now what do men want?

Should she be more understanding of our imperfect qualities.

Should she accept that we may not have the biggest c*ck in the world?

Should she be fine that the neighbor has better looking abs than us?

Should she be okay with talking with her friends knowing they live a better life than her because her husband is a poor bastard?

Should she understand that men are visual creatures and provide him with things he yearns for instead of using it as bribery or just outright teasing him with no intentions on giving?

Should she be smiling when we busted our asses all of our lives when we come home from work and we are probably going to live a shorter lifespan because of it?

or

Should we just accept that this is a woman's world and us men must remain on the chain?


rolling on the floor laughing


Did I miss anything?


This one is for you Ash. grin
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Ek....grin
Ash, what would you consider a man's man?
Cc....that is interesting. So, both men and women do not like to admit they are wrong and especially apologize. That sounds like a future blog topic. thumbs up
Ches....that is a good word, scheming. Women are very good at that sort of stuff. They might even be considered professionals. laugh They are great at taking an indirect route, in order to hide their true agendas.
Pat/Ben...not sure who to believe here. sewing maching/no sewing machine. laugh
Johnny, a combination of intricate embroidery and some sewing machining is a good combination wink
This may be what I consider the most attractive
Male aspect to me. He must be my strength.
So I would be very opinionated,maybe
too old school for the general definition.

smitten
I am not attracted to men that seek female approval.

He knows himself well enough to pick
me without any mistrust or doubt .My admiration
is for their manliness,decency,traditional ways.

thumbs up he knows we are alphas and are
our own pack.I am not deterred by modern
concepts.
All types of men have my respect though.But my match is specifically
this.heart wings
Back to work wave
Johnny, I not want end to sewed up! blues laugh
Ah Ash....a man's man....not seeking approval. Very nicely said. thumbs up Make the woman chase. laugh

What about that MSU game? Do we have a bet on it?
Not at all Ben....you want to be spread and open...not sewed shut. rolling on the floor laughing grin
....and carrassed and cared for. wine
@Johnny That sounds like a plan for you to create a blog in regards to men/women apologizing or not.

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Agree Cc.....also maybe one about caressing and caring too. thumbs up grin
Johnny I'll second that too.thumbs up wave
Hi Johnny. Unfortunately, often not to know the man what they wanthandshake
Are you OK... As in ok to go? dancing bouquet
@Ummka, the men want only a hole in one!!rolling on the floor laughing
Hello Umm,

I cannot disagree with you. I think many men, myself included, really do not know what they want. I wonder why that is?

In order to know what you want, you need to know about what you are attempting to attain.

Such women are very mysterious...understanding them as best as one can, is a good start in developing an idea of what one wants and not wants.

A lot of men come from a logical standpoint.

A lot of women come from a intuitive standpoint.

...completely different perspectives...

I think once a man understand what that means and a woman understand what that means...the better the potential of understanding each other. If that is even possible...since logic/intuition are more or less opposites.


dunno
hug yes so are only in men's imagining.The example of the school teacher.sad flower
Oops, Some.
A great story Tat.....many men should read it. It lets us men inside of a woman's head a bit to better understand. Thank you for sharing that. thumbs up


flowers you say....hmmm
in addition Tat...you mention to Ash, you are looking for someone you can trust and love.


More great tips for men. grin
Sorry Tat...just trying to logically pick apart your mind. laugh


I am a man, I am logic. ...working on my intuition a bit. grin
Tat/Ash....I agree. A man could easily jump to the wrong conclusions about a woman's friendliness. That is why I say to women who loosely lead men on....not a good idea.

Men are coming from a different position in life than most women are.


It is very rare for a man to get the attention from a woman and when it happens, they can mistakenly miss calibrate the intensity level of the friendship...to thinking she really likes me. In many cases, any affection from a woman to a man is a big deal.

vs.

It is very common for a woman to receive attention from a man. Men approach women all of the time. They are just the opposite. It happens so often, it is just another day in their book....no big deal. They do not perceive it the same as a man.


That is why it upset me with the previous blogger who threatened to take his life. I don't think women understand things from a man's point of view.

Just my opinion anyway.

dunno
In addition Tat...

When you say flowers...men should not just show up at a woman's door with flowers because he knows the woman will be flattered by them. In a sense, he would be manipulating her by doing that.

I think the man should arrive at the door with flowers because of the symbolism of his emotions he feels for her, that genuinely represent.


It is when the man arrives with flowers and there is no genuine meaning behind them....they then become meaningless.
Logically speaking how you grow each other up may be a matter of the
couple being willing to come up for air .
I ,taking notes? laugh love my mom's advice
Don't go to bed angry.scold not solving it is OK.
IF IT matters a day or two later then sort it out
with a calm,willing to understand attitude.

Assuming and expectations are not going to work with
any type of communications.Less intensity

Are women schemers.Absolutely.Honestly I believe
it has been encouraged more than ever. and shouldn't be.
Everyone seems to want to hold peoples feet to the fire these days.
Once you wrote I think you observed some public ( not shaming) NAGGING.
It is very prevalent and a man I would respect would not tolerated it.
I smile and converse with the two entangled,in minutes it is
obvious whether he has a new mommy.
Women who dominate are not doing it from behind the man
as his strength but openly.
How does it make you feel?
And did Michigan lose? wink
I must not text ... heading into church.to get humbled.laugh
I confess,we are related.thumbs up#Family
rolling on the floor laughing I guess Michigan got "pancake blocked". cheers lips
Sorry I may have confused some readers #workingsundays #NFLwithdrawals

Do men want to be the caveman type or just be a salve to one woman ?
A million men want a million different wants, they make that clear ,
but then they say to another man “ I know exactly what you mean “

Scratch my head on this sitiation lol
At a beginning of a relationship men know
everything, then after a month everything changes lol

Is it something they want or something they DON’T want ?
THAT’s the question lol
Hello Ash...before I get to commenting how well your mom's advice was to you, you did win the #100 prize.

Now to your excellent advice from you mom, absolutely brilliant. :) It is nice to have the head hit the pillow with a smile on the face. But, like your mom indicates, maybe not everything can be addressed fully before bedtime. Nice advice and hopefully many read it.


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