each other, and I messed things up by a question I asked. I really was so happy to have met him. Then we IMd for the first time, and I messed up. He was upset at me and signed up, and I could have cried. Then I tried to IM, email, flower, it all and had been blocked.
All I could think of was to ask my best friends on here to write to him and say I was sorry.
That is about it. It no longer lays in my hands, but I really liked him.
I disagree about option 2. If both want something to happen, go for the stars.
Long distance romance gone bad and you are the receiver, it hurts so bad.
As for option 1, you have done your best but they don't see you. That hurts.
The Dobe
Love is great when you are in it, it becomes not as intense, but you are still together. When the day comes and it is over, you are left with nothing but pieces. It's a sad day. You grief, and go on. Sometimes, I think they get enjoyment out of our misery. But heaven help us, if you get strong and say goodbye. That is when they come running back. Strange world we live in.
I believe I went to Devon. Maybe next time Cornwall. I did miss my American food. I really do not like fish and chips. But had a great time while in the UK.
I have been to England and loved some of the coastal places. But I love the water and seashell's. I was on a family vacation. Also spent some time in London. I would go back.
Yes, Boban, lets start a conversation about coca-cola versus Pepsi. I am a coke person. I hate Pepsi. Also like Sierra Mist vs Sprite.
As to whether American Men do it better, I guess I would agree. I have never crossed the line, ha. Though did know one French man who I assume was an American who bored me to tears. Frankly, he talked to much. Besides being bored with him, he never showed me his garden. Most gardeners will do that to fellow gardeners. Knew then he was not for me. So, maybe he was like what you hear about the French men. If that is all it about, forget it.
The New York women would attack you there, since you are a Ohio boy, fresh boy meat. Those are some tough women and men there. They would laugh in your face.
Smitten, we are so alike with our love of animals. There is nothing like a good dog or cat. They just want to give love to us. My Wile the Coyote, is my best dog for being cuddly. He likes to lay on the sofa with me. It is so relaxing.
Hello, fellow Virginian, so sorry to hear of Z's loss. It is all of our's loss. Thank you for letting us know. Please wish him and his family well. I loss my father when I was 13, and know the pain very well.
Veritaas, you have done it again, your viewpoint is right to the point. Your views are to be read and thought about. This last post has helped alot to try to understand why people act like they do.
Yes, I also come up with the idea that some enjoy creating the discomfort of others to make themselves feeling better. Like being a bully.
Some here have a great way of shocking people and they react instead of slowing down and coming out with comments that do not create bunches of back and forth replies when get mad. They would not get away with it in real live.
Yes, maybe the person has taken a fancy to me, they have looked at my profile. I agree, hard to imagine though when they act the way they do.
Veritaas, I look for your views on these blogs and forums. I know that you have very good posts.
My husband #2 had no signs of being like my first husband. I did not choose anyother cheating man. My family approved of him and they could see him more clearly than I. My Aunt said he was a good catch and that I should marry him. For a very long time, over 25 years, we were good, but he changed. He became someone I did not know anymore.
I will admit to making a big mistake on husband 1, he showed the signs and we were so young. But husband 2 was a shock and will always be.
So I give you one on your point about not choosing the right person. But husband #2, I will not agree on.
But I do disagree again whether you are analyzing. I think you are.
Veritaas, sure the wound opens up but I do close it. I am being brave in new life. I am a happier person now, more friends than I ever had before. I could have stayed locked in pain, but the spirit within me took over and I created a new life. Along with friends that didn't let me down.
I still do not understand why people like to attack you if you open up something. I think that is cruel. There are plenty that do not do that and read what is posted and do not judge or are so critical. Others just like to attack.
I will speak back if judged.
I know you speak the truth, but still do not understand why people have to be so mean at times.
Well Veritaas, we disagree. If I am to be criticized for posting as I think about things, I cannot control it. I thought this was the purpose of forums.
I was very surprised at your viewpoint. I do not understand it since you can be imo opinion abrasive at times. But I respect you for alot of your views since most of the time they are head on.
I really think he can analysis himself for better use than try to get in my head. It's my head and not up to him to try to make me feel bad for choices I have made.
Shocking words from Elmo, I was not expecting to get friendship from you at all. All you apes still continue to amaze me.
Yes, we are friends. Much better than getting upset at each other. Thanks for what you said about men cheating on me. It was husband 1 and husband 2. But you keep on going with the punches.
I know I am not the only one it has happened to, and I have heard about alot of men getting the same treatment from their women. It is a shame but happens. Have to move on. Actually, once it happens, it's pretty easy to shut the door in their face. The last one has our wedding album, no way I wanted that. He also has the wedding picture with a bio hazard chemical stuck on it where we were kissing, thanks to me. He was hurt, oh, poor baby.
We do howl at the full moon. Yes I am bored with all of your comebacks. Also, saw you dodged several of my questions, whatever.
But still you looked at my profile. Do you note I haven't checked out yours, never in a million years.
The way you act towards women sickens me. Good luck Mr. Macho, you will need it.
I am sure you would act like the Policewon said at the first post, interested but not calling back because you have decided to move on. Good for any women in your path unless you act differently on dates.
The Doberman and proud to add him to my name
Dobermans are more loyal than a lot of men on this earth and until I find one I can trust are worth more than alot of men. I love men but have been burned more than once with cheating issues. I will not allow that.
But I am sure some men think that of some women, their dogs are better than some of women who do not have very good qualities.
So on with our search for a good mate, we are over elmo, go back to Sesame Street.
Good for you, I would have liked it like that also.
I will be divorced in so many days. Not a good match, even though 25 years. But he needed his freedom and I was getting tired of all the hurt. So I relate to Sweetly.
It has been a real learning process to date again and try to trust men again. My animals have helped me through this stuff. I lost my 2nd Dobe last Summer. I had gotten to keep him, but if the ex to be would get upset, he would say he would take him from me. He was playing mind games. I would cry and then he said he would never do it.
So now, I have my own Dobe and we are doing fine along with 2 cats, 6 Betta's. I am definitely a animal person. A little bit of a animal whisper.
Thank you sweetheart, I just love my Blue Doberman. He's the best Doberman I have ever had, 3 now. I am in a Doberman Rescue Group. We are back to training Sat. mornings. He does some of the funniest things. He took off with a Star fish one day and I had to get it out of his mouth.
I love that pic, how do you like my new one? That is Wile the Coyote, my Blue Doberman
I will show what pic I want. Besides if someone is interested as to why I picked a Dobe with a stuffed cammel on him, he will see my pics. I have nothing to hide, just showing off my Doberman. I will probably go back to my real mug.
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Just lost a friend named Joe
We had just found each other, and I messed things up by a question I asked.I really was so happy to have met him. Then we IMd for the first time,
and I messed up. He was upset at me and signed up, and I could have cried.
Then I tried to IM, email, flower, it all and had been blocked.
All I could think of was to ask my best friends on here to write to him
and say I was sorry.
That is about it. It no longer lays in my hands, but I really liked him.
The Doberman3