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Changing 2014 to 2015....to a splendid year!!
Dear friends in CS...
Year 2014 is left behind....
As we reflect on the past year....
Remember the laughter, the joy and the hardwork
Good and sad times will live on in our memories
And may we learn lessons from the troubling times.
That will make us stronger and better than ever.
Leave behind what we don't need to carry:
Grudges, sadness, pain, fear and regrets....
Now...think of the new year 2015.
This is a time of new beginnings
This is the time to dream and achieve bigger feats!!
New year is not about changing the DATES but DRECTION
It is not about changing the CALENDER but COMMITMENT
It's not about changing the ACTIONS but ATTITUDE
It's not about changing the FRIUTS but FAITH, FORCE and FOCUS!!
May us...be commit and create the best 2015 year ever.
Have a bless 2015 year....
Year 2014 is left behind....
As we reflect on the past year....
Remember the laughter, the joy and the hardwork
Good and sad times will live on in our memories
And may we learn lessons from the troubling times.
That will make us stronger and better than ever.
Leave behind what we don't need to carry:
Grudges, sadness, pain, fear and regrets....
Now...think of the new year 2015.
This is a time of new beginnings
This is the time to dream and achieve bigger feats!!
New year is not about changing the DATES but DRECTION
It is not about changing the CALENDER but COMMITMENT
It's not about changing the ACTIONS but ATTITUDE
It's not about changing the FRIUTS but FAITH, FORCE and FOCUS!!
May us...be commit and create the best 2015 year ever.
Have a bless 2015 year....
Be kind
Be Kind
Yes, it seems obvious, but it’s easy to get frustrated with someone you love, who doesn’t seem to be getting over “it,” whatever “it” may be. It’s natural to feel yourself losing your temper, when this is something you think you could handle so much better.
Everyone goes through those times, and the best way to ride the rough waves is to endure them. It can be done; your loved one will survive, but he also needs to know it’s okay for him to let himself hurt. He can’t be in such a rush to “get over it” that he tamps the hurt down, where it can fester and make the future even worse.
So remember: Be kind when you’re looking for the
right words of encouragement to one you love. You will find the right thing to say. Just put yourself in their place, and imagine how you’d feel if you were on the receiving end of your words... #Jt
Yes, it seems obvious, but it’s easy to get frustrated with someone you love, who doesn’t seem to be getting over “it,” whatever “it” may be. It’s natural to feel yourself losing your temper, when this is something you think you could handle so much better.
Everyone goes through those times, and the best way to ride the rough waves is to endure them. It can be done; your loved one will survive, but he also needs to know it’s okay for him to let himself hurt. He can’t be in such a rush to “get over it” that he tamps the hurt down, where it can fester and make the future even worse.
So remember: Be kind when you’re looking for the
right words of encouragement to one you love. You will find the right thing to say. Just put yourself in their place, and imagine how you’d feel if you were on the receiving end of your words... #Jt
genuine gold and fake gold......
The nature of gold is diverse. The chemical element gold is a heavy, soft metal. It weighs nearly twice as much as lead. Shiny and deep yellow in color, gold is one of two metals, which are not gray or white when pure. Gold is the most ductile of metals. .. ... .....Appearance are often deceptive. Many things may superficially appear very attractive. When they are examined from close quarters, they prove to be disappointing. One cannot judge the quality of a thing by seeing its exterior portion only. Every shinning metal is not gold. ... ..The quality of anything can be judged .... only if we come to know the reality of a thing. Gold is gold if the inner metal is also gold. Many things are made of inferior metal and to hide their defect, they are given a shine. They look beautiful and attract many a person who loves beautiful objects. An object with a glittering shine of gold cannot b gold unless the whole object itself is gold. All that glitters is not gold. All people wearing saffron clothes cannot be saints. A foolish man can never be wise by pretending to be wise.
.. .... ...The actions of people in today's world are self centered and they just look at the benefits they get out of it. It is better to be careful to start a friendship with those who try to project themselves as your well wishers or friends. It is better to ascertain their motives and actions and a constant vigil need to be kept on them. 
