RE: CHRISTMASTIME

Christmas for me is a time of year when a great number of people have time off work and so it's easier to organise gatherings with loved ones and friends. And if we can share good food and a few hugs, singing and a few games and some catching with one another's life, even better heart beating

RE: do you think bad women are attractive?

What is a 'bad woman'?

RE: Should your mind be stronger than your feelings?

Same goes for a woman?!

RE: Should your mind be stronger than your feelings?

What do you think is the difference between feelings and emotions?

RE: Should your mind be stronger than your feelings?

Define normal?

Normal and life expectations are different according to race, ciuntry, class, culture etc...
So what is 'normal' on an international site? dunno

RE: Should your mind be stronger than your feelings?

There's a difference between trauma induced responces and 'emotions' ...
If you train your mind to be stronger than your trauma induced responses but do not deal with the trauma and heal it, it will become buried but will eventually resurface as a physical illness or condition.

I don't think the mind needs be stronger than our emotions. Though it needs to be trained to observe what is causing the emotional reactions and not BS itself with brainwashed cultural, religious or ancestral 'garbage'.
The mind is fine as long as you don't believe everthing it tells you. You can have quite a laugh having a chat with your own mind
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RE: can you change yourself for someone else?

I still don't get what they have to change ... not much of a difference between 25 and 30 ... what do you mean?

RE: can you change yourself for someone else?

What do you mean by women over 30 have to change as they get older?

RE: can you change yourself for someone else?

They say that someone can keep up a 'persona' of 'their best me' for about 90 days after wich the cracks start appearing irrespective of being with 'the right person' or not...
Being 'the best version of yourself with the right person' sounds like a recipe for projecting blame on someone else if they don't remain stagnant in order to preserve the status quo...
What happens when 'the right person now' gows and changes? No more 'best version of oneself'? conversing

RE: Is poverty a state of Mind or a state of Being?

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RE: Is poverty a state of Mind or a state of Being?

I don't like 'popping down to Tescos' or any other supermarket. I buy most of my food from local people and shops...

RE: Is poverty a state of Mind or a state of Being?

That's really what I was getting to thumbs up

RE: Is poverty a state of Mind or a state of Being?

What if to meet those basic needs they have to travel for miles, but that's how they've always done it and they think it's normal...

RE: Romantic

May be ...
What are the words ....''even when she's in her sweats, with her hair in a ponytail and no make up...'' doing in a text about love and romance?
Having to say those words implies there is a possibility that a woman in her authentic skin and comfy clothes could be less inspiring of love and romance to her partner!
Makes the rest a load of clichés as it appears the writer had no idea what romance is after all...

Only my opinion of course ...

RE: Robbie Coltrane R. I. P.

I remember him from both ... sad flower

RE: Say .... Nothing, ... STF Up Thread #2

smitten

RE: What is the identity of your existence?

It's still memory... genetic ancestral memory rather than mental memory...

RE: What is the identity of your existence?

Great question!
Which memory are we talking about?
After birth mental memory? Cellular memory?
Before birth gestation memory?
Ancestral memories passed down in our genes!

We can change our perception of a mental memory of an event and heal trauma if needed.
But how does one change ancestral memories and information passed down in our genes? At best we can implement changes that will have an impact on evolurion and help create new ancestral memories for our descendants may be on a glibal scale through reaching critical mass.

In the not too distant past they used to lobotomise people with mental disorders. Those people ni longer had a memory, but obviouly not the way forward as it discontinued as a practice...

RE: Matching lounge wear

You're a smart man indeed! bouquet

Full moon sounds nice

RE: Unnown, connecting signles

..... Je me souviens des jours anciens, et je pleure ....

So evocatif ...

RE: CLAIRSENTIENT ABILITIES

In a way it is... Sometimes people take things (drugs) or drink just to take the edge off ...

RE: The owner of ConnectingSingles

Well may be the designers had something else in mind. They called it connecting singles but it doesn't say for what in the name. Most people assume it's for dating yet everyone had to tick a choice for being here. The choices are:
Short term
Long term
Marriage
Friends/hang out
Intimate encounter
Talk/email/penpal
Activity partner

As you can see the creators of CS had a broader vision than 'just dating' for single people.

So all those of you who want to say goodbye to those who are not here for dating, you'd have to redesign the membership form first grin Else you'll have to find a diiferent reason for deleting people. Like them being smart arses for intance laugh

RE: Matching lounge wear

Aww thanks Dino wine

RE: the biggest lie

In what way is emprisoning people against their will and gasing them to death normal? No matter what the context...

Why is everything permitted if there's no time? You mean because there are no human laws to make people behave?

People who succeed in living in 'the now' tend to have higher levels of consciousness and usually don't need human laws to keep them behaving ethically.

RE: galrads appears to AWOL

Hey Gal! Get well soon! I'm sure the gals at the pool are missing you! bouquet

RE: Matching lounge wear

No spark unfortunately. But very pleasant few hours. Not considering for it to develop into anything from either of us. May be a friendship ...

RE: Matching lounge wear

Very kind of you not to pick it up...

Oh but of course. The taxi driver will bring you straight to my door! What size did you pick? conversing
I certainly have a view ... will put a pic up in my profile ...

RE: Matching lounge wear

Right! Here's my address:
Sun Street
Village on top a mountain
North West Málaga
Spain

grin

RE: Matching lounge wear

Omg! Where was my brain when I wrote hear instead of hair? rolling on the floor laughing

RE: Matching lounge wear

What?
Sad if I were swept off my feet? Who's side are you on? professor

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