jbibiza Forum Posts (4,914)

RE: I like Pickles

I believe that would be a cucumber?

RE: Valentines Day is approaching us soon.

I'm hosting my annual UNvalentines party! Any of my friends who are couples and choose to come are not allowed to touch throughout the evening ( have had one couple come the past 4 years, they say the ban on touch just heightens the anticipation of the night to come) No one is allowed to wear red or pink or anything with hearts, love, etc, or that item will be removed, yes we had a guy come with red undies and yes they were removed. A night of good fun!

RE: What should a woman wear for a first date?

In hot weather I would be doing the long flowing skirt!

RE: What should a woman wear for a first date?

First date... Well I would be nervous so for coffee i would wear my favorite jeans that I feel really comfortable in and a top that flatters me without being to revealing.

Somewhere nice.... I'm going to be even more nervous so I'm wearing the outfit I've received the most compliments on in the past, I want to be able to focus on the date and not worry about if my new dress looks good or not!

RE: Which movie can you watch over and over and never get bored of?

I know it's cheesy but Armageddon and Top Gun, oh and Shrek, definitely Shrek

RE: As I walk this path part two

but I haven't been waiting to make up my mind, I know what I want and I hope I meet him! I haven't been waiting for 23 years to make up my mind, I've been dating and ecploring and have had some disappointments but I haven't given up hope.... I've chosen to be realistic. I'm going to enjoy my time here doing the things I love and having good friendships and hope that the one... that really special guy comes into my life. What do you think I'm doing on here!!!! The choice I make isn't to be single, it's to not settle just for the sake of having someone.

I guess what I'm trying to say is don't put all your emphasis on finding someone, stay open to it but enjoy your life, we only get one go at it!

RE: I like Pickles

Did you know the secret to a really superior potato salad is a bit of pickle juice in the dressing!

RE: As I walk this path part two

I've been single for 23 years and while I accept the fact that I may wind up single for the rest of my life that's a choice I make because whoever is going to be a part of my life has to make it better then it is, I'm not going to allow someone in just for the sake of having someone, but that doesn't mean that you walk alone in life, you fill your life with wonderful friends and a lover (for those needs that a friend can't take care of ) you pursue things that you love to do and you leave yourself open and positive to what might happen and if nothing happens you still have a full and wonderful life and you're the type of person that people are attracted to... positive and fulfilled.

RE: As I walk this path part two

As long as you believe it, it will be! It's called self fulfilling prophesy, and it has a lot of power in our lives!

RE: Whats your PET PEEVE?

I agree

RE: Whats your PET PEEVE?

People who find it necessary to put other people down in order to feel important themselves, treating waitresses or bartenders rudely, employers who have a constant need to flex their authority

RE: WHICH ANIMAL YOU WOULD LIKE TO BE ... AND WHY ... YOU CAN CHOOSE ... OR SAY MORE ...

You got it exactly right! Very insightful

RE: whys?

Why do we hang something up when it's actually hanging down?

RE: WHICH ANIMAL YOU WOULD LIKE TO BE ... AND WHY ... YOU CAN CHOOSE ... OR SAY MORE ...

It would have to be a dolphin! The sheer exuberance they e perience as they fly through the ocean leaping and playing! Would be sheer bliss!

RE: why is life so complicated when you want that someone you like very much.

poor you !!

RE: why is life so complicated when you want that someone you like very much.

what kind of complications?

RE: actress or actor would you sleep with if you had the chance right now

I believe so... he was going out with one of my friends here in Ibiza for about a week while he was here.

RE: actress or actor would you sleep with if you had the chance right now

You're not going to let this go, are you?

RE: actress or actor would you sleep with if you had the chance right now

Kevin Spacey, shame he's gay! But what a cool guy and amazing actor!

RE: For chocolate lovers only

Dark Chocolate, 80% with a glass of red wine!

RE: Australian wine

Penfolds cab/shiraz blend, yummy also like a good Italian Montepeluchiano (think my spelling may be a bit off!)

RE: Name That Movie....

from one of my favorite movies

"heid doon" english translation from scottish "head down"
"... its like a big orange on a stick"

RE: Name That Movie....

Ben hur?

RE: Name That Movie....

Gladiator?

RE: HOW MANY OF US ACTUALLY REPLY TO MESSAGES AND FLOWERS WE RECIEVE,IF U DONT WHY?

no, I'm with you 100%

RE: Friends Request

Then I guess he really liked what you look like!

Does anyone ever meet face to face through online dating services?

I really appreciate your responses and encouraging posts! Thanks

RE: Friends Request

That seems a little bit harsh, maybe they are new and don't realize how it works and their friend request is just a way for them to initiate dialoge? They read your profile and thought "I would like to get to know this person" why not give it a chance? If they are a problem you can always block them.

Does anyone ever meet face to face through online dating services?

I'm e cited for you!!! Hope it goes well

Does anyone ever meet face to face through online dating services?

Thank you for the welcome and info