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Ok I have been on here for a while now. I know I'm not going to meet someone right away. But I have hit a wall.
I see that people have read my profile - BUT that is it - I get nothing. So Please Someone - Anyone check out my Profile and tell me truthfully ( I can take it ) what is wrong with me???

While undergo this life, sometimes what we dreaming of for our life are turning / not suitable with reality.

~ Once we have ever dream that our lifetime project will ended with compliment by our boss, but it failed and ended with a disappointment.
~Once we have ever dream to have a job and be settled on a well establish company, but.., it failed and ended with dismissal.
~ Once we have ever dream to have a harmony marriage, but .. it failed and ended with divorce.
~Once we have ever dream to re try and find another good man on dating site, but.,, it failed and ended with met some terrible scammers.
~ once we have ever dream to have a long and joyful life with our beloved family , but.., it failed and ended with loss.
~ Once we have ever dream to have a peaceful life around the world, but it failed and ended with war and death.

Like it or not those are some stages that once in a life time will be faced by all mankind.
Behind it , there are always a mystery that created by God to make us more clever, responsible, tough, strong and courageous mankind.

Wise spiritual words " Some day we'll be really, really grateful that God gave us what we needed instead of what we thought we wanted."


Happy Sunday for all bloggers and my old friends here...

insecurity
gnawing away their insides
turns to nastiness

(Senryu)

If someone does not approve of certain actions of a person, does that mean he/she HATES that person?
Labelling others as HATERS, MORONS, LOSERS, IDIOTS, IMBECILES, etc., merely because they may not approve of the actions of a person is childish, immature and reflects a certain measure of psychological insecurity.
If you do not agree with the views of others, then criticise their views logically and constructively rather than resort to name calling and deragatory remarks.


(Some of you may be familiar with Haiku.
It's a form of Japanese poetry consisting of three lines:
line 1 - 5 syllables,
line 2 - 7 syllables,
line 3 - 5 syllables
Haiku deals mainly with Nature.
Senryu has a similar format but its focus is on human behaviour.)

Because you’ve settled for mediocrity...

You’re failing because you’ve grown comfortable with mediocrity; because you’ve stopped trying your best, and have accepted being “good enough”.

Because, somewhere along the line, you just gave up and accepted a life far below your potential and expectations.

Because, instead of chasing your dreams, you took the easy way out; You settled for that boring, but safe job. You settled for the first girl to show up because you were afraid of being alone. You settled for spending your entire life in the same corner of the world you were born, because traveling seemed too scary.

Because you’re terrified of sticking your neck out and actually trying to reach your dreams. Instead you chose the comfortable route of hiding within the safety of mediocrity...
#Jt

Paheka(foreigner) translated the word Aotearoa as land of the long white cloud. No.
The true Meaning is Long(roa) Mist(tea) World(Ao), it appears as one word, for this is how we originally wrote our sentences wewrotethemtogether in reverse.
Long Mist World is not just New Zealand, its everywhere in every country,
Back in the old days when English met Maori, The Rangatira of the time were extremely intelligent, they were asked to describe the land which is currently called NZ. And said Aotearoa. They weren't talking about the country, but The Mist, they knew somewhere in the future someone would stumble upon this, and know what they are referring to.

Hidden in plain sight a word that is older than time, an Ancient word worth more than all currency combined.

Maori Cosmology startss with Te Whare Whakairo (Carved House)

The Outside of the house is called Te Ao Marama (Moon World), inside is called Te Ao Po (Night World). I am going to talk about inside the Carved House.
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Why is the Whare referring to night?
Because the reason there are tukutuku panels around their entire walls except the back is a state of Mind and Light Spirit connect. IT is what the seer sees(Mist) from a center point of view and telling instructions of what is to be done. A pole with the carving of a Statue represents Te Rangatira, as the story goes Te Rangatira is the Heart of his world and sees words of Heaven in all directions of his entire vision by focusing at one point. Te Rangatira is telling how he sees The Mist from his/her perspective within Te Whare Whakairo. and if you have a close look you will see paua shells in the eyes of the statue, represents his Soul's Mind.

Google "inside wharenui" and you will see what most Carved houses look like
Inside there are carved walls (poupou)

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whats curious about these images is that they look like sets of stairs
and when given a closer look of these panels you can see they are made up of "X's"
But in fact they are T's lying down or in its edge, this is known as the 1st word of Heaven 'T', also known asthe cross of light by english definition.

Te as in second change s to T Tecond remove cond Te(proper pronunciation extremely important) Te is a silent 'e'

Te is the first letter(word) of the Maori Language, Te Reo Maori, for it is also the heart of all words and the 1st Word of Heaven. and as the story goes, The Stair Way to Heaven(not the song) is through many words of Heaven origin, which u must learn to reach the top. Using Te in a sentence is our way of acknowledging the first word created.

I see The Mist. Daily...
The video that comes close to this is 'the mating dance of the fireflies'
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1:43 is the start ofthe dance

If you wish to learn how to see this Mist, ask. simple.

