I would have no problem with seeing a man from a different culture, it would not trouble me at all. In fact I am, sometimes I think he is from somewhere in space.
Anyway, would I leave my country to go and live with a person in India or Pakistan?
No. Because I would be too far away from my family and friends.
To be blunt. I have moved countries seven times and I am sick of it, I don't want to do it again. Certainly not that far away from my loved ones.
Europe is my home, has been since I was 14 with spurts of living in the UK, Middle East and the US.
I am happy here in Europe, the culture, the lifestyle fits me perfectly and I fit it.
So that's me. I'll read what other ladies say now.
I do have a partner, you have talked with him. My father is the one who knows me from birth. So therefore, when a person says, 'you could never' then only he can make that call.
And yes he does know me well, but he has not known me forever.
Don't we all need to get down and dirty more? I have my moments don't you fret.
This is often the problem and I have been guilty of it too, that people do not read carefully.
Maybe it was not so obvious, but I did use an example that could have been checked very easily.
But what gets to me, is the 'I never lie about anything' and condeming a person who has lied about their age.
It could have been a simple mistake, my point is now very clear in that we all have lied about something in our existence, there is a difference to me, in a harmless situation where a person lies about something and it can be cleared up than a lie that is with malicious intent.
Lying about ones age is pretty pointless to me, especially on entry to a new relationship, again, if you are hoping to find the one person and it lasts forever, then having to fess up about that lie is pretty much evident and the longer it went on the harder it is going to be.
That is wrong, because then that is misleading a person and that is never right, then the subject of whether it is acceptable from my point of view would change, because then it is not the fact that they have lied about their age, it would be deeper and the attempt to deceive me would be very much raised and questioned.
If perfect dream has been in this relationship for months and has found out by accident then only he can decide if is acceptable, it would not be to me. But if it is a person who I was meeting for the first time, then it would be something that I would clear up fairly quickly and be done with it.
I do not see the point in falsehoods, but I am not going to condemn a person and label them with titles because of a couple of sentences.
My point of view only and up for question should anybody wish to discuss. Not up for changing and altering to suit themselves.
Sommerauer71 Forum Posts (12,414)
RE: Are you known by the company you keep
My apologies, I failed to do as you did.How remiss of me.