Second Hand Wife/Husband ( Archived) (59)

Feb 14, 2020 5:28 PM CST Second Hand Wife/Husband
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
Kidwell_: When shopping/ looking for a partner, do you consider second hand men or women? Divorced? With kids/ baggage? Or you just don't care and take whatever you can get?
I dunno about baggage but I usually thought I found someone special after meeting with the same new person a few times. Then I’d wonder, did her last bf think that about her after they broke up.
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Feb 14, 2020 8:10 PM CST Second Hand Wife/Husband
M4_Mischief
M4_MischiefM4_MischiefBelleville, Ontario Canada6,250 Posts
i prefer men with no children or children who have grown up and left the nest....i dont have the energy to raise kids anymore......wave
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Feb 14, 2020 8:15 PM CST Second Hand Wife/Husband
thumbs up rolling on the floor laughing

my goodness no...lol

actually I do not really think much about the other experiences someone has had or who else is in their life. mainly stay in the moment....if we can get past the moment, I'll figure on the rest then....laugh wave
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Feb 14, 2020 8:23 PM CST Second Hand Wife/Husband
secretagent09
secretagent09secretagent09New Jersey Girl in, North Carolina USA198 Threads 4 Polls 7,230 Posts
M4 wave Agree, no more kids. Bad enough that we have to train the new guy laugh


Hi Felix wave wish you would come around here more
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Feb 14, 2020 8:28 PM CST Second Hand Wife/Husband
M4_Mischief
M4_MischiefM4_MischiefBelleville, Ontario Canada6,250 Posts
oh secret i have no inclination to train a grown man either...he better already be trained.....wave conversing laugh
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Feb 20, 2020 12:05 PM CST Second Hand Wife/Husband
Kidwell_: When shopping/ looking for a partner, do you consider second hand men or women? Divorced? With kids/ baggage? Or you just don't care and take whatever you can get?
listen to Dolly Parton's song--"The Bargain Store"
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Feb 20, 2020 12:35 PM CST Second Hand Wife/Husband
LeeCharming
LeeCharmingLeeCharmingCardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK537 Threads 273 Polls 6,941 Posts
Kidwell_: When shopping/ looking for a partner, do you consider second hand men or women? Divorced? With kids/ baggage? Or you just don't care and take whatever you can get?
I don't want a woman...with tons of baggage and have ruled out single mothers...with children under 18
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Feb 20, 2020 12:37 PM CST Second Hand Wife/Husband
Palmfrond
PalmfrondPalmfrondEaston, Pennsylvania USA4 Threads 236 Posts
your boundaries are clearly set.
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Feb 20, 2020 1:00 PM CST Second Hand Wife/Husband
Friskyone
FriskyoneFriskyoneSanta Fe, New Mexico USA271 Threads 26 Polls 4,631 Posts
Kidwell_: When shopping/ looking for a partner, do you consider second hand men or women? Divorced? With kids/ baggage? Or you just don't care and take whatever you can get?
I believe in taking it slow and test the waters first.
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Feb 21, 2020 8:12 PM CST Second Hand Wife/Husband
rajiv11
rajiv11rajiv11delhi, Delhi India1 Threads 1 Polls 1 Posts
I dont care about my better have is single divorced with children ......
for me understanding between me and my partner
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Feb 21, 2020 10:10 PM CST Second Hand Wife/Husband
LaFonda
LaFondaLaFondaIrving, Texas USA1 Threads 835 Posts
At my age that is all I'll get is "used goods." laugh
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Feb 25, 2020 4:45 AM CST Second Hand Wife/Husband
Mercedes_00
Mercedes_00Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia18 Threads 20,456 Posts
Have come to the conclusion it's best to be very very fussy with very very high standards same as everyone else...
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Feb 25, 2020 12:20 PM CST Second Hand Wife/Husband
4gotten4ever
4gotten4ever4gotten4everhere, California USA21 Threads 656 Posts
hahah
gross but yet. it got me laughing.
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Feb 25, 2020 3:15 PM CST Second Hand Wife/Husband
CossackCat
CossackCatCossackCatSomewhere, Maryland USA492 Threads 45 Polls 9,137 Posts
Kidwell_: When shopping/ looking for a partner, do you consider second hand men or women? Divorced? With kids/ baggage? Or you just don't care and take whatever you can get?
WHAT!? laugh
What is "First Hand" ? Two virgins? laugh

Maybe there is a cultural difference dunno But that "Second Hand" concept is hysterial
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Feb 25, 2020 3:27 PM CST Second Hand Wife/Husband
Kidwell_: When shopping/ looking for a partner, do you consider second hand men or women? Divorced? With kids/ baggage? Or you just don't care and take whatever you can get?
Can't say I would be against a single mom. The problem some of them say they don't want any more kids. I would have to be sure that she is a woman that wants more kids. If not, that would mean I'd never be a father to my own kids. Being a stepfather to somebody else's kids, but not to my own wouldn't be fair. conversing
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Feb 25, 2020 3:41 PM CST Second Hand Wife/Husband
Bogart_1960
Bogart_1960Bogart_1960Ask me !, Provence-Alpes-Cote d'Azur France36 Threads 1 Polls 10,012 Posts
Kidwell_: When shopping/ looking for a partner, do you consider second hand men or women? Divorced? With kids/ baggage? Or you just don't care and take whatever you can get?
I date women that I am attractive to, divorced or not, and they are always "first hand".
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Feb 25, 2020 7:02 PM CST Second Hand Wife/Husband
loulou77
loulou77loulou77Vancouver, British Columbia Canada1 Threads 1,555 Posts
M4_Mischief: you better get practiced up then.....
laugh


sad flower
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Mar 10, 2020 9:19 AM CST Second Hand Wife/Husband
Bellanna
BellannaBellannaPlatz, Appenzell Ausserrhoden Switzerland15 Threads 3 Polls 339 Posts
I find the term "second hand" a little weird and insulting to people...
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Mar 10, 2020 4:21 PM CST Second Hand Wife/Husband
HexagonKeySet
HexagonKeySetHexagonKeySetCentral, Waikato New Zealand150 Threads 7 Polls 3,829 Posts
Bellanna: I find the term "second hand" a little weird and insulting to people...
Y'd prefer what ... pre-loved, pre-owned, used, discarded, handmedowns ?

What's the reason for objecting to a term that's fit for purpose ie everyone understands what is meant?
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