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Telepathic Kissing Instructions
Heal trauma & depression.
Express love in the times of pandemic & social distancing.
Long distance relationships & travel restrictions
How to kiss by telepathy?
Safe and simple instructions.
IMAGINATION is the key.
Definition of Terms:
AMORAL ACT an action without the concept of right and wrong.
Express love in the times of pandemic & social distancing.
Long distance relationships & travel restrictions
How to kiss by telepathy?
Safe and simple instructions.
IMAGINATION is the key.
Definition of Terms:
AMORAL ACT an action without the concept of right and wrong.
Big day out in Texas
Susan Wright has received Trumps endorsement so should win . If she does it will be of no consequence . It goes without saying should she lose it will be all Trumps problem . Late afternoon there now so its only a few hours to go .
Big election tomorrow in the Great State of Texas! Susan Wright supports America First policies, our Military and our Veterans, is strong on Borders, tough on Crime, Pro-Life, and will always protect our Second Amendment. She will serve the people in the 6th Congressional District of Texas, and our Country, very well. Susan has my Complete and Total Endorsement. She will never let you down! Go out and vote for Susan Wright.
Big election tomorrow in the Great State of Texas! Susan Wright supports America First policies, our Military and our Veterans, is strong on Borders, tough on Crime, Pro-Life, and will always protect our Second Amendment. She will serve the people in the 6th Congressional District of Texas, and our Country, very well. Susan has my Complete and Total Endorsement. She will never let you down! Go out and vote for Susan Wright.
The monkey and me...
I saw a blog a few weeks ago that had a YouTube video featuring a public speaker talk about goals and procrastination. Using some visuals, he was the captain of a sailing ship and described due dates for projects. When he had ample time, his 'instant gratification monkey' would convince him to play and surf the internet.
As the project due date grew closer the monkey would continue to assure him he could procrastinate longer (having fun) until he passed the date where he could complete the task. At that point a monster appeared scaring the monkey away as well as putting fear into the man who would stay up all night to finish what he could have easily done had he not listened to the monkey.
I have a monkey too...
Unlike the monster, I have a logical voice of reminder and I'll refer to her as my mother.
I'll tell mother I'm working on a project for a meeting in the morning and go off to play a few rounds of Freecell. Maybe an hour later, mother will come into my office with a bowl of watermelon chunks and ask how I'm doing with my project. My typical reply would be "I was playing with the monkey, but I'll start in a few minutes" A few minutes later, she returns to get the empty bowl and asks me to show her what work I need to do. By then the monkey has gone and my mind begins to focus on my project.
I have a few bills to pay tonight and log on to my remote office computer to finish some prices for a customer meeting tomorrow. Hopefully the monkey won't bother me as I don't have time to shop for guitars and new cars!
As the project due date grew closer the monkey would continue to assure him he could procrastinate longer (having fun) until he passed the date where he could complete the task. At that point a monster appeared scaring the monkey away as well as putting fear into the man who would stay up all night to finish what he could have easily done had he not listened to the monkey.
I have a monkey too...
Unlike the monster, I have a logical voice of reminder and I'll refer to her as my mother.
I'll tell mother I'm working on a project for a meeting in the morning and go off to play a few rounds of Freecell. Maybe an hour later, mother will come into my office with a bowl of watermelon chunks and ask how I'm doing with my project. My typical reply would be "I was playing with the monkey, but I'll start in a few minutes" A few minutes later, she returns to get the empty bowl and asks me to show her what work I need to do. By then the monkey has gone and my mind begins to focus on my project.
I have a few bills to pay tonight and log on to my remote office computer to finish some prices for a customer meeting tomorrow. Hopefully the monkey won't bother me as I don't have time to shop for guitars and new cars!
Daily quotes ??
A friendly reminder for everyone:
"When you're tired, get some rest. When you're sad, go ahead and cry. It's okay to take a break. Then one day there will surely come a day when you'll be able to run again." ?
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#itsokaytonotbeokay
"When you're tired, get some rest. When you're sad, go ahead and cry. It's okay to take a break. Then one day there will surely come a day when you'll be able to run again." ?
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#itsokaytonotbeokay
"A gentle reminder"
Psychological abuse, often called emotional abuse, is a form of abuse characterized by a person subjecting or exposing another person to a behaviour that may result in psychological trauma, including anxiety, chronic depression, or post-traumatic stress disorder...
