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According to Google ( that dirty b...), a blog is a regularly updated website or web page, typically one run by an individual or small group, that is written in an informal or conversational style.

The CS site says: . A Blog is a journal you may enter about your life, thoughts, interesting experiences, or lessons you've learned. Post an opinion, impart words of wisdom, or talk about something interesting in your day. Update your blog on a regular basis, or just whenever you have something to say. Creating a blog is a good way to share something of yourself with others.

So the sky is the limit! Almost. And what do people reach for when there are practically endless possibilities?



Your range of imagination is on display. If you are creative or not it will show here. Your intellect or lack thereof is on display. Your compulsions, obssessions, phobias. Your biases, your bigotry, your hypocrisy.

Your inclination toward honesty and integrity, or your tendency toward being a lying sociopath.

It's really up to the individuals to decide for themselves the face they want to wear...or hide.

One night I had a dream that I saw myself sitting in small house having only two windows. Within the house were many people. Half were looking out one window on one side of the house and the other half were looking out the other window. None within the the house knew how they got there only that they kept looking out the windows seeming to be looking for a sign of profound vision. One group was claiming with such clarity they could see the truth of everything and the other group claimed they thought they saw a glimpse of the truth but, their window was a bit hazy and cloudy so they just were not sure.
One truth they all knew they were stuck in this house and though they were aching to get out and explore beyond the confines of the house they could not find a door nor a key or any manner to escape the confines of the house.

Some just resigned and embraced the confines while others still kept hoping for a release, an escape, a way out of the house. Yet, all the while they were concerned about getting out of the house they did not realize each were holding a key and the windows were never really there nor the walls of the house. As a matter of fact the house was not even real but their own imagination of a false sense of imprisonment.
The windows were just invisible barriers to what they placed within the walls of doubt, fear, pessimism, anger, and regrets of the past.
Such is the case with online dating in some cases.
Yet, perhaps this is more for the blogger to understand.

Whenever I drive, after 20 kms I start falling asleep. When I try to sleep by stopping the car, the sleep disappears and when I try to start the car and proceed, it starts falling asleep again. This is a very strange and dangerous situation.

I have found solution to this problem.
Whenever I drive after eating cooked food, I feel sleepy, but if I do not eat cooked food, stay empty stomach or eat raw food (fruits) then I do not sleep.
I came to know from naturopathy doctor in youtube that eating cooked food makes lethargic but eating raw food (fruits) does not make anyone lethargic.
Now whenever I have to drive more than 20 or 30 kms, I do not eat cooked food.

For those who manage to evade the constant bombardment of caustic shyte flinging, attention whoring, self promotion and the inexhaustable blathering of one's misguided ideologies....I applaud you.

Random Thoughts........"Does Marriage Help You To Grow As A Person?"

Answer:----- The answer is 'yes' and 'no'
Surveying the contemporary marriage scenerio, I can say with authority that by and large, marriage does not help a person to grow as an individual. At least, this is true in an Indian Household. There may be some stray examples here and there of a succesful marriage, where the couple display their talents in a free society, but on the whole, marriages in India have failed to bring happiness and help the individual's growth as a person.

Three important issues are to be in focus here.......MONEY, NATURE & RELATIONSHIP
Money is only artificial happiness, but it seems to work in a marriage. Money is solving about 70% of the problems between the couple. A female donkey is known as a mare; and we have heard the popular quote..."Money Makes The Mare Go Round" Most couples argue, disagree and fight, because of lack of money. House bills being not paid on time, children's school bills being not paid on time,
entertainment not given a top priority are some of the top 'hot' spots where excessive heat gets generated. These get solved instantly by the power of money.
But the couple need no worry. Next in line is NATURE. If you are having a sound head on your shoulders, you have nothing to fear. You can be happy, if you are having a beautiful mind. What is a beautiful mind? Well, a beautiful mind is a mind of abundance, not of money but of thoughts, attitude and a general nature of well being. Such a mind is possible by training yourself to think in a particular way. What's that?

