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Jack Ma, funny yet very inspirational

Its been quite some times I has absent from create a blog. Not because lake of sources,
but as a matter of fact, I was too busy felt sorry for my self and situation after got work termination.

For those who have ever suffered a same situation like me might felt as same as mind.
Confused..,
Desperately..,
Angry..,
Speechless.,
Blank of any idea...etc..

But.., God is Mighty and always know what we needed most than what we wanted most.
He turn me up from an ordinary employee into a business woman.
He does not matter how old I am, how weak I am, how unfaithful (sometimes) I am to Him.
He keeps caring, loves, and teach me that be able to contribute hobby and expertise in culinary
to happy people who enjoy it, is a blessing

Its been a month I am doing this online culinary business at home. The branded is " CRISPY BITES".
Starting from 2 tastes of Chicken Rice Bowls and 4 variant of Banana Crispy Nuggets, now it has become
6 tastes of Chicken Rice Bowls, 8 variant Banana Crispy Nuggets and 3 variant of soft drinks.

The funny things is those inspiration of new dish always come to me when I wake up in the morning.
Ideas always comes in the right time and place.

So bloggers, never give up on your life, go get your dream, cherish every minutes that you have by
making yourself useful to people around you. Dont make ages become a barrier. Be always proud of your self.

Happy weekend to all bloggers..

From time to time here, where almost all posts are largely in good taste, if pointed, one does see the rare quite inappropriate blog. Profanity, too direct s*xual references, and so on. If I were a betting man, I'd bet on the drink. Sad, sad, sad. I should know. Aa.

These walls are built of stone, packed with clay, plastered, painted - and with time, the cracks show. Paint flakes off, plaster crumbles, cracks become missing chunks, and when you pry away a rotten patch, sand cascades down.

Clear away the damaged bits, treat the thirsty wall, fill the damaged bits, plaster over them. Repeat. Year by year by year.

The well-maintained old wall will never look new. It's tempting to spruce it briefly with a quick coat of paint, but take time, get to the root of the problem and treat it properly, and the wall stands proud and firm again.

















We’re all walls.

There was a woman who won a contest to a an exotic island and she was so excited
as she told all her friends and family and in her excitement she wondered what will
she need to take and what she will have to pack up on her journey.
However, when she learned that some stranger was going to accompany her she felt kind of weird about this whole arrangement

Nevertheless she said to herself a chance of a lifetime to go to place she has never been was so exciting.
Now when she had met up with her partner who was going to accompany her she found he was tall dark and handsome type and seemed to a gentleman of such.

Yet there was something about him that made her feel on edge.
As she greeted him the first thing he said to her was she wont be needing all the crap she packed in her suitcase where she was going.

She kind of seemed perplexed to say what do you mean I have my clothes and things and a couple books and sunscreen and some things of value to me I want to take so what is wrong with that she thought. Well as part of the conditions of the trip she had to select only what she could carry in her heart and mind. She thought about what she was going to do with all her belongings in the suitcase and frustrated about her choice between the suitcase and what she valued within her heart and mind she was really in a bind of what she thought was important.

She thought of her life, her friends, her position in life and all the things she accumulated in her life as she was reasonably wealthy.
She just could not figure out what was of most valuable to her that she can think upon for the duration of her journey.

However, as it came close to the time that she was boarding her plane she sort of looked at this guy she did not know but, he seemed familiar and was rather upset with him as why he suggested to bring only what is important to her.

Nevertheless, she thought well she had her thoughts her feelings her perceptions ideas her passions reflections and dreams her memories of such and decided they were the most important things that mattered.

The man said to her that he was relieved because nobody wants your anger or hate or bitterness
because where you are going is to see my father in Heaven where you will dwell in paradise with me and him who sent for you.
All your experiences all the things you learned in this life is all anyone really has.
The material world is made to serve you but it will not be needed when it comes time to leave this world.

How do we define self sabotaging behavior as there are many definitions and many ways
we often sabotage our efforts to form healthy relationships with people.
We often say and do things that we know will bring harm upon us an unconscious level that we
don't recognize until its too late.

The patterns are subtle but quite damaging. A few examples is one may be chatting with a potential
friend or lover online they get up to a point of quality communication you tell your love interest many
adoring things that make them melt in your hands then because of something you don't know about
why your love interest stopped corresponding and you don't know what you said or you don't know
their reasons why they chose not to chat or you offer them a break to think about things and then become angry why they have not responded. This is a sign of what I call the "Controlling Saboteur" who whines for attention and then when he/she does not get the quality or quantity of attention they cut the communication off.

They tell their love interest that they may not be interested and make all kinds of assumptions not knowing the truth of why their love interest is not communicating. They seek exclusive attention and become a bit obsessive.
They recognize or they may tell their love interest they have a life outside of the online love arena but resent
that they do hence, they don't focus on their own life but the life of their love interest.


Another saboteur is what I call the "On top of the World" type. He or she has everything going for them a good job, friends, family, home, car the works but throws it all away getting in trouble such as going on a killing spree
or drinks themselves to death watching their lives slowly fall apart as they lose their job family home etc.

Then there is the "Loner by Choice saboteur" who has no faith or hope in finding anyone to love them so they resign to accepting their hermitage life and nobody is worthy to ever enter in their life. Outwardly they tell everyone they are just peachy and don't want anyone. They have their TV, their movies, their dog, and their junk food and their two cents of thought to post on a blog yet deep inside there is a silent scream within, that nobody hears from the loner that they really want someone but, fear they will be misunderstood hence, they choose to be in their "loner" comfort zone and they don't have to answer to anyone but themselves.

The problem with self sabotage is many who do so, feel so horrible about themselves their self esteem is non existent that they may have to look it up in the dictionary to understand what that means.
Many may sabotage themselves to fail because that is all they know and have fears of success.
The problem of fears of success is the fear of responsibility that comes with that success and the work to maintain that success. A scary thought indeed. When you are already down nobody expects much from you.

In conclusion I feel in many areas of my life I have self sabotage down to a science though its nothing to boast about or be proud about but, who among us is without sin? Who among us will not admit they sabotage their efforts of happiness at any level because they can justify themselves of their plight.
To the world they will paint a pic they are on top of their game behind the computer screen they may reveal a much different person.

Life is hard until you make it easy.....

The bulkhead yielded

Anyone else remember that passage?

How about the great desert acrpss the stars around us. Where every star system had been visited and sterilized in a long ago fear driven attempt to eradicate us a species. But they missed one.

Who else read that tale?

No other known Hominid or primate species that ever walked the Earth had a foot arch. We are unique. There are other puzzles about us the more we study.

I tend to think most things on telly are true.

according to all online quotes.
Putting on my investigative hat i decided to research as to why this might be !
While flicking through a news storyI came across stumbled upon This Article !



Now I never even knew that was a thing.
Did you ?

I also wonder,
Given his history did Donald Trump have a hand in mrs Bum Bum

So there's three things for you all to natter about among yourselves.

Remember Keep it clean people