doberman3 Forum Posts (1,838)

RE: Why you love me?

Guys, women like to hear why you love her, if that has been said. I do not think that is a bad question.
Maybe she wanted to know what made her different from other women.

Women ask questions because men keep things inside.
I don't want to sound like I'm putting down guys, it's just we are wired differently.

The Dobe

RE: A Pilot

Cloud, I didn't see this thread before. If you are a pilot, maybe try to think before you say. When I came upon all the pictures you were putting below people's post, that was going to far.

I think in order to prove you are a pilot, you need to adjust your attitude. You like to stir things up and that will be what you are know for instead of adverting you are a pilot.

Last, when I can't see the face of who I am writing to, I feel they are covering up something. It's better to see your face.

How would you like it one day if everyone had your face. Would we get anywhere at all?

TD

RE: "White People",-Should They Be Wiped Out?Would The World Be A Better Place Without Them?

Good for you, to post something radical. All you are doing is trying to get a reaction from people. That is not happening with me. I wonder why you post some of the things you do.
This thread is a real downer.
The Dobe

RE: From where do you get your..............................

I agree with someone who said their parents, maybe DrBombay.
With me, I loved my parents, but lost my Dad at 14, they had divorced when I was 2.
It was my Grandparent's who gave I adored who were the ones to mold me and love me. They taught me lessons and I remember few times that they would get upset at me. My Mom still gets upset if you spill sugar on the floor, just about anything will get her going. That is not good around a child.
I've had to rise above disasters. Doing so, I got more inner strenght.
I listen to the voice inside of me. If the voice inside me is reacting to something, I listen.

The Dobe

RE: From where do you get your..............................

I think some one likes little dogs. Is the dog on your left a Yorkie?
The other one looks like a Min Pin.

Another source of strength, the love of an animal for you.

The Dobe

RE: why do spain female are full of shame than dry eyes westerners.........

Dear OP, either you are being a butt and faking how bad you write or you really do write like this. Take a English class.
You will never get anywhere with your lack of writing skills. Not with Women, or trying to get a job.
I'm sure you will mock me. But let me tell us this, while living in England, English is the first language.

Plus, you were making out that Spanish women are not strong, are you living on another planet? Spanish women are very strong. I think you liked one who would not look at you because she was not interested.
If you speak like you write, heaven help you.

The Western Doberman

RE: why do spain female are full of shame than dry eyes westerners.........

No, Boban, you haven't of haven't told me? Is it HUGE? Or is it small like Pointy's?? Get it? Maybe that is his problem.

Attention all: A new Bu.. in CS, lovely?
This is the dummest thread of them all lately.

The Doberman

RE: why do spain female are full of shame than dry eyes westerners.........

Maybe it is of course maybe maybe hardly honestly butt you is the problem of the problem, is that not clear or does anyone give a F?

The D o b e r m a n

RE: POST IF YOU ARE REAL!!!! ------- Role call for CS

The answer is nothing stops them. Scammers have control here since it's a free site without a background check.

The only thing you can do is report them. But they can come right back as a new person. It's sad, but the way it is.

The Dobe

RE: POST IF YOU ARE REAL!!!! ------- Role call for CS

So H, what do you do for a living?

Get a life. Jono asked an innocent question, what do you do for a living? Alot of people want to know what a person does at their job.
It doesn't mean that they want to know how much they earn.
You put down a good person.

SO we want money before the man? Haven't you noticed but alot of women have jobs these days or are you real, but stuck in the past?

The Doberman

RE: POST IF YOU ARE REAL!!!! ------- Role call for CS

I know for a fact that he is not real!

Obey the Doberman,
and Serve the Paw

RE: POST IF YOU ARE REAL!!!! ------- Role call for CS

I would like to box your ears for what you thought of Virginia.
I think that is proof that I'm real. Most of the profile posters are real. That is why we post.
But alot do not want to post and are real. Scammers like to post and if caught change into someone new but send notes with the same crap that they posted before.

The Dobe

RE: Understanding a woman's thinking from A -Z.

We do attend to the comfort or wishes of others, if they deserve it.

Equally, men do not understand women, women do not understand men.
We can only try to. Does a dog understand a cat? Sometimes. Other times they fight each other. Some love each other can cuddle.

If you do like a woman and she likes you, just ride the waves.
They are calm and stormy.
It's much better to have tried the waves out, then avoid women because of the past. The same thing for women.