... ...Never go by the appearance of any thing, be it a person or a thing. Simply wanting for it just by the looks of it can lead to great disaster. Most of the time, what we see is not the reality; the outside appearance generally hides all the truth and reality. Though we might say face is the index of the heart, there are so many methods to hide the face reactions. But that can be found out on constant and vigilant observation alone. .. .. ... ...
The credit worthiness of so many things are definitely questionable. When it comes to a materialistic thing, its worth can be judged only on using it. In the same way, we can find the true color of a person only by moving with them, though not closely at least getting acquainted with them. Now a days we can see so many imitation jewellery that shine even more than gold. .... continued in the comment section
The Universe Delivers What You Ask! (Law Of Attraction)
Spend a few minutes reading this and you may find some clarity in lifes difficult situations. So have you ever heard the story of the African Farmer? Not many people have. Have a read..
There was once a successful African farmer who lived with his only son. He loved his son vey much and they enjoyed the fruits of their labour. The farmer was very successful as he produced the very best crops in the land which he sold to the highest bidder. The farmer was familiar with the power of though and intention since that was the reason for his success, so he taught his son all that he knew. The father wanted nothing more for his son to live a long healthy fulfilled life. So the farmer declared an affirmation that went something like this – “My sons life is a long healthy fulfilled life”. The farmer even made his son adopt the same affirmation. So the son would say every day I live a long healthy fulfilled life. One day when they are working in the field the horse the son was riding on was startled by a field mouse and knocked the son to the ground breaking the sons leg in two places. The father was devastated and cried out how could this tragedy have happened. But despite the appearance the father decided to dig in his heels and stay faithful to his affirmation so he continued to declare that my son lives a long healthy fulfilled life. The very next day a war broke out in the country the farmer was in and all the young men were required to be drafted into the war. When the officials came to draft the Farmer's son they saw his leg was broken making him unfit to participate in the war. The father immediately knew that the thing that he once called a tragedy was actually a blessing in disguise giving him exactly what he had asked.
The moral of the story?
If you ask the universe for a desire and something happens that appears to be negative don't curse it. It could actually be setting you up for what you asked for. Sometimes when Things Fall Apart they're actually Falling Together.
Whats your take?
Danny
There was once a successful African farmer who lived with his only son. He loved his son vey much and they enjoyed the fruits of their labour. The farmer was very successful as he produced the very best crops in the land which he sold to the highest bidder. The farmer was familiar with the power of though and intention since that was the reason for his success, so he taught his son all that he knew. The father wanted nothing more for his son to live a long healthy fulfilled life. So the farmer declared an affirmation that went something like this – “My sons life is a long healthy fulfilled life”. The farmer even made his son adopt the same affirmation. So the son would say every day I live a long healthy fulfilled life. One day when they are working in the field the horse the son was riding on was startled by a field mouse and knocked the son to the ground breaking the sons leg in two places. The father was devastated and cried out how could this tragedy have happened. But despite the appearance the father decided to dig in his heels and stay faithful to his affirmation so he continued to declare that my son lives a long healthy fulfilled life. The very next day a war broke out in the country the farmer was in and all the young men were required to be drafted into the war. When the officials came to draft the Farmer's son they saw his leg was broken making him unfit to participate in the war. The father immediately knew that the thing that he once called a tragedy was actually a blessing in disguise giving him exactly what he had asked.
The moral of the story?
If you ask the universe for a desire and something happens that appears to be negative don't curse it. It could actually be setting you up for what you asked for. Sometimes when Things Fall Apart they're actually Falling Together.
Whats your take?
Danny
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what school won't tell you - about Humans from the stars
hello all
yes, always time for truth its on you tube - search 'what school won't tell you'
#whatschoolwonttellyou #billymeier
HOW REAL IS OUR SCIENCE FICTION? | Lesson 3 - compares sci-fi to reality of actual REAL contacts of Billy Meier, for the last 80- years, a very well made video. .... Oct 10, 2021
This is not a belief based understanding, way beyond new age BS too.
it is real, proven, documented, singularly authentic- and the key to our future survival.
