What a great one to get you started with. It is something I have never really thought of. Now that you bring it up, it is probably something I should start considering. I would hope not to have many regrets by the time I die.
Good luck with this lucky gal. I would say, just do what you want to do. Treat her with respect. Sometimes the best policy is play things by ear. If you have any confusion on what to do, simply ask her. She will have all the answers to the questions you have.
Very well put. It took me a couple of months before I discovered I was just as much at fault for the break-up as she was. It is so easy to overlook that fact. Your breakdown of it was very well done and I believe much needed for some people.
I am guessing your approaches have yielded no success. From what I understand, women decide. They may want you to think you decide, by approaching them. In reality, they are deciding. What I mean by that. Most women will give men non-verbal signals...letting them know it is okay to approach them. If you do not get those signals and approach them, there is a very high likelihood you will be turned down. Learn the signals they give men, when you see those signals, approach them. I will guarantee you will have 100% success (with a very warm welcoming).
I believe everybody has their own experiences, knowledge, finances, emotions, etc....that life offers us. Essentially, you can consider these things as contents of your cup, if you will.
When you say opposites attract, what comes to mind are two people that individually have their cups, with some contents they are full on and other areas they may be lacking in.
When opposites come together, one may have a lot of emotional knowledge in their cup; whereas, the other may be lacking in that aspect. The other person may have financial security in their cup and the other may be lacking. Of course, these elements may be something different. If those opposites can come together, I think a relationship may just work out beautifully. In the end, both end up enlightening each other....making each better versions of their past selves.
Wow! With that kind of money, I sure hope your friend was able to get some written documentation. I do not know how the law is over there. But, here in the USA, you lend somebody that kind of money, you get proof you lent it to them. If they do not repay it, you take them to court.
If your friend does not have any written proof, she will have a difficult time getting the money back. Unless, the person who borrowed the money admits he did get money from her. In either case, getting the money back will be no easy chore.
How you so sure he was disappointed, laughing at you, and expected a blonde with blue eyes?
I would suspect he was captivated by your beauty, they were laughing at him because of the awe-struck look of love on his face, and last but not least, he thought you were better than any blonde with blue eyes.
If you do not like the heat there, you can always move to Michigan. Got plenty of cold here. However, I could not imagine being in weather 40 to 45 centigrade. We had -28 centigrade here this winter.
RE: Happy St.Patrick's Day.
Happy St. Patty's Day!