A Very Pleasant Evening
I went dancing with my sister and her husband last night. I don’t really like dancing but we do this once every six weeks or so and as it was my turn to drive home, I ‘had’ to go. We arrived late with just on three hours of dancing left which pleased me.
I suppose you’re going to ask if I met somebody. Well, yes and no. That is yes, I met somebody new and no, she is not my dream girl. But we spent a very pleasant evening together. So much so that I took her phone number; she definitely merits another date or two before she goes back home.
Whaat!! Another one going home?
Yes, she lives in one of the Northern provinces and is visiting her brother and his wife for four weeks. I was lucky enough to catch her on the third day of her visit.
Not quite a looker and one or two kilos more than what I would have preferred (almost cuddly) and a she dances worse than I do; read that as bad but she dresses to her body and definitely not somebody to be ashamed of. She turned out to be very good company and considerate too. When she discovered that I was on minerals only, she switched to it as well.
After the first dance I kept her for another and she never left my side again. At some stage, while dancing, I tugged her by her smallish love-handles for a few seconds to pull her closer to me and she smiled at me, so at the very least there are some promises of more to come.
It was a glorious wind still summer night and we spent some time sitting on the veranda. If I did not have to drive my sister home we would have pushed off to a quieter place.
Before the dance I did not want to go there and afterwards I did not want to go home. Good evenings always end too quickly.
The weekend is about over but enjoy it in any way.
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Maybe not classes on dancing, but definitely on how to get women
Which would be a date
I hope she is on time ,
I'm very cuddly, even babies loved it when I cuddled them!!
there is nothing to it. nobody wants to be alone and when somebody normal looking comes around we all jump at it. We are there for each other. It is just a matter of finding the connection.
The only secret is not to stand out too much. Be similar to the majority.
This is not such big deal. It will just be a holiday romance for her and a lightning conductor for me. She succeeded well in keeping my thoughts away from Yorkie.
Women are normally on time for the first few dates. And after the first few dates she'd be going back home. I don't think we'd have problems. The time is too short.
Cuddly is nice sometimes. And they have love-handles that the girls I normally go for do not have.
Did you banana dance for her
I was itching to phone her this morning to ask her to go to the beach but then I thought better of it. It is not the best day to go to the beach on a Sunday; too crowded. I'll take her some other time.
I'd rather phone her tomorrow evening to set up a date sometime through the coming week.
Yes, but I don't want to grow too used or too fond of her.. otherwise I'd be back at square one after her vacation.
Noooo
This is an Eastern European tradition to witness such events.
Yes, just a normal evening of fun.
Love handlers! Hmm, well that is a sign that she can love somebody. Or do you just want somebody that do not have lovehandlers. But not able to love somebody?
I learned something today. I never knew that love-handles increases the ability to love.
But every thing is not so clear cut. We cannot always have what we want. not that it makes me want it less.
I love how u tell a story.
Glad u enjoyed it.
Sounded all very romantic and sweet.
See how it goes with her....im sure ur never anything but respectful.
U sure know how to live and not dwell.
" Love handlers and Love without handlers, both can love you"
But! The Lovehandlers, will love you more. And they will know how to handle you too.
I just tell a story as I remember it and somehow find the right words to describe it. It's probably something I was born with because it started early. In high school my compositions were read to the class much more than often.
My one teacher used to say that I have the ability to describe a walk around the block to sound like a trip to Disneyland.
But I did not altogether disappoint his suggestions that I should write full time. I had a few short stories, written in my mother's tongue, published in magazines over the years, but I'm too lazy to write seriously and have not done so for more than 20 years. Blogs are easy and short.
But I'm glad you like my blogs. It is little thing like this that spur me to write.
Ah that simplifies the matter. Then i'd rather have her without love handles.
Is Dedo goading you? He's very good at that.
Do you have lovehandlers yourself?! Hmm,......
No not really, I just tried to grab my love-handles but they are so small I'm pinching myself.
Why, do you have?
moi? love handles?
I don't know what to say.
but thank you.
And I don't think there will be much serious romancing. We're just two ships berthed in the same harbor. In a way I will just be using her to forget about somebody else. I can only hope that she will find enough use in me to balance the equation. But I think she's wise enough to realize that.
I like her but not enough. No electricity, if you know what I mean. And we live more than a a thousand miles apart. I'm not made for LDRs I tried it once and i could not cope with it. I'm a true lover but I want that love consummated and fulfilled.
thank you. It sure was a great evening and I looking forward to more of it.
Ur refreshingly honest.
Were u the same with her??
Take ur time...heres no immediate rush.
U cant get over somethig or someone that is still everyday within view of u.
Ur right, in my opinion , not to contact her today or tomm.
Just let it settle n see.
In the meantime theres always fishing
U have a great way with words..
Hope u buy another freezer for ur next catch!!
The fish i mean not the woman