I was just reading a thread that reminded me of this, I just found this out last week and it's really scary. Google your user ID and you'll find your threads, profile etc out there. I wasn't very happy when I discovered this, how do you feel?
I didn't notice that CS had made a seperate Video tab and that videos are no longer posted under Forum... So I apologize to you all for posting my video 3 times!!!
I grew up in a household where lively debate was encouraged (it had to be or my father and I would have killed each other lol) and I really enjoy a good debate and there is always something you can learn from an opposing point of view, I just don't understand why people get so angry and defensive?
I appreciate all of your input, some very good points and sorry I didn't respond to you all sooner, had to get away for a little while, major headache! Anyway feeling better now... so thank you all
Why is it so difficult for people with opposing points of view to have a rational discussion without it turning into name calling, rude remarks and immature behaviour?
I left to get away from ethnocentric narrow minded people who are so blinded by patriotism that rather then admit error they defend anything and everything, usually to the detriment of the country.
Well I left behind 25 years of taxes, social security benefits, etc. so I believe it is still my issue. I was under the impression that on an international forum all view points were welcome for discussion. Maybe if you are not open to discussion from people who live in different countries you should limit yourself to an all american forum
It's just so big and so distant what say do you really have? Every year there is a reporter who unearths ridiculous spending in the govt. ... The Navy spending 600 dollars for a wrench... but I've never heard of anything being done about it. When you are on a small scale it's easier to demand accountability.
I had a great experience when I was in college, thanks to a very cool political science professor who had been very active in the 60's
He overheard a group of us complaining about the university putting up the parking fees and there didn't seem to be anything in the budget to justify this raise. So he basically told us to quit whinging and do something about it.
We canvassed the school and got as many people as possible to not buy their parking permit but park in the lots anyway and get a citation, then we all called the court to get a court appointment to fight the citation, it only took 3 days and 476 citations before the courts contacted the school and demanded that they do something about it. The parking fees were dropped to the previous dollar amount!
Could you imagine trying to do something like that on a large scale?
Until they realize that the bigger something is the less accountability there is, little chance for improvement. The IDEA of federal taxes is good... everyone pays in and then it gets redistributed where it is most needed. but the reality of it is that rich areas stay rich, poor areas stay poor and in that whole trickle down thing there is a lot less when it gets to the bottom then what there was at the top and there is no accountability.
If money stayed on a local level it's much easier for the people to monitor and much easier to see where the money goes.
I used to get so caught up in this stuff, had high blood pressure, felt like I was banging my head on a brick wall made a lot of money, paid a lot of taxes, and realized I hated my life in a consumer society. Now I live on a little island in the mediterranean, my blood pressure is down to normal, I work but not to much and live on 1/10th of the income I used to just exist on. I love my life.
I'm sorry but I just don't understand the concept of jealousy. Trust for me is one of the most important aspects of a relationship and without it there is no relationship. I'm a very monogamous person and when I'm with someone I am totally with them, if they have doubts or insecurity's about this the relationship probably won't work.
On the other side, I don't get jealous. If there is someone else my partner would rather be with then please, go be with them... I don't want someone who wants someone else.
RE: whats happened to the vids stuff ?
top of the screen, right hand side, tab marked videos, I didn't realize they had seperated it and posted my vid 3 times!