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~~ AT LEAST I DONE IT ~~
I did it. I distanced myself from the constant drama. The personal attacks, designed to cause trouble. It was the best thing I ever did. It cost me some friendships, I knew it would, but for the sake of my own health, I did it afterwards much lamenting , but being in their company was like walking on egg shells. I just can't do it anymore . I limit my time in their company, and avoid conversation. I share nothing with them, it took me years to finally give up, I tried and tried, not any more. Best thing I did. Amazing how the stress level dropped, and I feel no loss for that particular person.
Why you're failing at life
Because you’ve settled for mediocrity...
You’re failing because you’ve grown comfortable with mediocrity; because you’ve stopped trying your best, and have accepted being “good enough”.
Because, somewhere along the line, you just gave up and accepted a life far below your potential and expectations.
Because, instead of chasing your dreams, you took the easy way out; You settled for that boring, but safe job. You settled for the first girl to show up because you were afraid of being alone. You settled for spending your entire life in the same corner of the world you were born, because traveling seemed too scary.
Because you’re terrified of sticking your neck out and actually trying to reach your dreams. Instead you chose the comfortable route of hiding within the safety of mediocrity...
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You’re failing because you’ve grown comfortable with mediocrity; because you’ve stopped trying your best, and have accepted being “good enough”.
Because, somewhere along the line, you just gave up and accepted a life far below your potential and expectations.
Because, instead of chasing your dreams, you took the easy way out; You settled for that boring, but safe job. You settled for the first girl to show up because you were afraid of being alone. You settled for spending your entire life in the same corner of the world you were born, because traveling seemed too scary.
Because you’re terrified of sticking your neck out and actually trying to reach your dreams. Instead you chose the comfortable route of hiding within the safety of mediocrity...
#Jt
Content
Gratitude. Appreciation. Giving thanks. No matter what words you use, it all means the same thing. Happy. We’re supposed to be happy. Grateful for friends, family, happy to just be alive… whether we like it or not.
Maybe we’re not supposed to be happy. Maybe gratitude… has nothing to do with joy. Maybe being grateful means recognizing what you have for what it is. Appreciating small victories. Admiring the struggle it takes simply to be human.
Maybe we’re thankful for the familiar things we know. And maybe we’re thankful for the things we’ll never know.
At the end of the day, the fact that we have the courage to still be standing… is reason enough to celebrate...
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Maybe we’re not supposed to be happy. Maybe gratitude… has nothing to do with joy. Maybe being grateful means recognizing what you have for what it is. Appreciating small victories. Admiring the struggle it takes simply to be human.
Maybe we’re thankful for the familiar things we know. And maybe we’re thankful for the things we’ll never know.
At the end of the day, the fact that we have the courage to still be standing… is reason enough to celebrate...
#Jt
Valued Bloggers Family
Have A NICE DAY.
All Bloggers Family.
Why we blog?
Is it to gain knowledge
Is it to give knowledge
Is it for Complements
Is it for more comments
Is it for fun
Is it to Disgrace someone
Is it to through mud on someone
Is it to Show Ego
Is it letdown Someone
I Always Blog to Respect Each other's
Or Gain some knowledge.
Please no offensive Comment
Just to Value People.
All Are Valuable for Me.
All Bloggers Family.
Why we blog?
Is it to gain knowledge
Is it to give knowledge
Is it for Complements
Is it for more comments
Is it for fun
Is it to Disgrace someone
Is it to through mud on someone
Is it to Show Ego
Is it letdown Someone
I Always Blog to Respect Each other's
Or Gain some knowledge.
Please no offensive Comment
Just to Value People.
All Are Valuable for Me.
A meaningful life is more important than a happy 1
Because we don’t know how to handle negativity. We can identify it. But we don’t handle it well. And continually striving for ultimate satisfaction with
abandon and disregard of the reality of what that will entail leaves us inevitably and ultimately disappointed.
Because we struggle to see a hard time or negative feeling as a natural process that doesn’t necessarily detract from our overall satisfaction, but meaning allows us to. If we’re gauging by only happiness however, every negative feeling is a strike against our overall fulfillment, so to say.
Working for meaning as opposed to happiness keeps us aware of the fact that having and processing different emotions isn’t just normal, it’s healthy. It keeps us in tune with the fact that great things do indeed usually require some suffering, and that our lives wouldn’t be what they are
without that...