Learn
yes, always time for truth its on you tube - search 'what school won't tell you'
#whatschoolwonttellyou #billymeier
HOW REAL IS OUR SCIENCE FICTION? | Lesson 3 - compares sci-fi to reality of actual REAL contacts of Billy Meier, for the last 80- years, a very well made video. .... Oct 10, 2021
This is not a belief based understanding, way beyond new age BS too.
it is real, proven, documented, singularly authentic- and the key to our future survival.
Learn
Serious Conversation
Years ago, I had a talk with myself regarding my troubles about love and relationship. My inner self told me: "I think your problem is that you are very serious about getting into and being in a relationship that you are missing out on opportunities that are yet to present themselves. When you meet a guy, you already categorize him to MIGHT or MIGHT NOT have a future with. You have judged them as to what they have initially shown you. When you yourself are holding back in the beginning. At the start, both people are expected to hold back a little, so by putting a tag on a person early on, when he hasn't shown himself fully on all his potential is what's making you sad. What if he was actually good, but you didn't give him a chance to begin with?"
With that, I gave one guy a chance. The problem is, when I start to have a bond with someone, I trully give them all the chances and accept everything and overlook everything, even all the red flags. That it took me 4 years to realize that the relationship I was in was not the right one for me.
Was I right with the way I dealt with my issue before that landed me the 4 years relationship? It was. Because even when it was not the right relationship, I learned so much from it. So now, Im thinking of another change inside me. But I guess this time, I will focus on something else.
With that, I gave one guy a chance. The problem is, when I start to have a bond with someone, I trully give them all the chances and accept everything and overlook everything, even all the red flags. That it took me 4 years to realize that the relationship I was in was not the right one for me.
Was I right with the way I dealt with my issue before that landed me the 4 years relationship? It was. Because even when it was not the right relationship, I learned so much from it. So now, Im thinking of another change inside me. But I guess this time, I will focus on something else.
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Words Of Wisdom
Be the best that you can be unless your best at being an a**hole, in that case, be at your worst.
New beginings
Well I must say the first 7 days on this site have been interesting to say the least.
I have made it here which is further than I expected to last. Usually I will start something with good intentions and then when it doesn't seem to be helping or fill the void that I am desperately trying to, I just give up and think it was worth it anyway. So after 7 days of being on here and I'm still continuing to go ahead with why I signed up in the first place it must mean that I am getting something I need or am just more determined than other times in my past.
This is where the self-improvement comes in to play. I want to be the person that can be depended on but also the one that can depend on someone else. My kids are great but they also don't need to be the crutch I lean on either.
I have had a life filled with disappointments. Some obviously very good as I have 4 beautiful young adults, but I have never had that kind of connection that I see in all the happy couples and families that surround me. I am trying to change my way of thinking from detrimental and self destructive to positive and fulfilling. As one of my friends tells me all the time. When you get a complement accept it for what it is. Don't brush it off and say "ya ok" because it is meant to make you feel better and the truth. Compliments have always been hard for me to accept just because I have never felt worthy of them. When your daily life is built around being yelled at, put down and made to feel unimportant you tend to start believing it.
This is where I am at today trying to put together the pieces of my life that have been stomped on for many years and am unbelievably going to the vast unknown world of the internet to help me do that. It matters not if anyone wishes to comment or converse, (although it would be great) but the fact that I am putting myself out there to see if this will help. We all have to start somewhere and for me this is it.
Thanks for reading
Raye
I have made it here which is further than I expected to last. Usually I will start something with good intentions and then when it doesn't seem to be helping or fill the void that I am desperately trying to, I just give up and think it was worth it anyway. So after 7 days of being on here and I'm still continuing to go ahead with why I signed up in the first place it must mean that I am getting something I need or am just more determined than other times in my past.
