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according to all online quotes.
Putting on my investigative hat i decided to research as to why this might be !
While flicking through a news storyI came across stumbled upon This Article !



Now I never even knew that was a thing.
Did you ?

I also wonder,
Given his history did Donald Trump have a hand in mrs Bum Bum

So there's three things for you all to natter about among yourselves.

Remember Keep it clean people

My thoughts of today: For my children: Karen, Krystynn, Camille and Sonny


when you are bled to death and the last drop of that blood seems to last forever, you then turn around and say: it isn't my time just yet, I still have a lot of mountains to climb
a bunch of beautiful flowers to witness to bloom
furious and perilous rivers to cross
wild and vast oceans to navigate
gales and winds to test your strength
but none so like that of raising children
who gave you great and lovely grand children
to run around with until you are all drained
of temporary but recurrent energy
to laugh and scream with joys until your belly explodes
to roll your eyes with when they ask you direct and very unadulterated questions
to lack the time to think knowingly so that you have lost the knack of strong and positive opinions
which was your forte of decades ago
and yes, you come to terms that with each day
you don't have to let anyone bleeds you because
life is: beautiful yet challenging
disappointing at times yet comforting
but most of all, nothing can equal your pride
of knowing that you have these creations
around you, with you and in front of you
saying in unison: Mom and Dad, thank you for
all the love you have given us, and now we give it to our children
hoping they would to their children and goes on and on
Forever.

And the good thing is: we can all do it, regardless of colors, beliefs and ways of life. Yes, we can all do it. with million more of years to come sustained by this old but only earth we know, we can all do it. Perhaps not of the same intensity but in our own individual ways, we can.

So let us love one another and stop calling on to bleed anyone for we are all children of this world, no more no less.

I love you all.




Note: my acknowledgement of the fact that life has to be sorted out not with violence but with an overwhelming effort to spread love even to those who seems cold about it.

You can’t stop people from talking about you.


People are mean. They will make judgments about you right off the bat without any prior knowledge and they will try to mold you into a character
they deem worthy of respect. If you construct your identity around the criticism of others, you will end up being a very boring person.

It is not until you’ve stripped yourself of your personal opinions, only to have someone find fault with your new identity, that you realize how little other people’s opinions matter. Someone will build you up only to tell you that you’re doing everything entirely wrong and sometimes, that’s the only way to realize that people will talk about you no matter
what you do.

Long story short: you won’t satisfy everyone, and if you try, you’ll either end up dull or crazy...
#Jt

Dreams are very funny stuff:
Some people believe that they are a prediction of the future, warning, wishes come true, as long as they just behave or act a certain way. Thus your dreams are manipulating you as much as if it was people telling you what to do and you act with total acquiescence.

Lots of predictions are determined from people dreaming it, and believing it. We have Nostradamus for example. Ever heard of him? Ever read his writings? It can be used for just about any happening closely matched. So can we believe that the future can be predicted, or if De Javu is possible? Wishfull thinking or Proof?

Now are we clever or very stupid, is the question!

you are told that you cannot make it because your too fat, too slim, too dark, too fair, too thin. Laugh and say adversity knows not my name. When they tread on your heart and kick you to the curb, get up out of the gutter using these words you have heard. I was told I can't help you, your not famous enough or rich, they never knew I was clever, they thought I was thick. When it comes to your own life you will be all right. Failure is just another way not to do something and takes you closer to your dreams. GET UP and STAND, say I am victorious without your permission. Greatness lays within you just dig deeper and be an overcomer. Today you have 1st place. Keep pushing, keep going, continue up the hill until you are

From last week I have been reading a story about Rachel Doezal,
she identify herslef as a black-person. <only she white>

Long ago I had a friend who is a white Jamaican,I had never thought about him being white.

I have 2 dauthers they are half and half,they are at home on the Island and very much at home here.

So my question is. If Rachel Doeszal wants tobe a black person

why not let her be the person she identifys with ??

Good day CS. I haven't wriiten in a while. but now, i have something I want to talk about, so here I am..

All my life, I've always been so careful and really cautious about my steps. Making sure that i don't make any wrong major decision. People around admired how my life is in the right direction. Giving praises to my parents on how they raised me well and and how lucky they are to have a chilf like me..

The thing is, I had people's admiration, but I was living under too much pressure. I thought I was happy with it, but it didn't feel like living my life the way that I can achieve the kind of happiness that goes through your soul. The kind of happiness that inspires you to be bolder and take risks.

I thought it was because of lack of a certain person in my life. A love interest to be exact. So I entered a relationship thinking that it would give me the push I needed. But instead of being pushed, I became more comfortable. Instead of bettering myself, I focused on bettering the other person that I put myself less in priority. After a long while, I realized the relationship is getting nowhere, and some triggering situations, I ended the relationship.

Then I opened myself up to dating again. I dated a few guys of different background, races, and personalities. Until I found one guy who suited all the criteria. He was one of the triggers of big changes in me. He is a great guy. Values, personality, availability. However, he made it clear that he cannot commit, so I stopped seeing him. It was difficult, but I cannot continue with something without guarantee..

I guess what I'm trying to say is, even when Ive tried to change my outlook and the way i see things, some values and beliefs never change. Ive changed so much, but I'm still the little miss cautious me..

It,s so nice to help someone in need.
I know i,ve bin banging on about posative and negative but I,m trying to priech posative thinking to the negative people here.

I used to criticise everything in the past and felt really bad afterwards.Turned to alchohol in my negativity for many years it takes you nowhere.

I was out the other night and one of my talented musitions friends was doing a gig and he was struggling on stage he,s a solo act singer guitare

He beconded me by a hand movment to come up on the stage and whispered" dave sing a few songs I,m hung over and I feel bad .

So I sang 3 songs and "whisperd Kia say your having a short break which he did"

He got some food down him and plenty of water and came back and we did a couple of songs as a duet.

Later when heed finished he thanked me for helping him when he was in trouble "any I can do for you" he said.
I said" kia it was a pleasure helping you when YOU WERE IN NEED".

i just want to throw this out there please answer as honest as possible thank you

Well am not fully back because I still need to get a new modem since that was lost in the fire.


I have now found a nice little place its not perfect as its not my personally own place but for now its mine until I stop paying my rent and its what I call home for now..


I have not been here much for the past few months but greetings to all new commers and the ones that were here before.

Wishing for you all a peaceful holiday season.