It is often associated with situations of power imbalance in abusive relationships, and may include bullying, gaslighting, and abuse in the workplace.It also may be perpetrated by persons conducting torture, other violence, acute or prolonged human rights abuse, particularly without legal redress such as detention without trial, false accusations, false convictions, and extreme defamation such as where perpetrated by state and media.
General definition
Clinicians and researchers have offered different definitions of psychological abuse.....According to current research the terms "psychological abuse" and "emotional abuse" can be used interchangeably, unless associated with psychological violence
More specifically, "emotional abuse is any kind of abuse that is emotional rather than physical in nature. It can include anything from verbal abuse and constant criticism to more subtle tactics such as intimidation, manipulation, and refusal to ever be pleased. This abuse occurs when someone says words or does actions used to try and control the other person, to keep the other afraid and instill fear that, or kept apart from others or try to break someone’s self-esteem of themselves.
Emotional abuse can take several forms. Three general patterns of abusive behavior include aggressing, denying, and minimizing"; "Withholding is another form of denying. Withholding includes refusing to listen, refusing to communicate, and emotionally withdrawing as punishment."..
Even though there is no established definition for emotional abuse, emotional abuse can possess a definition beyond verbal and psychological abuse.
Blaming, shaming, and name calling are a few verbally abusive behaviors which can affect a victim emotionally. The victim's self-worth and emotional well-being are altered and even diminished by the verbal abuse, resulting in an emotionally-abused victim.
The victim may experience severe psychological effects. This would involve the tactics of brainwashing, which can fall under psychological abuse as well, but emotional abuse consists of the manipulation of the victim's emotions. The victim may feel their emotions are being affected by the abuser to such an extent that the victim may no longer recognize their own feelings regarding the issues the abuser is trying to control. The result is the victim's self-concept and independence are systematically taken away.
The U.S. Department of Justice defines emotionally abusive traits as including causing fear by: intimidation, threatening physical harm to self, partner, children, or partner's family or friends, destruction of pets and property, forcing isolation from family, friends, or school or work. More subtle emotionally abusive behaviors include insults, putdowns, arbitrary and unpredictable behavior, and gaslighting (e.g. the denial that previous abusive incidents occurred). Modern technology has led to new forms of abuse, by text messaging and online cyber-bullying....
to be continued...
It is often associated with situations of power imbalance in abusive relationships, and may include bullying, gaslighting, and abuse in the workplace.It also may be perpetrated by persons conducting torture, other violence, acute or prolonged human rights abuse, particularly without legal redress such as detention without trial, false accusations, false convictions, and extreme defamation such as where perpetrated by state and media.
General definition
Clinicians and researchers have offered different definitions of psychological abuse.....According to current research the terms "psychological abuse" and "emotional abuse" can be used interchangeably, unless associated with psychological violence
More specifically, "emotional abuse is any kind of abuse that is emotional rather than physical in nature. It can include anything from verbal abuse and constant criticism to more subtle tactics such as intimidation, manipulation, and refusal to ever be pleased. This abuse occurs when someone says words or does actions used to try and control the other person, to keep the other afraid and instill fear that, or kept apart from others or try to break someone’s self-esteem of themselves.
Emotional abuse can take several forms. Three general patterns of abusive behavior include aggressing, denying, and minimizing"; "Withholding is another form of denying. Withholding includes refusing to listen, refusing to communicate, and emotionally withdrawing as punishment."..
Even though there is no established definition for emotional abuse, emotional abuse can possess a definition beyond verbal and psychological abuse.
Blaming, shaming, and name calling are a few verbally abusive behaviors which can affect a victim emotionally. The victim's self-worth and emotional well-being are altered and even diminished by the verbal abuse, resulting in an emotionally-abused victim.
The victim may experience severe psychological effects. This would involve the tactics of brainwashing, which can fall under psychological abuse as well, but emotional abuse consists of the manipulation of the victim's emotions. The victim may feel their emotions are being affected by the abuser to such an extent that the victim may no longer recognize their own feelings regarding the issues the abuser is trying to control. The result is the victim's self-concept and independence are systematically taken away.
