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It's nice to see people enjoying interactions with each other. I'm working on trying to be more tolerant of loudness, especially in cackling/chortling laughter. The hearing impaired do have a tendency to talk louder, and alcohol deadens the eighth cranial nerve, so we have loud chats in bars. But sober, normal hearing folks in otherwise quiet cafe venues provide their own special sort of distraction. Earbuds and music streaming help.

In order to create good relationships - with your mind, think about what you have to learn from others; with your eyes, look into good qualities of others; with your words, recognise, value and appreciate their accomplishments; with your actions, cooperate and do something for others.

As you might see up there in the title there are some very meaningful and strong words that many of us just do not know their true value..... My life is a roller coaster. My relationship went in shambles and i decided to share some thoughts with you all ... peace

My personal relationship did not work out because i did not trust and did not take things to the next level. If someone's worth the extra effort try and go their way. By that i mean if you have an argument it is ok to give in and not to escalate things. YES it will mean telling them its your fault when deep down you know its not. Deep down your partner will know that they are wrong and will appreciate the extra effort you put into the relationship.

Never say goodbye! It is a really cruel word especially when you are having an argument ... Never go to sleep without talking things over.

Family is important but do not ever let your or her family be the reason to breakup. At the end of the day you would be living with the person and not with their family really. If you do not agree with how family regards your spouse it should not be the cause for breaking up.

Never ever compromise if your partner still meets the ex. If there are kids or real estate it is understandable that you might have to compromise but it does not mean that you should accept everything for e.g a social occasion .... That being said you know when you should trust the partner or not. Trust your gut instinct. It is ALWAYS right!

Honesty is also very important. Show them how much you really love them. It is useless keeping it to yourself out of pride.

Be Positive. Do what it takes to win the other person back. Do not play the proud human and let things fall off your grasp. That being said don't ever be a stalker ... be a gentleman!

Never cheat your partner! You will regret it later on. I was on the receiving end. Be careful that you were not the one to cause it! While nothing justifies affairs .... make sure you never motivate the affair to become a reality because clearly you must have been doing something wrong! And most probably that is why the partner went into rebound mode.

Show commitment, not only to the person but also to the relationship itself. Don't be overloaded with work all the time. You will just instigate thoughts in your partner's head who will in turn cast doubt on the outcome of the relationship.

Don't be cold with your partner who is trying to attempt to fix things between you two after an argument. Don't play proud... it will get you nowhere! You will regret it when someone that really loves you is gone for good..... you will only realise that when it's all too late ...........

Never try to replace your partner with someone else. Another date after a breakup will just resolve nothing! It will only make you feel worse because the person you left is in reality irreplaceable! Stop trying to find your ex in your new acquaintance .... it just won 't happen! And you will mourn your ex even more! Give yourself time!

Think about things! If the relationship is salvageable, then there is no reason not to give it another try! Give it as many tries as necessary. If you really love someone then you should not put a number of lives on the relationship before you say game over. That is just nonsense and will bring you nowhere in life! These days we live in a very busy life .... and there seems to be less and less tolerance between couples ....... Be there for each other and show love to each other.

A rebound 'date' will never make you happy... nor it will make you forget.... you will just feel more and more miserable.

Love is not only on Valentine's ...its for every day of your life. ..... Stop listening to others to forget your partner... especially your new acquaintance ...... Let nobody interfere with what you really want in life ..... Never give up

I moaned and whined about my last job but in reality I meant it more as a chapter in my life that didn't work out and I moved on.

I filed for unemployment and it appears that I have won my case. However, the best bet is to look around, not only because your required to, but because I am a firm believer in keeping busy. I refuse to sit at home living a sedentary life hanging out in my front porch watching the neighbors drink and smoke their money away.

I was checking the books out in the library when I looked up and saw this page, or you could call it a bulletin too, with a bunch of little snippets with a phone number. People usually use this style of ad for renting rooms or something like that. I read the bulletin and it was an offer for people that wanted to work with Seniors and young people with, I think, learning problems. The ad offered a small stipend, paid lunches and mileage.The stipend is not taxed and does not count against any other monies such as SSI. I thought it was a "scam" maybe but then I saw that it was affiliated with the University of Northern Arizona. I took the bait.

I called the number and a Rep came by with paper work galore. I filled all the forms out and within a few days the lady, one named Dorothy, came by with a form for me to get a physical exam. I think I have been accepted because Dorothy has given me some advice and said I would be on a training program. I think the visits with Dorothy counted alot because it looks positive.