Well, you have to look at the drama in this way. You very well know that you are not a beggar. You might be in any small, medium or large business, or you might be in service earning sufficiently to maintain yourself and your family. Start thinking how much you are 'having' instead of how much you 'do not have'. Make a list with 2 columns. After completing the list, you will mostly observe that a column containing 'have' list is more than the 'have not' list. Suddenly your mind will have refreshing feeling of abundance. If you go on thinking in this way, you will develop an attitude and a nature which seems to fill up the cracks in the troubled marriage. And then, slowly and slowly, you will rub off this nature amongst your family members. Now, you have won half the battle; the other half will be won in due course of time.

Lastly, the Relationship factor is only a by product of Money & Nature. The biggest factor working in a loving relationship is a term callled 'Accepting & Agreeing' This is very difficult as well as very easy. Imagine 2 persons are discussing a simple topic as........."What Looks Good On A Lady: Maxi or Sari.There is needless discusion and nobody wins an argument.
If you consider this type of discussion, it has no ending. But the couple will end upi in a fight of no consequence. The solution lies wherein one of the couple willingly and geniunely with love accepts the viewpoint and says 'Yes' And this is how the relationships develops between the couple. You can do such magic by destroying your ego and accept the other's point of view. If you go on accepting the other's point of view, a time will come when your opposite partner will also start accepting even your 'silly' points. This is the fast track to good relationship. This will also result in each person growing in creativity as an individual. You will be astonished at the amount of 'creative stock' that will be unleashed between the couple. The couple will begin to feel more confident, more loving and a whole lot of understanding will suddenly dawn on the couple. This will bring nothing but more and more happiness in the lives of the couple.
So, it is possible to grow as an individual in a tricky relationship called "MARRIAGe"
Manohar Bhatia.

This separate paragraph......

writing business.....

really isn't so bad....

after all!

I don't understand why no one ever brought it to my attention before.

But, be careful what you ask for.

Not everything is as it seems.


once on a farm there was a bird. The bird would follow a cow around, and when the cow took a dump, the bird would eat the seeds out of the poop. One day the bird got too close and the cow shit all over him. An old barn cat saw this and came over and cleaned off the bird. As soon as the bird was nice and clean the cat ate him. Not everyone that craps on you is your enemy, not everything that cleans you off is your friend...
#Jt

Late one night, some years ago, I was walking home when I reached a crossroads where, from out of nowhere, appeared a shadowy figure. Although I was eager to get home he managed, easily, to engage me in conversation, as he was very charismatic. He was also very persuasive, but, luckily for me, nothing transpired that required the removal of my trousers. We came to an arrangement.

Now that I have reached an age where thoughts of my mortality are becoming ever more prevalent, I am plagued with regrets about the agreement I entered into. If I could turn back the clock to that night at those crossroads, this time I would keep right on walking when that stranger appeared, or at the very least be more ambitious in my negotiations. It’s not that I haven’t enjoyed the local fame that came with being a virtuoso of the spoons, but it is only in hindsight that it occurs to me that the electric guitar might have been a more rewarding choice.

I think its time I add some bling into my life.My life lately feels dull,boring and routine and honestly it sickens me.If I had one wish just one I would change my career (marketing)and go into the film industry...as in tomorrow I can't be gemini and be this bored. life is too short to be stuck here doing thisAnd today just proved to me that this platter wasn't meant for me.

So Do Not Worry If You Do Make Mistakes!
Just Learn from Them!
And Try Not To Do Them Again!
Do Not Let Any one To Disrespect You, Because You Did a Mistake!
That is How We Learn In Life! By Doing Mistakes!
Many Discovered and Great Inventions Are Been Done by Making Mistakes!
So Hold Your Head Up!
And Do Not Worry!
Thank you!
By falicia

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