The U.S. Department of Justice defines emotionally abusive traits as including causing fear by: intimidation, threatening physical harm to self, partner, children, or partner's family or friends, destruction of pets and property, forcing isolation from family, friends, or school or work. More subtle emotionally abusive behaviors include insults, putdowns, arbitrary and unpredictable behavior, and gaslighting (e.g. the denial that previous abusive incidents occurred). Modern technology has led to new forms of abuse, by text messaging and online cyber-bullying....
to be continued...
Who are you?
Have you ever wondered what you are meant to do?
The present world we live in has crazy types imposed on people that we have lost the real meaning of what it is to be a human being.
Who are you? How do you describe yourself? Are you happy and content? Or does happiness really exist?
I wonder....
The present world we live in has crazy types imposed on people that we have lost the real meaning of what it is to be a human being.
Who are you? How do you describe yourself? Are you happy and content? Or does happiness really exist?
I wonder....
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Essence of Whole Spirituality
There are two main things in spirituality. one for inside deep unconscious mind. and another for the outer conscious mind.
For inner deep unconscious mind:
Stop reacting to your feelings, sorrows, pleasures. Start observing.
For outer conscious mind:
Give to others what you expect from others for yourself. And don't give to others what you don't expect from others for yourself.
Spiritual logic is very short and simple.
For inner deep unconscious mind:
Stop reacting to your feelings, sorrows, pleasures. Start observing.
For outer conscious mind:
Give to others what you expect from others for yourself. And don't give to others what you don't expect from others for yourself.
Spiritual logic is very short and simple.
Chronic...
By definition, chronic is 'continuing a long time or recurring frequently' and today my client called to say she wasn't coming to town as previously scheduled as she developed a chronic cough a few weeks ago and is waiting for it to go away. No problem, I told her to let me know when she's coming and I'll reschedule to meet with her.
All through the phone conversation she was interrupted by coughing attacks. With my history of asthma, I suggested she should see specialist, like a pulmonologist who has a better understanding of respiratory issues than her family doctor. She's been taking cold medicine with a cough suppressant and that isn't doing the right job. Hopefully she can get over this quickly with an inhaler or other medicine specific for her condition.
There is a different kind of chronic that deals with mental health issues. The chronic complainer, to be exact. People like this find reasons to complain about anything and everything... I heard someone describe it as "The 3 bears syndrome" where one bear says it's too hot, the other bear says it's too cold, and the lease significant bear says it's just right.
What could possibly be wrong in the life of someone who gets up in the morning, comes to CS to read blogs, doesn't find any to their satisfaction, so they post a complaint blog as though there is something wrong with the other blogs. There is no medicine for that type of illness... or maybe there is?
I used to have a boss who described other bosses who 'pushed' their employees to do better. He said that was wrong and they should be in front 'leading' the workers to do better.
Better by example.
If something wasn't being done correctly he would show the worker what to do to accomplish a goal and not belittle the worker in doing so. His employees were motivated by his work ethic. It wasn't a perfect world as one employee was a chronic complainer. The boss took the time to train the guy properly where his performance improved and the coworkers were happier as they no longer had to listen to him complain.
That was a win-win strategy in dealing with a chronic complainer!
All through the phone conversation she was interrupted by coughing attacks. With my history of asthma, I suggested she should see specialist, like a pulmonologist who has a better understanding of respiratory issues than her family doctor. She's been taking cold medicine with a cough suppressant and that isn't doing the right job. Hopefully she can get over this quickly with an inhaler or other medicine specific for her condition.
There is a different kind of chronic that deals with mental health issues. The chronic complainer, to be exact. People like this find reasons to complain about anything and everything... I heard someone describe it as "The 3 bears syndrome" where one bear says it's too hot, the other bear says it's too cold, and the lease significant bear says it's just right.
What could possibly be wrong in the life of someone who gets up in the morning, comes to CS to read blogs, doesn't find any to their satisfaction, so they post a complaint blog as though there is something wrong with the other blogs. There is no medicine for that type of illness... or maybe there is?
I used to have a boss who described other bosses who 'pushed' their employees to do better. He said that was wrong and they should be in front 'leading' the workers to do better.
Better by example.
If something wasn't being done correctly he would show the worker what to do to accomplish a goal and not belittle the worker in doing so. His employees were motivated by his work ethic. It wasn't a perfect world as one employee was a chronic complainer. The boss took the time to train the guy properly where his performance improved and the coworkers were happier as they no longer had to listen to him complain.
That was a win-win strategy in dealing with a chronic complainer!
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