There are Seniors that need a visit, a way to get to the store, someone to drive them around in their car for doctor visits and other appointments. Part of the duties also require that you read to these people. Feed them their meals and just meet with young people.

I am looking forward to this. And i hope that I am accepted!!

Anytime you think about someones' bad side or the bad someone has don, you just feel some level of hatred for that person, while not pause a bit and just think about one tiny good side of the person, you will get a whole different feelings about that person, i think that helps to deal with hatred and enmity

DON'T QUIT

When things go wrong, as they sometimes will,
When the road you're trudging seems all uphill,
When the funds are low and the debts are high,
And you want to smile, but you have to sigh,
When care is pressing you down a bit,
Rest, if you must, but don't you quit.

Life is queer with its twists and turns,
As every one of us sometimes learns,
And many failure turns about,
When he might have won had he stuck it out;
Don't give up though the pace seems slow...
You may succeed with another blow.

Often the goal is nearer than,
It seems to a faint and faltering man,
Often the struggler has given up,
When he might have captured the victor's cup,
And he learned too late when the night slipped down,
How close he was to the golden crown,

Success is failure turned inside out..
The silver tint of the clouds of doubt,
And you never can tell how close you are,
It may be near when it seems so far,
So stick to the fight when you're hardest hit..
It's when things seems worst that you must not quit.....

DON'T QUIT

Sent to me by someone....

Woke up to a beautiful beautiful Monday morning here

I posted these quite some time ago and thought I'd do it again because we all need a reminder or two once in awhile

Well, my dear CS peeps, have a lovely lovely week ahead because I know I will

"WARNINGS SIGNS"

ITs All Depend, At What Stage You Are At The Moment!
If you Already are seen Visions, If you Are Feeling Violent!, Toward Other People, If You Are Letting Your Self Go,You are not feeling Hungry To eat Your " Favourite Foods", If you are Staying in doors, Not wanted to See or Talk to Anyone,If You Feel Unworthy, If you Feeling Not Wanted to live Anymore.
"You Need To Seek Medical Help Immediate"
Get Your Self To A Near Hospital!
"Please Do it For Your Self And your Loves One"
"Medications Should Be The Last Result"
" And Just For Short Time" By Reducing the Doses Slowly! " This Is To Avoid Addiction!

What Help You To Overcome Depression!

To Overcome Depression: You Need To Express What You Are Feeling( Talk, Talk) If You Can Not Talk To A Love One ," Contact Head Space" Or Similar Helping Place ! As soon Is Possible!
They Will Counselling You, And you Will Feel Better And Better!
"Do Not Miss Any Appointmments"
...................................................Continued....................................................................................................By falicia
What Is Your Opinion?

Remember To Improve Our Self Esteem!, We Have To Improve Our Self Image!
Smell Good Is Important! Special On The Dance Floor!
By Taking Often Showers ,Using Long Lasting Deodorant Not Just Underarms But Between Your Toes Too! After Every Shower!
Use Tea Tree Product In Extreme Cases.
Have A Special Shoes, Just To Go Out It Will Smell Fresh Every Time!
You Should Wear Clean Clothes After Every Shower!
Wash Your Clothes , With A Nice Detergent , and Softener!
Invest Your Money In Long Lasting Fragrances: Like Perfume Or Eau The Toilette, Channel Number5 Perfume, Channel Blue Perfume,Dior Sauvage Perfume, Giorgio Prejuro, Prada Hombre,Versace Dilan Blue.
Do Ask For Lay-bys At Queen Street Campbelltown NSW Chemist.
Go To Try Those Perfume and Eau The Toilette At Davies Jones In Campbelltown NSW Or Find A Place Near You!

Take PrideOf Your Self! It Will Make You Feel Confident And Happy!

By Balicia





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so let me get straight to the point. this is my 2nd account and i must admit that it’s not as fun as my 1st experience here. so why the need to make a new account? well i met someone from my previous account whom i thought was the one which is why i deleted it. turned out he wasn’t it and he is now happily married to someone else. i’m writing this coz i am still honestly hurt with what happened. it hurts to think how easy it was for him to replace me let alone marrying her. it hurts to think that he is now happy while i am still left alone still wondering what have gone wrong. i may sound so sad but nope. there are just days that i can’t help but question what is wrong with me. i’m just needing this to vent out a bit. cheers to all.