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Just as a woman is looking for a good man, a man is also looking for a good woman.

Bitter truth: every person in this world is a mixture of goodness and badness, virtues and flaws. Nobody is 100% good and nobody is 100% bad. By the way, every person considers himself good from his point of view.

Goodness is liked by all, due to which man and woman are attracted towards each other. They become so blind in each other's attraction that each other's flaws are not visible, after some time when the passion of attraction subsides,
each other's flaws start showing then breakups happen. So be careful, If you are attracted to someone's goodness, keep in mind that they also have flaws, will you be able to accept their flaws or not?

The ability to accept each other's flaws determines how long the relationship will last.

Our mind is designed to run on both belief and truth. It is necessary to strike a balance between the two.
Truth is bitter, belief is sweeter. Truth requires logic, belief does not require logic. Truth is an endless process of logic, belief is a full-stop of logic. Truth is workout, belief is rest. Truth requires a brain, belief does not require a brain.

A scientist reaches a truth by applying a lot of logics. Many years later, another scientist proves that truth wrong by applying another logic. In this way the endless process of logic continues in truth.

Everyone believes in Belief according to their own will. For this we twist the truth in favor of our belief.

We cannot always depend on logic alone, nor can we always depend on belief. It is important to keep a balance in both. If both are imbalanced then we will start harming ourselves and each other.

but too kind to do that...
when they f*cked up, put you in a very difficult situation and you have to clean up their mess...
'can only silently scream, f--k! f--k!! f--k!!! f--k!!!!

When any emotion inside us becomes intense due to some reason and becomes out of control, then our ability to understand right or wrong gets affected. At that time only things that are favorable to that emotion, seems right.

Well, no emotions (feelings) are bad itself. Every emotion (feeling) has its own importance in life. As long as they are in control, they are good and useful; when they are out of control, they are bad and harmful.

A man went to God and asked, “What is my value?”
God gave him one stone and said, “Find out the value of this stone, but don’t sell it.”
The man took the stone to an Orange Seller and asked him what it’s cost would be.
The Orange Seller saw the shiny stone and said, “You can take 12 oranges and give me the stone.”
The man apologized and said that the God has asked him not to sell it.
He went ahead and found a vegetable seller. “What could be the value of this stone?” he asked the vegetable seller. The seller saw the shiny stone and said, “Take one sack of potatoes and give me the stone.”
The man again apologized and said he can’t sell it.
Further ahead, he went into a jewellery shop and asked the value of the stone.
The jeweller saw the stone under a lens and said, “I’ll give you 50 Lakhs for this stone.” When the man shook his head, the jeweller said, “Alright, alright, take 2 crores, but give me the stone.”
The man explained that he can’t sell the stone. Further ahead, the man saw a precious stone’s shop and asked the seller the value of this stone.
When the precious stone’s seller saw the big ruby, he lay down a red cloth and put the ruby on it. Then he walked in circles around the ruby and bent down and touched his head in front of the ruby.
“From where did you bring this priceless ruby from?” he asked. “Even if I sell the whole world, and my life, I won’t be able to purchase this priceless stone.
Stunned and confused, the man returned to the God and told him what had happened. “Now tell me what is my value, God?

God said, “The answers you got from the Orange Seller, the Vegetable Seller, the Jeweller & the Precious Stone’s Seller explain the value of our life… You may be a precious stone, even priceless, but people may value you based on their level of information, their belief in you, their motive behind entertaining you, their ambition, and their risk taking ability. But don’t fear, you will surely find someone who will discern your true value.”

In the eyes of God you are very very precious. Respect yourself. You are Unique. No one can Replace you!

Respect yourself..  Don’t undermine yourself.



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no one ever get a perfect life.

If you get everything in life, what will you wish for?
Some unfulfilled wishes, gives the joy of life.

“I’m a certain way, but I should be some other way.”,

This world is a crazy and sick place, and humans in general are not beautiful. But it’s all subtle, and most people do not see this(i am sorry ...
if you think otherwise)

Don't you want to know yourself ?

Can you live joyfully without knowing yourself?