#Jt
abandon and disregard of the reality of what that will entail leaves us inevitably and ultimately disappointed.
Because we struggle to see a hard time or negative feeling as a natural process that doesn’t necessarily detract from our overall satisfaction, but meaning allows us to. If we’re gauging by only happiness however, every negative feeling is a strike against our overall fulfillment, so to say.
Working for meaning as opposed to happiness keeps us aware of the fact that having and processing different emotions isn’t just normal, it’s healthy. It keeps us in tune with the fact that great things do indeed usually require some suffering, and that our lives wouldn’t be what they are
without that...
#Jt
You cant stop people from talking about you
You can’t stop people from talking about you.
People are mean. They will make judgments about you right off the bat without any prior knowledge and they will try to mold you into a character
they deem worthy of respect. If you construct your identity around the criticism of others, you will end up being a very boring person.
It is not until you’ve stripped yourself of your personal opinions, only to have someone find fault with your new identity, that you realize how little other people’s opinions matter. Someone will build you up only to tell you that you’re doing everything entirely wrong and sometimes, that’s the only way to realize that people will talk about you no matter
what you do.
Long story short: you won’t satisfy everyone, and if you try, you’ll either end up dull or crazy...
#Jt
People are mean. They will make judgments about you right off the bat without any prior knowledge and they will try to mold you into a character
they deem worthy of respect. If you construct your identity around the criticism of others, you will end up being a very boring person.
It is not until you’ve stripped yourself of your personal opinions, only to have someone find fault with your new identity, that you realize how little other people’s opinions matter. Someone will build you up only to tell you that you’re doing everything entirely wrong and sometimes, that’s the only way to realize that people will talk about you no matter
what you do.
Long story short: you won’t satisfy everyone, and if you try, you’ll either end up dull or crazy...
#Jt
HIDE N SEEK
BLOGGERS FAMILY.
HAVE A NICE SUNDAY.
Why Members Hide
Their Profile
I never Hide Mine
From Last 3 Years
HAVE A NICE SUNDAY.
Why Members Hide Their Profile I never Hide Mine From Last 3 Years How to tell the truth about your life
The thing about life is that whatever you conceal is what owns you. It becomes the only thing about who you are, because it is the only thing that you will not let out into the world.
When you say your life is great when it’s not great, when you’re hurting, when you’re on the downswing, you subtly give yourself permission to lie about who you are, to allow what other people think of your life to mean more to you than what you think about your life.
There’s only one reason people lie about the state of their life: for the benefit of others...
#Jt
When you say your life is great when it’s not great, when you’re hurting, when you’re on the downswing, you subtly give yourself permission to lie about who you are, to allow what other people think of your life to mean more to you than what you think about your life.
There’s only one reason people lie about the state of their life: for the benefit of others...
#Jt
The truth about meeting someone at the wrong time
You never meet the right people at the wrong time because the right people are timeless. The right people make you want to throw away the plans you originally had for one and follow them into the hazy, unknown future without a glance backwards.
The right people don’t make you hmm and haw about whether or not you want to be with them; you just know. You know that any adventure you had originally planned out for your future isn’t going to be half as incredible as the adventures you could have by their side.
That no matter what you thought you wanted before, this is better. Everything is better since they came along.
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The right people don’t make you hmm and haw about whether or not you want to be with them; you just know. You know that any adventure you had originally planned out for your future isn’t going to be half as incredible as the adventures you could have by their side.
That no matter what you thought you wanted before, this is better. Everything is better since they came along.
#Jt
Not everything is as it seems. Food for thought
Not everything is as it seems.
once on a farm there was a bird. The bird would follow a cow around, and when the cow took a dump, the bird would eat the seeds out of the poop. One day the bird got too close and the cow shit all over him. An old barn cat saw this and came over and cleaned off the bird. As soon as the bird was nice and clean the cat ate him. Not everyone that craps on you is your enemy, not everything that cleans you off is your friend...
#Jt
once on a farm there was a bird. The bird would follow a cow around, and when the cow took a dump, the bird would eat the seeds out of the poop. One day the bird got too close and the cow shit all over him. An old barn cat saw this and came over and cleaned off the bird. As soon as the bird was nice and clean the cat ate him. Not everyone that craps on you is your enemy, not everything that cleans you off is your friend...
#Jt
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