According to the journal, Science Advances, researchers in Spain conducted a study of the personality types of 540 people and grouped them into four categories: optimistic, pessimistic, trusting, and envious. The first three groups represented sixty percent of the total, and another ten percent were impossible to define. The remainder, the largest single group, was made up of people whose personalities were dominated by envy, though they usually didn’t recognize it.


We all battle envy, of course, but we often don’t realize how much we’re motivated by silent contests with those around us. We quietly compete to get the upper hand, to be noticed, to have our way, and to feed our ego—allow without realizing it.

Envy is an emotion that devalues the importance of loving others. Love is much stronger than envy. The best way to counteract envy is to make up our minds to love others. When we love someone, we want the best for him or her. Suddenly it’s not all about us, it’s about how we can help others succeed.

Whenever you attempt a good work you will find others doing the same kind of work, and probably doing it better. Envy them not!

What are your thoughts about this subject?

Last night I discovered an email I wrote last September, to Mike 'Duke" Venturino, a gun writer and columnist of American Handgunner magazine, concerning an electronic article of his about the possibility of two different types of US military .38 Special ammunition existing, back in the days when weapons of that caliber were often used by some US military forces was published by that magazine in their January/February issue. My communication can be found in the 'Speak Out' section on pages 20 & 21. Regrettably, some photos I had sent him to support my conclusions were not included in the published version. Those who follow such things can view the missing photos and a blog text supporting my conclusions at

Friends,
Love is a magic word in the English language. It not only brings happiness, but on a more subtler level, it is a harbiger of comfort and success. The world is in total mess and turmoil. Its a materialistic world of make believe, films, fake sadhus, psyseudo happines and true lies. You bring happines to a person by faking your emotions in such a style that he starts believeing you instantly.This may take time for you to learn; it is by trail and error. You tug at the long rope of {politics} to get there. And all this program is not easy; your fake charm should look real and impresve to your friend, relative, boss or any of your associates. This type of life is not real.

One of the most awesome concept of spirituality is to love anything ___ living or non living unconditionally. Living means human beings, birds, plants, animals; whilst non-living things may mean anything.___ your shoes, your sleeping bed, your cliothes, your items in your house. To-day's times are difficult times for friendships and associations. At the outset, relationships can fly out of the window over the cuckoos head and not to be heard of again. Associations are coming at a premium and friendship is dead and buried, never to surface again. And what is left now? Everything is destroyed, nothing is saved, but you can start the salvage operations. You pick up piece by piece, join together and see what picture you can paint.

On the other hand, there is an excellent {other} way to find contentment, joy, bliss, which are higher virtues than the so called happiness. You are in possession of one of the greatest word in the world called {love}. You can start loving non-living things. Have you thought of loving your pillow on which you put your beautiful head to sleep? Wish it long life to serve you bettter with a great thank you. what about your shoes? Say thank you every time you slip your feet into them. Shoes are fantastic accessories for a man or a woman for grooming and looking like a King or a Queen on wearing them. Those deprived to have them look poor, desolate and lost in life. And the tables and chairs on which you enjoy a hearty breakfast, a quick fix lunch or a lazy dinner with your family and friends? Have a soft corner for this furniture that cannot talk, but perennially inviting you to come and sit and use them to your heart's comfort. You can always talk to them and thank these non-living pieces of art and you will definitely hear a reply in the corner of your heart.

One of the most important non-living things is the {bed} on which you lay down your tired body after a day's struggle at the work place. How do you thank it? At night, bsfore you go to sleep, be aware of it by thinking of it as your dear friend. Keep your bed clean by changing the bed sheets properly from time to time. Can you sleep without a clean bed containing mattress, bed sheet, pillow with a possible roll over long {Dhool} in which you dig your ever tired legs for comfort? No way! Wish good night to this friend before sleep; you wil really feel good. How many times have you flashed your eyes on your time clock, hung in the prominant place in your room? Many times, but you have never thought of the services it has given you, minute by minute, day by day, year by year by ticking endlesly in its body? Have a humble heart to say to it ___ {a big thank you!}

You will never feel lonely, if you start loving non-living things. Moreoever, to-day's relationships is available at a price; non-living things never set a condition and they are 100% free; save, of course you pay a one time small amount to buy these from the market. Actually, you are not buying, you are forging a life long friendship with this lifeless object, but metamorphically a live concept.
Manohar Bhatia.

A long time ago, when I was having a difficulty geeting a proper job as Nurse in the Philippines, and we were in dire financial struggle, I told God that if need be, I would trade my happy ever after for a chance to be able to provide for my family's needs.

I wasn't being self important by thinking that somehow my voluntary suffering will alleviate the suffering of others. It wasn't about that. But at that time, I was ready to forego my own happiness for something else without fully knowing the consequences. Or how lonely its going to be. And now it seems like God taking it seriously! Oh No! I hope He isnt.

I wonder where my happy ever after is.

(A childish thought for tonight. Nothing too deep. )

Yes I want to be ...if I am already then I want to be more selfish ......
I don't want to care about others because it hurts always ....

With life I am feeling I am learning new tricks to make people fool and how to use them ....

Nice person is always feel used and what he get ...... nothing ...but expectations of people ....that he will do more nice things .....