I don't really believe in falling in love, no I'm not a cynic!
I think it starts with attraction, no, not how good looking they are, there's just something about them... the way they smile, how they interact with others, how they carry themselves and of course the all important chemistry, something I don't think anyone can really explain.
I believe we "grow in love" shared experiences, being there for each other, crisis's and joys shared, getting through the day to day stuff and still being able to laugh together. Just a thought.
Well it's been fun... but I'm off to bed. Said goodbye to some really good friends who are going home to Sweden in the morning, had a good cry... always leaves me tired. Have a lovely evening
you had me really stretching my brain the other night, used to date a guy who studied Latin, a picked up a few words... I think you depleted my wealth of knowledge on that subject!
Thanks Lago, I also enjoyed your addition. I really can't complain... I have a good life and I'm happy, but I just want that little bit more... selfish b*t@h, aren't I?
The biggest problem with this whole thing is no matter how well you seem to get along and have things in common, or are attracted to their pict... until you are face to face you don't know if there is chemistry!
I don't know... I think we have some control over it, I did find myself becoming quite cynical for a while... didn't like how I was acting so I made the decision to be more open, I'll never have the naivete back, but I am more open and hopeful. I guess you just have to be ready to be a fool again and not worry about it
ooohhhhh, so cynical!!! Well I've been in touch with someone from another site for the past 2 weeks, we've ecchanged facebook and moved on to regular email and I sent him my phone number tonight, and if the conversations continue to go well I'm inviting him for a visit, he's only 90 miles away sooooo some of us are in it to meet someone face to face... and yes he knows my real age
I don't think it has anything to do with age, I think that a group of people have been on here for a while and have formed kind of a click and it seems to be difficult to break into, I have been quite active in the forums for the past week but have had little response from more longterm users, so I think maybe people try for a little while and then give up.
Three blonds are walking down the beach when they stumble upon a genie bottle, they pick it up give it a rub and poof out comes a genie.
The Genie says, I've been trapped in that bottle for thousands of years, for releasing me I'll grant each of you one wish...
First blond says, Well I'm really tired of people thinking that I'm stupid, really fed up with it... I want to be a brunette.... poof he made her a brunette.
Second Blond says, me too... I've had it up to here with no one respecting my opinion, everyone thinking I'm dumb... I want to be a red head... poof he made her a red head.
Third Blond says, well you know, I actually have a really good time with people thinking that I'm dumb... no one expects to much, I get away with a lot... if any thing I'd like to appear to be even dumber... poof he made her a man!
That's not Warhol, thats Allister, the queen of Ibiza!!! They were just taken! Not the Pacha one, that was last summer! God is there no pleasing you???
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RE: How would you like to fall in love?:kiss:
I don't really believe in falling in love, no I'm not a cynic!I think it starts with attraction, no, not how good looking they are, there's just something about them... the way they smile, how they interact with others, how they carry themselves and of course the all important chemistry, something I don't think anyone can really explain.
I believe we "grow in love" shared experiences, being there for each other, crisis's and joys shared, getting through the day to day stuff and still being able to laugh together. Just a thought.