This is where the self-improvement comes in to play. I want to be the person that can be depended on but also the one that can depend on someone else. My kids are great but they also don't need to be the crutch I lean on either.
I have had a life filled with disappointments. Some obviously very good as I have 4 beautiful young adults, but I have never had that kind of connection that I see in all the happy couples and families that surround me. I am trying to change my way of thinking from detrimental and self destructive to positive and fulfilling. As one of my friends tells me all the time. When you get a complement accept it for what it is. Don't brush it off and say "ya ok" because it is meant to make you feel better and the truth. Compliments have always been hard for me to accept just because I have never felt worthy of them. When your daily life is built around being yelled at, put down and made to feel unimportant you tend to start believing it.
This is where I am at today trying to put together the pieces of my life that have been stomped on for many years and am unbelievably going to the vast unknown world of the internet to help me do that. It matters not if anyone wishes to comment or converse, (although it would be great) but the fact that I am putting myself out there to see if this will help. We all have to start somewhere and for me this is it.
Thanks for reading
Raye
"What You Must Do To Find Dates!" ( By falicia's Own Experiences)
" Please Work On Your Self's Before You Look For Dates"
So OftenI See Men Looking For Dates " In a So Bad Shape"
And I am Sure Is Happen With Woman Too!
"Please Do Not Let Your Self Go " Under Any Circumstances"
" Please Work On Your Self Looks Start Today "
If You Are Overweight Stat Loosing The Weight As Much Is Possible!
( SeeMy Blog " How to Loose Weight and Have Fun")
That Is Only One Option!
There Are Many Ways To Do It! Walking, Swimming Also One of The Best) Going To the Gym! etc.
Start Eating Healthy and In Small Portions, not Bigger Then Your Hand!
Loosing Weight Not Only Will Help You To Find a Date!
But Will Help You To Live a Longer Life!
By Been Healthier!
Because You Are Important To So Many People!
Smell Well , Fresh Breath , and Fresh Body Is Important!
Dress Well Is Also Important!
Start Dressing According to your Body Shape and Skin Colour !
Is Your Grey Hair Make You Look Older?
If It Does?
Colour It! ( Try Colours That Will Suit You) Black Will Suit Almost Everyone!
You Could Do It Your Self , If You Like! ( Just Get The Hair Colour and Follow The Instructions!
Before You Do That Trim Your Hair a Bit !
Men Do You Like Facial Hair?
It's Make You Look Good?
If Is Not Shave It Off!
In My Opinion In Some Men Little Bit Facial Hair Look Good In Some Men ( Never In a Woman)
Thank you
By falicia
What Is Your Opinion?
So OftenI See Men Looking For Dates " In a So Bad Shape"
And I am Sure Is Happen With Woman Too!
"Please Do Not Let Your Self Go " Under Any Circumstances"
" Please Work On Your Self Looks Start Today "
If You Are Overweight Stat Loosing The Weight As Much Is Possible!
( SeeMy Blog " How to Loose Weight and Have Fun")
That Is Only One Option!
There Are Many Ways To Do It! Walking, Swimming Also One of The Best) Going To the Gym! etc.
Start Eating Healthy and In Small Portions, not Bigger Then Your Hand!
Loosing Weight Not Only Will Help You To Find a Date!
But Will Help You To Live a Longer Life!
By Been Healthier!
Because You Are Important To So Many People!
Smell Well , Fresh Breath , and Fresh Body Is Important!
Dress Well Is Also Important!
Start Dressing According to your Body Shape and Skin Colour !
Is Your Grey Hair Make You Look Older?
If It Does?
Colour It! ( Try Colours That Will Suit You) Black Will Suit Almost Everyone!
You Could Do It Your Self , If You Like! ( Just Get The Hair Colour and Follow The Instructions!
Before You Do That Trim Your Hair a Bit !
Men Do You Like Facial Hair?
It's Make You Look Good?
If Is Not Shave It Off!
In My Opinion In Some Men Little Bit Facial Hair Look Good In Some Men ( Never In a Woman)
Thank you
By falicia
What Is Your Opinion?
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