You just have to get to know each other, and if it is not working in the beginning, forget it.

The Dobe

The Dobe

RE: Why do some women go for bad men (I said some) and then complain when they get hurt?

Some Women have a record of liking bad guys.

My first husband was a bad guy. I have 2 half-sisters who g0t involved with bad guys. One has been married 3 times, each of them bad.

I finally saw my pattern, and I go the opposite way. I am not attracted to them anymore. I want to laugh when I see their moves, they act like actors.

Even this is about women liking bad guys, come on, good men like bad women also. They too, have to break the cycle or will always be unhappy.
The Dobe
I say, let the bad guys and bad girls torment each other.

The Dobe

RE: How do you respond when...............................

I get mushy stuff from scammers - no reply.

If I am not interested I do not reply back.
I got a note from a guy once who was interested, sounded nice, so I replied back to him.

I got a nasty note from him back.

Also, there are some guys I do not want to write to at all. Like players and on and on.

The ones that call you sweetie, or dear. No, it's either a scammer or a guy that doesn't know how a lady wants to be written to.

The Dobe

RE: Have You Ever Made Love Longing For It To Be Over?

Yes I wished many a time I longed for it to be over when I was married. He was not a good lover. I loved him but he did not any effort to please me. But he got what he wanted. I'd talk about it, but nothing changed.
He only wanted to do it, then he fell asleep.
After we were divorced, I was seeing a guy and I found out what I had missed.

The Dobe

RE: Goodbye ole buddy

Hi "CC Rider, see what you have done"...ha.
I agree, he's fineat times, thoughtful, and nice. But does get boastfull, was a bit of a jerk when he first come on & then becomes part of a trio that included Slow. I do not miss Slow at all.

I do not believe he is a pilot and having all kinds of women.
Actually Cloud is a good name for him. I guess you never knew what he was going to say nex.

I am surprised he left, and also banned you. I think you are one of the nice guys here. Maybe he was in manopause.

The Dobe

Cloud, come on back.

RE: A huge question - love experts ))

Not with husbands, ha.

Well, I'm feeling fine now, I know I'm stronger than they are. I can still talk to them. I got a great sister-in-law out of the 2nd marriage, she is more like a older sister. She hated what was going on. Also, have a niece. There were good times and bad times in the 25 year marriage.

I like being on my own.
Thanks so much, Mermaidon. Kiss, Kiss


The Dobe

RE: Why am i single ?

This is pretty funny, we are coming up with different answers to this puzzle.
This is a fill in the blank thread.

I will have to say that this is one of the top 20 strangest threads I've read here and that is saying alot.

OP to the building, what in the ? are you talking about?

TD

RE: Why am i single ?

Another puzzle, your name says livefromnj, but you live in New York.

The Dobe

RE: Why am i single ?

It's huge all right, I did not get it at all.

The Dobe

RE: A huge question - love experts ))

Oops, goofed up . I have had 3 instances of men cheating on me. My first husband wanted a divorce but would not say why. The day before I moved out, divorce was done, some women I knew had a pow wow with me - to tell me he had been having an affair. I was shocked, then I was going around trying to find out from people if it was true. Then 6 months later he wanted me back, I missed him so much but my Grandfather hated him and said if it did it once, he'll do it again. So I told him to get lost.

I did ask my second ex if he was having an affair since things were not right. He said yes, and was glad I had asked because he felt better.
Wow, I sure didn't. But at least he was honest, and we got a divorce.

To the OP, it seems like things are shakey. I'm not sure if things are fine or questionable. Only you can figure that out. I would keep the line of communications open. If you are still wondering, you have to talk about it. In my eyes, if there is a disturbance, you have to deal with it now.
Just ask her the truth. You do not want to be in a relationship if their are problems. Because if you get married, they will continue.

The Dobe

RE: A huge question - love experts ))

RE: Goodbye ole buddy

Yeah, don't you love to get a note from someone that sends you a note.
You answer it, send, and find out they have banned you. It's quite a
surprise. That is a childish. Rider, I find you reasonable.

I ban scammers, players, etc. Big deal I would think. Hopefully he will see the thread.

Now, can you give me a hint on who left???

TD

RE: what is the most beautiful eyes colour?

My neice has unique blue eyes.
I have hazel, with different colors rimmed with brown.
I love seeing blue eyes, green eyes also.

