Lending A Hand

Last week, while mending the fence, my neighbour’s wife came over to chat with me. While talking, her seven year old son joined us, asking if he could help me. The woman was astonished. I suppose with five kids in the house she could do with all the help from the children she could get.

“Why don’t you ever ask me that?” she asked him reproachfully.

The boy looked at his mother and asked;”Mommy, can I help the uncle?”

I suppose that boys, even at that age, don’t want to do “a woman’s work”.


Eish, Sunday allready. the weekend is allmost over!
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Yes, Non.

Now that you mentioned it. But somehow I cannot recall what UNCLE stood for! What a series!

Welcome you are the first male commentor on the blog today!
wave Oom Kat, its a beautiful day here in PE, just getting my coals right to do a chicken roast.thumbs up handshake cheers
Hi Luke,

Paying your respects?laugh

So nice to see the youth of today still repecting the aged!
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Cat,
The United Network of Criminal Law Enforcement.
according to IMDB
Luke,
You having a BBQ, thumbs up
what a great way to spend a sunny day.
any beer cheers
Actually, one night in a pub, a long time ago two fellas in a pub had an argument and the older one retorted: "If you don't respect me, then at least respect my age."

The argument was settled right there!
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@ Non, yes a few of my buddies turned up with the castle,,,

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Days like these make life worthwhile..handshake Hope you are having a great day too.cheers
Hi Non,

Thanks, now that you mentioned it came back too. Could it be Alzheimer's? I wonder.
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A braai (BBQ) on a Sunday is about as standard as you can get on a Sunday in South Africa. The eldest son (my privilege) is entrusted with this job as early as possible. Also my task when I was a child. There are some perks to be the eldest. Like the bone on a leg of mutton; every time; with plenty of meat on it, but I had to share the marrow with my siblings.
Luke!

Milkstout? Yech!laugh
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It seems as one gets older, ones taste goes down too?rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
Cat,
Thats a pretty good argument stopper laugh

Luke, "Slainte"
"Would ya look at the head on that"
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Hi,cat,wave

Your cultrue is unique,and the salutation same like us...

BTW, The taste of your food also delicious. Wish I can retaste them oneday. Enjoy your lunch and Sunday as well. handshake
Luke,

Your goose is cooking! I mean your chicken is burning. Push off!
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Uncle Cat, so you're having to cook for yourself today, that must be tiresome at your age dunno laugh rolling on the floor laughing laugh
Not really Zman,

It was just the potato peeling that annoyed me. wish they could cultivate a potato without a skin!
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Hi Gladioluss,

Yes, I think it is because we are so for removed from our roots and other people similar to us. We have also adopted some things from the peoples living around us.
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My bottle of wine just saw its bottom. Now i must debate with myself the point ofopening another. I am expecting guests after lunch!
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I recommend frozen chips professor just tip them out of the bag into the fryer, if I'm still alive next year I'll post a blog on how healthy they are, on the other hand if I suddenly disappear uh oh Don't eat frozen chips help laugh rolling on the floor laughing
zman,
Thanks for the advice. It is a much safer option than microwave chips now Nuking reconstituted starch and rusk that's unhealthy laugh
India,

the exact things is prevalent here. Some people don't like it. Especially the English speaking.

One very elegant lady once told me very unelegantly that, as she has not slept with any of my uncles, she cannot be not my aunt!

Some prefer to be addressed in the more formal way as Mrs So and So.
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Thanks Marrrrrrrrrrryyay
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Oh what wrong now on this blog,so sad there r all men around u uncle, why there is no woman here???... so strangelaugh

Without woman for a man life has no mean at allapplause
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rolling on the floor laughing Uncle cat
Now everybody call u uncle....
The only solution we have is
First u call me aunty life and then one by one call them uncle and aunty then they will stop it very quickly specially womenrolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
haai cat

you forget other form of enforced respect. baas meaning boss. It came with the form of kleinbaas (young boss) and oubaas (old boss).

no worry. i know you people was not like that. your brother was my best friend and my father work for your father all his life. and for you. we still friends today.
No problem with men, Life,

Had women all morning and now you are back; they will come back too. I have also finshed eating.

No problem abou uncle too. You are real niece. yes? Blood relative!
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Hi Who,

My friend, I don't think that is in the spirit of this blog. I think it is best to forget about the past.
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CS? Is that our blood group?
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Catcheers there is work...and "work"....and woman's work is never finished....most of the housework that women complain are things they want done, not men....and women take those extra “work” because they care about it...
Yep Boggie,

I read on one of the blogs the other day that a woman's job is never finished; that's why they get less pay!
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Good morning Cat,
It may be as you stated that the child may have seen mending the fence as manly work. It begs the question is there a father figure he is emulating?
I liked this poster and wanted to share. Have a wonderful Sunday. It is morning here so breakfast time for me.

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CS is our dream group... we all fall at the same dreamlaugh

And sometimes is nightmare grouprolling on the floor laughing
Hi Bajanshay,

Yes, I'm frightfully old school. The lad has a very devoted father. The only boy (slap bang in the middle) of four girls!
Yes Life,

Dreams are good friends. Ask Vicky Leandros!
wine cheers
I become more aware of our different cultures and values everytime I write a blog. This was a blog written as a response to something that took place the other day. I found humour in the fact that the boy completely misunderstood his mother's question and left her speechless with his honest reply.

I took the respect towards me and the use of language for granted. Yet, it became the topic of the blog. Wonderful!

Life is full of surprizes, even tough this happens more than often.

I also missed some of my regular friends. Out visiting? I sure hope so.
How was ur lunch? wave
Theatre finish?
La la la la no worry again will come weekend... dont miss me okaydancing
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wave Cat,the chicken bbq led to a more serious meeting. If I decided to remain with them then I guess I would'nt be going to work in the morning either.Good to see your blog took a educational curve - in more ways than one - rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing handshake cheers
Hi Dad Cat..thank you for sharing about the 'auntie' and 'uncle/om'
it seems similar with the culture of my country.
see you next weekend Dad Catwave
Good Night everyonewave
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Bye from me SM, hope you have a good week ahead.handshake cheers
scold Hey S. Martha' . . Im back! Im waiting on Fed Ex. Now!. . I send Ummka, My Home address.
Hi Life,

Lunch had to be good for I will eat the same for the next thee days
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Bye and enjoy your week.
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Eish Luke,

I refuse to have serious meeting on a Sunday! I never braai chicken. Burned outside and raw inside. Like I do steak.!
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