Knowing yourself means understanding your strengths and weaknesses, your passions and fears, your desires and dreams. It means being aware of your eccentricities and idiosyncrasies, your likes and dislikes, and your tolerances and limitations. Knowing yourself means knowing your purpose in life.

How well-fixed are you with your own morality?
What are your biggest fears?
Your self-limiting beliefs?
Your relationship with money and wealth?
Your human relationships with friends, family?
Role gratitude plays in your life?
What you think you can do as a human?

What is that something you always love doing, even when you are tired or rushed? Why?
What lifts up your joy?
What you think is possible for you?

“The purpose of the heart is to know yourself to be yourself and yet one with God.”
- Edgar Cayce.

Without virtue, man is most unholy and savage, and worst in regard to sex and eating.
Aristotle.

human being is responsible for its own actions despite of the obstacles in life.

“The heart is the most powerful generator of electromagnetic energy in the human body,
the heart actually sends more information to the brain than the brain sends to the heart.

We All have Light And dark side within. Need to fight!
behavior is valuation.
The more you know about yourself, the more you can make wise decisions for interacting with the world around you.

how stupid, sick, and twisted this world is, until the insights start rolling in, or you implode instead. And oh yeah, this is the most painful path.

Your dreams matter. Your dreams are important. Your dreams are worth going after. Don’t believe anything less.

now time to meet with a realized Master or Guru who arrives from nowhere 'through the Power of Thoughts.'
(Most important Never compromise your self.)
a guide shows us the way. While....
a guide keeps us on the right path.

To enter the Spiritual Path, we all enter the Path of Knowledge to experience deep integrity and a changed life style.
After we have.....
illuminate a radiant path to the center of our own being to be oneself; and show us the way to carry that light into the shadowed world.
This capacity to be yourself is very much about being free of the traps of conceptual identity,

Really knowing yourself is a worthy aim and an important step is to be clear on what really knowing yourself means before putting effort into it.

Knowing oneself is the first step towards making good rapport not only with one’s own mind and body but also with the other. This other can be husband, wife, mother, father, brother or anyone.

Once we have understood how our mind functions, and as we witness the rise and fall of emotions in mind, we are better equipped not to get carried away with these waves of mind. Life gives us situations, not solutions.

Solutions are always created by our wisdom. In most of the relationships we see around, the basic problem remains the same.

that one is a NOBODY and NOTHING, then, the one who would realize THAT....
However, zero plus zero will remain zero. You have to know this truth: nothing, neither people nor things, can make you rich; nobody can give meaning to your life. So, stop hankering for appreciation, sympathy or love from others..

Meditation and Self Evaluation are one of the best ways to find out ourselves. So try to give time to yourself and do yourself talk which will help you to find the best version of yourself.

more to come... comment
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We all have some memories ..
Some sweet , some sour , some bitter ...
Few smiles and few tears ...

These are those dewdrops of moments , that make the paths of our life memorable till to the end ....

People leave..
Time leaves ...
Only thing that's left behind with us , is MEMORY ...

For so long I have been stressed, numb, no empathy and tonight I got free. I found out that I am human and not a beast. Even though we were both created on the sixth day.

I realized that dancing and enjoying the company of other single women can be so freeing. Knowing that I can go out and enjoy myself...without a man. Life is starting to take on a new meaning. Point is it is ok to be sixty six years old and single. Feels kinda good.

"Life is really simple, but we insist on making it complicated." -Confucius.

"Live in the sunshine, swim the sea, drink the wild air." -Ralph Waldo Emerson.

"Life is never fair, and perhaps it is a good thing for most of us that it is not." -Oscar Wilde

"The only impossible journey is the one you never begin." -Tony Robbins.

We must be willing to let go of the life we have planned, so as to have the life that is waiting for us.

E. M. Forster.

"You have brains in your head. You have feet in your shoes. You can steer yourself any direction you choose." -Dr. Seuss.

The way to get started is to quit talking and begin doing. -Walt Disney.

"You become what you believe." -Oprah Winfrey

"The most difficult thing is the decision to act, the rest is merely tenacity." -Amelia Earhart.