TD

RE: Women and Feminists - the litmus test

Hi EagleWoman, I've missed you.

I am not going against what you say, I think it is very funny!

But I do have a second Cousin who is a Lesbian.
She was at my Aunt's house and she is a Social Worker. I was going through a separation and thought she could help me out with some questions. She said she didn't know either of us good enough to answer.
That was true since she was only around when I was young.
Then came a bomb shell.

The next thing she said was "I would not be a good person to answer that either because I hate men". That ended that discussion, ha.

I'm sure something horrible happened between her and a man.
I like her alot because she is a thoughtful person. She has her job and has a girl friend. I'd say she hates men but for a good reason. But she is not a feminist.

The Dobe

RE: Women and Feminists - the litmus test

Actually, their aim is off even in the toilet, yuk, usually is on the toilet and floor

RE: When Life Has Dealt You a Bad Had.....H E L P

I'm sorry you are facing a challenge. But I have found challenges just need to be solved the best way and accepted.

I broke a hip, later a foot. Then I went to a hell on wheels excercise class. After that class, my leg hurt so bad, I had to see my surgeon.
I found out that my strength in one leg was weak. A surgeon said it was arthritis.
But, I took what he said with a grain of salt. He already had told me after therapy for the hip, that I needed surgery to take out the pins & bolts. Thankfully, my to be ex was there. He asked the guy why?
The doctor replied, it depends on whether the person has pain. I said I have no pain, so we caught him. I would have given him more money and been out for 6 weeks during gardening season.

I would at least one more opinion. I had water therapy for the hurt leg and it was great. Also, Single mentioned acupunture.

If all else fails, get a great cane. The one I had to use had a nice cat design. You don't have to get a ugly one. Also, you can use it to get someone's attention. Basically, turn a lemon into lemonaide.

Sometimes the leg hurts a little. But I have found by excercising and dancing, it doesn't bother me as much.

All of this is new. Also, there is a vitamin to help out with the start of osteoarthritis. It has to be prescribed. I took it awhile, but didn't renew it. I believe it was $50 since my insurance would not cover it. That makes alot of sense, if you take medicine to prevent something, they will not cover it. But if you have a bad case of it, they will cover some meds.

The Dobe

Good luck, The Dobe

RE: Women and Feminists - the litmus test

I know I could write my name in the snow.

Ha, as for throwing, I throw great. I was my Grandfather's tomboy.
He taught me how to throw.
When I was married, we would play games at an amusement park.
I threw the best and won the prizes.

I also have a Doberman. A guy friend said it was unusual for a woman to own one. But I know plenty of women in my Doberman Rescue Group that have Dobes.

Once my ex could not get something open. He was a specialist with locks, ha. I said, try this tool. He said if I can't get it open, neither can you. I said, really? Then I said I tested well in mechancial ability, and you are on for a bet. I got the right tool
and it opened right up. He said he was wrong, and was impressed.
I also helped him work on his car, if he needed a hand working on a engine or tuning it up. I liked learning about cars.

I am not feminist, I think a real feminist can go to far, but I think alot of men still under estimate women's capabilities. But changes are underway that show just how far a woman can go. Who would have thought there would be women at war?

What I do not like is how a man and a woman will do the same job but women get less pay. That is not right.

The Dobe

RE: Real Southern Man

Hi Jono, yes, I agree. I met a guy from Texas
that moved to Virginia. I meet him through CS.
Oh, he was a sweet talker but eventually he
made it clear what was on his mind.

He took me to dinner which was nice, then he paid
the bill. The waiter came back to see if we were
ok, and he gets out his wallet and gave him a bill
and said to not come back. I was surprised and so was
the waiter. Then he reached for my hand. I was not
ready to hold his hand yet. I had just been to a
Botanical Garden with him. Now, we were going to
hold hands, eek.

Then we went to another park nearby. The problem
was he was moving to fast, little doggy.
He had the fattest lips for a guy that I had ever
seen. I watched as those lips were coming towards
me and I wanted to get into my car.

That was our only date. I guess he figured, he'd
better keep seaching. He also said he was going to
have a hard time sleeping that night. I just smiled
and got in my car. I have never been so happy to
end a date.

But that was one Texan, I'm sure there are others
that are smoother without big lips that would be
fun to be with.

The Dobe